Bald guy picking up girls

[jd_uk]

Regardless of what anyone says about this video...i am grateful to him for doing it. It can be a reality check that there are many women who just don't care about baldness like we think they do. So much of it is how we feel about ourselves.

 

[pjhair]

Did you follow these ugly 5'8 men in the bedroom with these girls? Did you see him bang them? No? Then it's all false positives.

Seeing a bald guy making a group of girls laugh doesn't mean h e's banging them. Also, stop the PUA BS about giving too much interest.

If a hot girl comes to you and shows too much interest too fast and looks desperate, are you going to reject her? Of course not.

Bald men can definitely get women, but not regularly, and it will be a goddamn struggle every time. Because he'll be disadvantage.

Use your common sense here, of course bald men will have a much harder time picking up women. If you were bald yourself, you would understand.

You don't need to follow someone to bed room to find out if two people are dating or having sex. I saw him dating hot women and passionately making out with girls he met at parties. At least read what I wrote carefully before responding to me. I never said I saw him making a group of girls laugh. I said something exactly opposite. I explicitly said the following in my very first post: "He didn't even have good sense of humor." Also, I wasn't giving a PUA advise when I said he expressed interest in women without looking desperate. I said the following: "How did he do it? I am not sure. One thing he did do was express interest in women WITHOUT looking desperate." I clearly said I didn't know what he did and was merely describing how he acted. You want to disagree with me, fine. But at least read what I wrote carefully before attempting to come up with a coherent response. Also, I already said that baldness does make getting girls harder but it doesn't mean it makes it impossible. You said pretty much the same thing so I am not sure why did you feel the need to try to debate me. Not paying close attention to what I wrote perhaps?

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Also, I never said the guy in my college was ugly. I said he had average face.

 

[big_head]

The vast majority of these types of videos use paid actors.

Also, I've talked to plenty of girls who joked and smiled around me and never had sex with me.

In other words: videos like this prove nothing.

 

[blackg]

I guess that guy can go home and jerk off and think about all the girls he accosted as he made them laugh.

 

[John McClane]

It's obvious bald men can still get hot women.
It is a little bit harder maybe, but yes you can still attract women, assuming hair was not your only positive trait of course.
The problem is that you are so mentally affected by this thing that for you this is impossible, and so you always find some excuses to justify that (the video is fake, the girl gives him is number but this doesn't mean anything, etc.).
Please, you need to get rid of this extremely negative view of hair loss.

 

[jd_uk]

It's not excuses, it's common knowledge now that pretty much all YouTube 'experiments" are fake, their only goal is to make views (and money).

And by experience, I and many other guys can tell you that getting a phone number means nothing. I used to have a 50% success rate at getting phone numbers from women.

After approaching roughly 50 women and getting 20 phone numbers like the guy does on the video, I just stopped, because 95% of these phone numbers were useless.

The girl didn't reply, or the number was fake, or she strung me along for a long time without actually wanting to meet me. In the end, I got a couple of dates from these 50 approaches.

And those dates didn't even lead to a kiss. So I figured I had more productive things to do with my life than approaching random girls on the street.

Oh and by the way, I wasn't even bald when I did this, I was sporting what looked like a normal NW2 to the outside world. So imagine what my stats would have been as a bald man.

They didn't reply to you? Maybe you just didn't hsve good game. The more you post, the more i realise you don't know much about women.

The guy doing these videos has had some good stuff for ages and no doubt he sleeps with plenty of them. A bald guy i go on nights out with pulls for fun.

 

[Rudiger]

Did you follow these ugly 5'8 men in the bedroom with these girls? Did you see him bang them? No? Then it's all false positives.

Seeing a bald guy making a group of girls laugh doesn't mean h e's banging them.

And today on Fred Logic:

NW3 taking a beautiful woman back to a hotel and booking a room with her arm-in-arm and going into said room and closing the door behind them = No chance of banging her. She's about to stop being polite. False positives duh.

NW1 brushes elbow with random girl in elevator = damn I hope they're using double protection I'm sure he has super Norwood sperm.

Fred you practically won't believe a bald guy can get laid unless you've seen a ****ing DNA test, and that's only after you've spent years getting a PHD in forensic science so you can personally verify the result.

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They didn't reply to you? Maybe you just didn't hsve good game. The more you post, the more i realise you don't know much about women.

Yes, very hell yes.

Fred claims to have been with many women and personally I still choose to believe him, I just think he warps all his experiences of getting them into some very odd logic that all of us have to hear about. Most of the time it does not reflect reality, it might be one or two experiences of odd women that fits his warped logic and he applies it to everything.

 

[big_head]

It's not excuses, it's common knowledge now that pretty much all YouTube 'experiments" are fake, their only goal is to make views (and money).

And by experience, I and many other guys can tell you that getting a phone number means nothing. I used to have a 50% success rate at getting phone numbers from women.

After approaching roughly 50 women and getting 20 phone numbers like the guy does on the video, I just stopped, because 95% of these phone numbers were useless.

The girl didn't reply, or the number was fake, or she strung me along for a long time without actually wanting to meet me. In the end, I got a couple of dates from these 50 approaches.

And those dates didn't even lead to a kiss. So I figured I had more productive things to do with my life than approaching random girls on the street.

Oh and by the way, I wasn't even bald when I did this, I was sporting what looked like a normal NW2 to the outside world. So imagine what my stats would have been as a bald man.

Didn't you hear? Once you "embrace" your baldness, shave your head and grow a goatee, you'll have to beat the women off you with a stick! You'll be having so many orgies you won't be able to handle it dude! The problem is that you are hanging onto your hair...don't do that man, be confident! Become a SLY GUY!

 

[blackg]

Please, you need to get rid of this extremely negative view of hair loss.

Yep, and so does society!

 

[Rudiger]

I haven't seen it being socially acceptable to talk about balding being a disfigurement, bald guys shouldn't procreate, etc. oh wait that was all in here.

No doubt society has a negative view on baldness and in many ways mocks it, but thank god they don't treat baldness as a lot of guys on here do, minor recession in your teens would be grounds for extermination.

Society has "negative views" on it, as for "extremely negative", well not compared to here. Compared to this place there's no more extreme you can get.

 

[blackg]

I love it when dudes fall for the whole "game" line.
You can have all the game in the world, but most women see it for what it really is... Overcompensating for lack of good looks.
Women ain't stupid. And when a good looking dude walks in the room and smiles at the girl your working your "game" on.. What happens then, player?

 

[Rudiger]

Having blind faith in "game" and believing that it doesn't exist at all are both ****ing laughable.

 

[John McClane]

It's not excuses, it's common knowledge now that pretty much all YouTube 'experiments" are fake, their only goal is to make views (and money).

And by experience, I and many other guys can tell you that getting a phone number means nothing. I used to have a 50% success rate at getting phone numbers from women.

After approaching roughly 50 women and getting 20 phone numbers like the guy does on the video, I just stopped, because 95% of these phone numbers were useless.

The girl didn't reply, or the number was fake, or she strung me along for a long time without actually wanting to meet me. In the end, I got a couple of dates from these 50 approaches.

And those dates didn't even lead to a kiss. So I figured I had more productive things to do with my life than approaching random girls on the street.

Oh and by the way, I wasn't even bald when I did this, I was sporting what looked like a normal NW2 to the outside world. So imagine what my stats would have been as a bald man.

2 out of 50 are a little too few.
So the options are tree:
1) You are ugly.
2) You were unlucky.
2) You probably are not so good with girls.
If it's the first, unfortunately you can't do too much about it, but there is a little room for improvement.
If it's the second, well try again, 50 is not such a huge number.
If it's the third good for you because you can improve a lot if you want!
Like pretty much everything in life, you can improve your skills also with girls.
If you are an average guy you won't bang a new hot girl every week, ok, but having a good dating life is possible.

 

[blackg]

It's all game, brah!!!

 

[Rudiger]

I'm not going to bother finding "evidence" on something I believe, and you know as well, can never be comprehensively proven. That's why you asked, because even though you're wasting both of our time, you still need to feel like you're right. To waste both our time even further, can you DIS-prove seduction! Woooahh Fred you always promote the most thought provoking discussions as always!

But instead of providing some type of "evidence" I'll just point out how you contradict yourself with a previous statement:

Bald men can definitely get women, but not regularly, and it will be a goddamn struggle every time. Because he'll be disadvantage.

So you just said, as you've said before, it's 100% physical attraction, there is no such thing as "game", not even 0.0001% of it, so how exactly does the struggling bald man eventually get his prey?

In your "thesis" there is no such thing as "disadvantage" or "advantage", because there's only one decisive variable which is attraction. So you're saying bald men sometimes get women, and when they do, they have to work for it? And how do they work for it? Improving their physical attraction like some instantaneous evolution that happens in a club?

 

[John McClane]

I'm sorry but what is this game thing you're speaking of?

 

[Rudiger]

On the other hand, there is overwhelming evidence that in the animal kingdom, sexual attraction is 100% based on your genetic make-up and outward appearance.

And I want some proof of this.

It is pretty much irrelevant anyway, we're talking about variables in human physical attraction, I'll agree that a large part of it is based on physical attraction, but you're saying 100%? That's total bull****.

Back to a previous argument Fred, you said if a girl is attracted to you, you can call her pregnant and say whatever, it doesn't matter, she'll still sleep with you.

 

[Rudiger]

EDIT: The part in bold is now the most important bit, so don't ignore it.

I'm sorry but what is this game thing you're speaking of?

"Game" is basically using your personality to attract women. It's often a mocked word, because it's used by hilarious wannabe pick-up artists who think they have major "game" and can get in any panties they see on the street.

That's not to say that there is absolutely no such thing, after all if a girl takes an interest in you at a party, do you have a better chance mumbling under your breath and staring at the floor, or engaging her and making her laugh? Well the latter is basically having "game".

So the black-and-white way that "game" is being talked about here is just idiotic.

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Seduction.

@h.l. You can't prove a negative. I say seduction doesn't exist because I've never seen it happen.

You are the one who believes it exists so the burden of proof rests on you.

Alright I can't, now reply to this please:

But instead of providing some type of "evidence" I'll just point out how you contradict yourself with a previous statement:



So you just said, as you've said before, it's 100% physical attraction, there is no such thing as "game", not even 0.0001% of it, so how exactly does the struggling bald man eventually get his prey?

In your "thesis" there is no such thing as "disadvantage" or "advantage", because there's only one decisive variable which is attraction. So you're saying bald men sometimes get women, and when they do, they have to work for it? And how do they work for it? Improving their physical attraction like some instantaneous evolution that happens in a club?

So just to re-iterate, if there is such a thing as getting a woman but struggling to do so, doesn't this contradict your theory of "game" being non-existent? There should be no such thing as struggling to pull a woman but getting there in the end, as it either happens or it doesn't, based on, as you say, 100% physical attraction.

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Fred I didn't even notice the more blinding contradiction set out above:

See the above. I've always had (since I've started taking my chances) a more than decent dating life, even as a bald man.

No matter what you do, you will hit a plateau and there's absolutely no room for improvement.

The first sentence was a ****ing improvement! You start taking chances and then you had a good dating life, why didn't that happen before?

You didn't get laid until you were 21 (wasn't it?) because you never spoke to a woman, you never tried, then, as much as you hate to be involved with this, you started using "game", seduction, personality, even at a very minor level of just speaking to a woman, and it worked. Before you learned to talk to women it never worked, not even once for you in what should have been a handful of years having sex, and you're telling me that personality plays absolutely no part in picking up women? Not even 1%?

You're out of your mind Fred.

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Exactly. It's 1 or 0, either she wants to sleep with you or she doesn't.

It's determined before you even open your mouth. And nothing will ever change her mind.

Bald men have to work for it in the sense that they have to make the girl forget about the massive prejudice that exists against bald men.

And how does the bald man work for that? By using, let's say it all together, PER-SUH-NAH-LI-TEY.

The contradiction in what you're saying is sitting right there and you know how you go on about having a low IQ? Yeah I never disagreed, it's ****ing hard to explain anything to you.

 

[Rudiger]

Oh god, deep breath.

I'm talking about the girls who have unconsciously decided (kind of an oxymoron I know) that they didn't want you from the start.

Y'know what **** this, you're such a waste of time, now you're moving the goalposts completely and putting your argument in a smaller and smaller box, when your argument is a load of ****ing nonsense.

 

[blackg]

EDIT: The part in bold is now the most important bit, so don't ignore it.



"Game" is basically using your personality to attract women. It's often a mocked word, because it's used by hilarious wannabe pick-up artists who think they have major "game" and can get in any panties they see on the street.

That's not to say that there is absolutely no such thing, after all if a girl takes an interest in you at a party, do you have a better chance mumbling under your breath and staring at the floor, or engaging her and making her laugh? Well the latter is basically having "game".

So the black-and-white way that "game" is being talked about here is just idiotic.

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Alright I can't, now reply to this please:



So just to re-iterate, if there is such a thing as getting a woman but struggling to do so, doesn't this contradict your theory of "game" being non-existent? There should be no such thing as struggling to pull a woman but getting there in the end, as it either happens or it doesn't, based on, as you say, 100% physical attraction.

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Fred I didn't even notice the more blinding contradiction set out above:



The first sentence was a ****ing improvement! You start taking chances and then you had a good dating life, why didn't that happen before?

You didn't get laid until you were 21 (wasn't it?) because you never spoke to a woman, you never tried, then, as much as you hate to be involved with this, you started using "game", seduction, personality, even at a very minor level of just speaking to a woman, and it worked. Before you learned to talk to women it never worked, not even once for you in what should have been a handful of years having sex, and you're telling me that personality plays absolutely no part in picking up women? Not even 1%?

You're out of your mind Fred.

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And how does the bald man work for that? By using, let's say it all together, PER-SUH-NAH-LI-TEY.

The contradiction in what you're saying is sitting right there and you know how you go on about having a low IQ? Yeah I never disagreed, it's ****ing hard to explain anything to you.

Have a lie down.