Balding is a death sentence for online dating

[Capone]

chad

Lol you definitely made the “incelwilki” page

 

[vondoom]

I agree with OP.
Men in 2021 must be legit retarded to pay for Tinder or any other dating app. Hypergamy is crazy high and there is no way I'm gonna f*** a chubby or fat girl. Even just barely decent girls will get Chad on Tinder...what the heck are you doing there? Norwooding is also a death sentence in real life too...it's a major cause of depression in men and these days with women standard that are getting higher and higher your chance of finding even a 6 for a long term relationship are very slim.

You can cope by quoting this message and write "muh look at the rock or whatever other celebrity" and yeah bro, your coping skills are off the charts. How deluded you are. You are taking celebrities with $$$$ as example to disprove what I said? LOL, I bet not even yourself believe in that. Outliers are just that...outliers. You know, you have a higher chance to get hit by a lighting than getting an above average girl for a long term relationship (forget causal sex) as an uglish guy. Recently I'm hearing about escorts rejecting ugly men (yes norwooding make you ugly) because they can choose the Chads among the thousands of men that offer to pay for sex. Face the reality

you dont f*** a chubby, they dont f*** f*** a baldie... i think that is fair and no surprise, or something to spend more than a minute to think about...

 

[czecha]

Just put a hat on online then run confidence game irl because you are on a huge nofap streak. Still inferior to offline dating but you are not getting your foot in the door online with any visible hair loss
It’s a completely different ball park once you have face to face interaction

 

[We Move]

I would have thought certain women were attracted to the bald Neanderthal look & you'd come across them in OLD. Whilst it might turn off a lot of women, a jacked, decent-looking bald guy still surely attracts women. And not just as in "they don't mind", but as in that's their type.

I see hot women with bald guys all the time - women that could have their pick of men. Loads of the women I follow on Instagram who are extremely looks conscious are with bald men. Eva Marie is with a bald guy who's considerably less famous than her.

You defiantly have to look a certain way to be considered attractive if you're bald (generally tall, athletic, good face), but women have a high bar to consider a man attractive regardless.

 

[czecha]

 

[Capone]

I'm certain balding is due to our high carb, high GI diets.

We're not supposed to be eating processed carbs in excess of what we need. Nor are we supposed to be spiking our insulin levels several times a day. Insulin is the precursor to many of the hormones that do the balding thing.

I bet cavemen didn't go bald on their natural diets.

Cavemen, Eskimos or native Americans.. all very low carb. Definitely no chocolate, cola lol

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Lol you definitely made the “incelwilki” page

He's too dumb and not creative enough for that, but he definitely treats it like his bible & has adopted every goofy phrase that you can find in there blindly.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Just put a hat on online then run confidence game irl because you are on a huge nofap streak. Still inferior to offline dating but you are not getting your foot in the door online with any visible hair loss
It’s a completely different ball park once you have face to face interaction

Do you know how irl works? You are rejected as soon as it is seen that you are bald. It's not a different ball park at all. Go out cold approaching one day and assess for yourself how long it took for the person to decide that they were not interested. It's usually while you were saying hello. You won't get any date online wearing a hat in every photo. The idea that if a bald guy is failing online then he can dress well, be confident and do well in real life (whatever that means) is itself a cope.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Do you know how irl works? You are rejected as soon as it is seen that you are bald. It's not a different ball park at all. Go out cold approaching one day and assess for yourself how long it took for the person to decide that they were not interested. It's usually while you were saying hello. You won't get any date online wearing a hat in every photo. The idea that if a bald guy is failing online then he can dress well, be confident and do well in real life (whatever that means) is itself a cope.

You might be looking in the wrong place? Bars and OLD seem like pretty shallow venues. Also, most women hate being asked out via cold approach

 

[trialAcc]

Disagree with this. If you are hot girl will not care about your income, she will just put you in alpha fux not beta bux bracket.

Those were not separate things. Average looking dudes get swipes when they flex their bank accounts.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Disagree with this. If you are hot girl will not care about your income, she will just put you in alpha fux not beta bux bracket.

Those were not separate things. Average looking dudes get swipes when they flex their bank accounts.

Different girls/people look for different things. Personally I want a girl who puts looks and intellect above money/social status/job.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Those were not separate things. Average looking dudes get swipes when they flex their bank accounts.

Are you sure about this? Do the multi millionaires even use regular dating apps? I've never seen money help a bald guy to be more attractive.

 

[trialAcc]

Are you sure about this? Do the multi millionaires even use regular dating apps? I've never seen money help a bald guy to be more attractive.

I mean you could use a gold digger app if you're super rich, or raya if you're someone people know and get invited, but otherwise yes why wouldn't they use regular dating apps. I never said anything about bald guys, I said average guys (which I guess you can put most bald guys into). I guarantee you an average guy wearing an expensive watch with a non-douchebag flex of a car or nice condo is going to pull some extra swipes. Status/wealth/confidence go just as far as looks in dating & meeting people.

 

[doubleindemnity]

I mean you could use a gold digger app if you're super rich, or raya if you're someone people know and get invited, but otherwise yes why wouldn't they use regular dating apps. I never said anything about bald guys, I said average guys (which I guess you can put most bald guys into). I guarantee you an average guy wearing an expensive watch with a non-douchebag flex of a car or nice condo is going to pull some extra swipes. Status/wealth/confidence go just as far as looks in dating & meeting people.

Bald guys are typically well below average. Average means exactly that ; it's an average amount of hair. I've never seen wealth help a guy. I myself saw no changed when I went from student to new in my career to doing well in my career. There are plenty of successful guys on here whose wealth brings them nothing in the way of social or dating opportunities. To me, it might just be another cope.

 

[trialAcc]

Bald guys are typically well below average. Average means exactly that ; it's an average amount of hair. I've never seen wealth help a guy. I myself saw no changed when I went from student to new in my career to doing well in my career. There are plenty of successful guys on here whose wealth brings them nothing in the way of social or dating opportunities. To me, it might just be another cope.

Okay, this is where I check out again. To argue that wealth doesn't get you social or dating opportunities is actually insane. If you're wealthy and not getting those types of opportunities then I guarantee you are doing something wrong or just making money while being an introvert by yourself. If that's the case, how is anyone supposed to know you have money or anything about you.

I get comments from random girls when I drive/stand by my audi TT RS on the side of a street downtown or bring it to a friends/co-workers house for a party, and it's not even an actual luxury car. If you roll in wealthy circles and aren't a complete social introvert then you get plenty of opportunities, hair or not.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Okay, this is where I check out again. To argue that wealth doesn't get you social or dating opportunities is actually insane. If you're wealthy and not getting those types of opportunities then I guarantee you are doing something wrong or just making money while being an introvert by yourself. If that's the case, how is anyone supposed to know you have money or anything about you.

I get comments from random girls when I drive/stand by my audi TT RS on the side of a street downtown or bring it to a friends/co-workers house for a party, and it's not even an actual luxury car. If you roll in wealthy circles and aren't a complete social introvert then you get plenty of opportunities, hair or not.

I see. I don't think that i earn enough to afford a car like that and even if I did, my money goes to my investing hobby first. What Norwood are you? Comments from random girls doesn't sound like something that a NW6 would get, even with a supercar.

 

[trialAcc]

I see. I don't think that i earn enough to afford a car like that and even if I did, my money goes to my investing hobby first. What Norwood are you? Comments from random girls doesn't sound like something that a NW6 would get, even with a supercar.

You're right that I'm not slick bald, but my best friend is from when we were in university and the guy has never had a lack of opportunities with girls and socially. Being bald has never hindered him in the slightest.

The point about the car was that I get those comments/attention when I'm driving it but not when I don't. Hairloss aside, I'm a pretty average looking guy, no where near the 9/10 I'd have to be to pull like crazy off of tinder but wealth is a pretty big cheat card when it comes to social interactions. You're kidding yourself if you think a slick bald guy who was still decently average looking wouldn't get comments if he parked a 400k car in the parking lot of a busy spot.

 

[doubleindemnity]

You're right that I'm not slick bald, but my best friend is from when we were in university and the guy has never had a lack of opportunities with girls and socially. Being bald has never hindered him in the slightest.

The point about the car was that I get those comments/attention when I'm driving it but not when I don't. Hairloss aside, I'm a pretty average looking guy, no where near the 9/10 I'd have to be to pull like crazy off of tinder but wealth is a pretty big cheat card when it comes to social interactions. You're kidding yourself if you think a slick bald guy who was still decently average looking wouldn't get comments if he parked a 400k car in the parking lot of a busy spot.

There's no such thing as a bald guy who is still decently average looking. Bald is always below average. The way that you're describing flaunting wealth makes it sound like getting in shape or dressing well. Lots of guys with hair said that they got attention while in shape that they didn't get beforehand. We know that this doesn't work for bald guys. As for wealth I just need to see if I can one day earn enough to test out what you're saying. But so far I haven't personally seen any evidence that monetary success makes any difference for a bald guy. Keep in mind that there are very wealthy bald guys on here who have the same complaints as the rest of us.

 

[trialAcc]

There's no such thing as a bald guy who is still decently average looking. Bald is always below average. The way that you're describing flaunting wealth makes it sound like getting in shape or dressing well. Lots of guys with hair said that they got attention while in shape that they didn't get beforehand. We know that this doesn't work for bald guys. As for wealth I just need to see if I can one day earn enough to test out what you're saying. But so far I haven't personally seen any evidence that monetary success makes any difference for a bald guy. Keep in mind that there are very wealthy bald guys on here who have the same complaints as the rest of us.

Alright, you clearly have some issues with the idea of being bald lol, and that's going to be a bigger hurdle to you then actually being bald. When you have this type of mindset, no amount of money in the world is going to help you unless it's to buy hookers.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Alright, you clearly have some issues with the idea of being bald lol, and that's going to be a bigger hurdle to you then actually being bald. When you have this type of mindset, no amount of money in the world is going to help you unless it's to buy hookers.

Mindset doesn't matter. A bald guy can go and try his best positively with a good mindset or just force himself to do it with a bad mindset. Results will be the same and come down to his badness. Keep in mind also that most guys who do well with dating can't really explain why and don't usually consider themselves confident.