I remember being in denial of it too 7-8 yers ago when the 50 year old bald lecturer was f*cking the hot 24 year old girl that i worked with. All the while i was worrying about my hair. How we learn. She liked how dominant he was both in and out of the bedroom. But i guess that's irrelevant too because only looks matter...You're clueless.
I think youre using the exception as the rule. Also there are a lot of variables. Women can like an older man, but was he a good looking guy. What was his last trist with a girl like that? For all you know that guy hadnt had sex for YEARS before her.
Anyway Ive been on both ends of the spectrum. I know for a fact that physcial attraction needs to be there to get a girl to openly give you the time of day. When I had my good hair it was super easy to grab girls. Now its not. Its not an age thing because im talking about girls my same age.
If you are saying a guy can get a girlfriend or wife with enough effort than yes thats true. Even a NW7 guy can eventually land a decent enough wife but what effort does he have to put in to get it? What kind of attitude will she have? Who will be the dominant one in that relationship?
I dont believe the confidence BS lines. Im confident enough. Im confident to the point people think Im an arrogant jerk half the time. But that is the difference. When I had good hair and was attractive my confidence was just that, healthy confidence that people liked. Now that Im a thinning haired goblin my confidence strikes people as odd and just me being obnoxious.
I am sure if I was single I could still pick up girls to some degree. But would they be something I would want? When you were used to tapping 8s and 9s (maybe not 9s lol) and then have to be forced to accept overwieght 4s and 5s you have to ask "is this worth the effort?" Why waste the resources. At that point paying would be the better option.
If you are a guy who doesnt have much experience with females like some guys here anyway, then yeah start with some 5s and work your way up. Burger to filet is GREAT, filet to burger...... eh not so much.
I can personally say I see the difference in the interactions with women when hair loss set in. Most barely acknowledge eye contact and look down because they dont want to even take the chance they might entice me to interact with them. When I still had my hair eye contact was my go to first step for meeting a girl.
Would I still like to rake them in like I used to, of course, but in the end it just doesnt work that way. Some people get to keep those look and others dont. Theres not much I can do I guess. finasteride doesnt like me, minoxidil doesnt seem to do anything, the hair transplant road can only do so much and shaving just didnt work on my body/head. Im screwed in that department.
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Tyler from RSD and Neil Strauss are good examples of ugly, balding men getting women.
Neil Strauss is a fake. Hes been repeatedly caught using escorts as his props.