Balding is a death sentence for online dating

[trialAcc]

Mindset doesn't matter. A bald guy can go and try his best positively with a good mindset or just force himself to do it with a bad mindset. Results will be the same and come down to his badness. Keep in mind also that most guys who do well with dating can't really explain why and don't usually consider themselves confident.

Mindset is everything dude, never doubt that for a second. The fact that you don't understand that is a much larger issue then being bald.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Mindset is everything dude, never doubt that for a second. The fact that you don't understand that is a much larger issue then being bald.

Everybody who has told me that mindset matters was trying to sell me something. Sometimes I paid for it and did not get value for money. I've been through it all...positive affirmations, visualisation, gratitude, meditation, building legit confidence by socialising and making friends, taking up new interests ... None of it is worth a thing for a bald guy. Most people on here will tell you the same.

 

[trialAcc]

Everybody who has told me that mindset matters was trying to sell me something. Sometimes I paid for it and did not get value for money. I've been through it all...positive affirmations, visualisation, gratitude, meditation, building legit confidence by socialising and making friends, taking up new interests ... None of it is worth a thing for a bald guy. Most people on here will tell you the same.

Stop using "most people on here" as if it's carries any type of credibility or weight, people on a forum complaining about why life is unfair is not the type of crowd that successful people are taking life advice from. No one is telling you to pay for anything, this isn't a sales course it's just straight psychology 101.

As corny as it is, the truth is if you can't accept yourself for who you are then why the f*** would anyone else? You are coming off with the complete victim mindset and it's making me want to flee from this conversation on a forum. What do you think it's doing to people in real life? That's why mindset is everything.

 

[vondoom]

yeah, if your mindset isnt straight, you often come if as awkward, been there, done that...
of course if you are turbo hideous that wont help with women either...
one thing i can also recommend: dont concentrate on women only...
and if you really think that no woman is ever interested, then its even easier to not care about it, just think “f*** all” and do what you really want to do... i assure you, you are better of than before...

 

[Diffused_confidence]

There's no such thing as a bald guy who is still decently average looking. Bald is always below average. The way that you're describing flaunting wealth makes it sound like getting in shape or dressing well. Lots of guys with hair said that they got attention while in shape that they didn't get beforehand. We know that this doesn't work for bald guys. As for wealth I just need to see if I can one day earn enough to test out what you're saying. But so far I haven't personally seen any evidence that monetary success makes any difference for a bald guy. Keep in mind that there are very wealthy bald guys on here who have the same complaints as the rest of us.

So Dwayne "the rock" Johnson is below average? If I could trade for his height and muscle potential I'd trade my current hair for that any day. Height is a major advantage in dating, bald or not.

 

[vondoom]

So Dwayne "the rock" Johnson is below average? If I could trade for his height and muscle potential I'd trade my current hair for that any day. Height is a major advantage in dating, bald or not.

i honestly also think the rock doesnt look good... quite the opposite... before he was bald and started compensating by hulking up like there was no tomorrow, he was looking alright...
but now? hes not ugly of course, but far from good looking...

 

[doubleindemnity]

Stop using "most people on here" as if it's carries any type of credibility or weight, people on a forum complaining about why life is unfair is not the type of crowd that successful people are taking life advice from. No one is telling you to pay for anything, this isn't a sales course it's just straight psychology 101.

As corny as it is, the truth is if you can't accept yourself for who you are then why the f*** would anyone else? You are coming off with the complete victim mindset and it's making me want to flee from this conversation on a forum. What do you think it's doing to people in real life? That's why mindset is everything.

This forum is full of industrious, successful and intelligent guys. Most guys here are like me in that they only complain and whine on here, and have a positive attitude for most other parts of their life.

The latter sounds attractive but I don't think that it's true. Like I always say, try being bald and going out approaching or dating. You will be shut politely before you finish your greeting if you approach. That happened before your mindset even factored in. Same for most things... the bald guy loses before his mindset factors in. Yes if he had fair then he would still get the same outcome because of his mindset but, precisely, it's his baldness that's responsible for a lot of it.

So Dwayne "the rock" Johnson is below average? If I could trade for his height and muscle potential I'd trade my current hair for that any day. Height is a major advantage in dating, bald or not.

Muscles are irrelevant for being attractive. Look and see for yourself. He has incredible muscle potential but that factors into athleticism and sports suitability rather than attractiveness. So it's only height. I personally believe that Rock looks incredible bald - about as good as a bald guy can look - but that yes, he would be just below average if he was not the great global superstar that he is. Superstardom counts for a lot.

 

[vondoom]

This forum is full of industrious, successful and intelligent guys. Most guys here are like me in that they only complain and whine on here, and have a positive attitude for most other parts of their life.

The latter sounds attractive but I don't think that it's true. Like I always say, try being bald and going out approaching or dating. You will be shut politely before you finish your greeting if you approach. That happened before your mindset even factored in. Same for most things... the bald guy loses before his mindset factors in. Yes if he had fair then he would still get the same outcome because of his mindset but, precisely, it's his baldness that's responsible for a lot of it.


Muscles are irrelevant for being attractive. Look and see for yourself. He has incredible muscle potential but that factors into athleticism and sports suitability rather than attractiveness. So it's only height. I personally believe that Rock looks incredible bald - about as good as a bald guy can look - but that yes, he would be just below average if he was not the great global superstar that he is. Superstardom counts for a lot.

thing is, with the rocks bank account, we all would have a way more positive outlook on life...

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Muscles are irrelevant for being attractive. Look and see for yourself. He has incredible muscle potential but that factors into athleticism and sports suitability rather than attractiveness. So it's only height. I personally believe that Rock looks incredible bald - about as good as a bald guy can look - but that yes, he would be just below average if he was not the great global superstar that he is. Superstardom counts for a lot.

Idk man. I think he looks better now than he did when he was younger (with hair).

 

[trialAcc]

This forum is full of industrious, successful and intelligent guys. Most guys here are like me in that they only complain and whine on here, and have a positive attitude for most other parts of their life.

The latter sounds attractive but I don't think that it's true. Like I always say, try being bald and going out approaching or dating. You will be shut politely before you finish your greeting if you approach. That happened before your mindset even factored in. Same for most things... the bald guy loses before his mindset factors in. Yes if he had fair then he would still get the same outcome because of his mindset but, precisely, it's his baldness that's responsible for a lot of it.


Muscles are irrelevant for being attractive. Look and see for yourself. He has incredible muscle potential but that factors into athleticism and sports suitability rather than attractiveness. So it's only height. I personally believe that Rock looks incredible bald - about as good as a bald guy can look - but that yes, he would be just below average if he was not the great global superstar that he is. Superstardom counts for a lot.

Yeah, you're lying to yourself man.

 

[vondoom]

Muscles are important.

Anyone who says otherwise hasn't done basic Tinder studies with ripped selfie pics. They work.

Same as you would be into a butterface with a tight body.

Ripped body is always hot.

But it isn't really the issue I think as most of forum members here must be shredded since it is almost mandatory to do if you ever start balding.

lol i think no one here is shredded...

 

[trialAcc]

Muscles are important.

Anyone who says otherwise hasn't done basic Tinder studies with ripped selfie pics. They work.

Same as you would be into a butterface with a tight body.

Ripped body is always hot.

But it isn't really the issue I think as most of forum members here must be shredded since it is almost mandatory to do if you ever start balding.

Lmao yeah right. Guarantee most people here complaining are not shredded.

 

[vondoom]

shredding would take discipline and time... time they spend whining online...


im not shredded either... because i cant stand gym bros...

 

[justinbieberscombover]

That's surprising.

The obvious question is why?

The moment you notice hair recession you should make #1 priority in life to get to single digit bodyfat and shredded as hell.
I thought this is like unwritten rule.

No one is gonna see your abs when you have a shirt on in your day to day life

And online if you have a shirtless selfie as your main pic you'll only attract trashy girls cuz girls will automatically think you're just looking for a one night stand

 

[ashleysummer]

As a woman I can tell you that balding isn't a death sentence. I know that attraction is subjective, but some of the objectively most attractive men in the world are bald. Just take a scroll through the top 100 Sexiest Men Alive.

I've dated men with hair literally down to their asses, and I've dated men who were totally bald by their mid-20s. If you read rthis metrodate review, you will find out effective dating tips. I've never found or thought a man to be unattractive if he had little to no hair, and I'm sure there are lots of other people out there who share that view.

 

[vondoom]

That's surprising.

The obvious question is why?

The moment you notice hair recession you should make #1 priority in life to get to single digit bodyfat and shredded as hell.
I thought this is like unwritten rule.

isnt surprising at all since most men are slobs and live on the couch... most dont have any discipline and just waste their time... getting shredded needs discipline and some workout...

while i would like to get shredded a bit and also do work out a bit, it isnt that easy...
though by getting shredded i mean loosing like ten kilos to get back where i was at 25^^ if that is even possible (im not overweight or chubby or anything though, just want to get to around 50-55kg... the 10kg are estimated since i dont own a scale)...

i agree with fun with trashy women though... works even without abs and tinder...

 

[doubleindemnity]

Muscles are important.

Anyone who says otherwise hasn't done basic Tinder studies with ripped selfie pics. They work.

Same as you would be into a butterface with a tight body.

Ripped body is always hot.

But it isn't really the issue I think as most of forum members here must be shredded since it is almost mandatory to do if you ever start balding.

I am not ripped but many told me that I am in good shape. I have tried the selfie and the shirtless and no, it doesn't work. What works about those photos is that the guy, if he has hair, will look good. Without hair, the attention will be on the bald head and so the photo will get a negative reception. Like I said, try it for yourself.

Lmao yeah right. Guarantee most people here complaining are not shredded.

Most here aren't shredded but are in good shape. We don't whine and complain for the fun of it. We have tried everything that is advised such as getting in shape, dressing well, doing more social things etc. etc. and we come here and whine when nothing works.

 

[vondoom]

tattoos en masse here... one step
ahead as usual!

 

[doubleindemnity]

It doesn't work because you are not ripped. You don't have to be in top 20% shape. You have to be in top 1%. So of course, it won't work if you aren't not shredded. But if you bald, there is no other way to get shredded. With juice if needed. No hair loss risks anymore as all is lost, so you can hop on trenbolone easy.


You say you aren't shredded yet at same time say you have tried everything.
Have you tried roids? Have you tried tattoos? Have you tried MMA (becoming a violent thug) etc...?
If not, then how can you claim you have tried everything?

I consciously decided not to get shredded because I like training and lifting weights. Getting shredded makes workouts less enjoyable and limits the amount of weight that one can lift. Try getting shredded and you'll see that even your pull up strength goes down. That is why I ultimately decided not to get shredded. But I guess that you have a point. I have tried everything except for stuff that I expect will not work and stuff that could be harmful to health. That's why I haven't tried juicing or using finasteride. And MMA won't make a difference because, just like dressing well, a bald guy will be turned away before anybody finds out his MMA knowledge.

 

[mgill]

i am not shredded but am pretty ripped-the problem is that women only care about a man's body if he also has the height, face & hair to go with it. also being a pathetic 5'6 with a shaved head & at best average face has forced me into many years of being single, alone & unwanted despite being in tremendous physical condition.

average & unattractive women, on the other hand, can become very highly sought after if they get in great shape. i see it all the time at my gym and the females who put the work & effort into building a great body always have a tall, good looking partner. meanwhile, men like myself who are in the top 10% body wise cannot even get a single date due to our face, lack of height & hair. the bottom line is that unlike women, men cannot outwork our inferior genetics.