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True, in my experience this also happens before the starting a family phase.
Women are more rational about these things than men are.
True, in my experience this also happens before the starting a family phase.
I beg to differIf he is married happily it's fine to shave
Shaving is sometimes a good solution
Women do care about looks. In a different way than men though.
You make it seem like there are only two categories: ugly and attractive but there is obviously a huge grey area. When I say compensate I do not mean that a physical 2 van become an 8 to women attraction-wise but a physical 6 can be an 8 if he does everything else right. Of course you will not find anyone saying that their spouse is ugly but you will find people that say that their spouse is 'completely not their usual type'.
Once women are ready to start a family they absolutely will compromise on their partner’s looks if they think he offers maturity and stability.
No relationship is guaranteed to last, but their success hinges on way more than continued mutual physical attraction.
True, in my experience this also happens before the starting a family phase.
60 percent divorce rate (in general) is still a thing. Saying women dont care about looks, are from incels or/and RSD autist that never had a girlfriend before. Now people are saying: "But explain 50 year old millionar with...." I will. They have sideboys. You really think a young 20 something dont get tingles from good looking men? lol. What women say and WHAT THEY DO are different. How many women said: "I would never stop to love you" and years later sucked Chads c***? Just months ago I had a women telling me she loves me after like 3 dates lol. Women say what they feel in the moment and that moment is constantly changing. Hair is important for most men to look good. If you look very good with hair, the chances you can go bald are high. If you are between 5-6 (like most men), getting bald gets you into the sweet 4-5 brackets. Have fun on Tinder baldy xD
Going back as far as antiquity, the male image deemed attractive and the ideal male standard is virtually the same as today.
You and I likely have different opinions of what an "attractive" woman looks like,
but I guarantee you that every woman would absolutely prefer her man to be ripped, tall, herculean-jawed, and fullheaded.
Balding Is Beautiful......shave It Bruh
I think a major obstacle to guys on this forum finding a relationship is that they spend too much time theorising about them rather than actually trying to find one. Most of the amateur psychologists here are in their 20s and still live with their parents, they’re essentially still children.
So you got a 10 wife, then?
I have noticed that every time I say I (have) date(d) an 8/9 no one believes it here and accuses me of being delusional so...
Again, I am not saying that women do not care about looks at all. But it is a fact that a guy can easily date a woman that scores 2 points higher on the attraction scale than him if the guy does everything else right.
I am surprised I do not read more here about MGTOW. It seems like a lot of guys here have a very bad image of women.
I am surprised I do not read more here about MGTOW. It seems like a lot of guys here have a very bad image of women.
Bad in what case? Ask any Chad what he thinks about women. Well better, go out and get yourself some experience. When we were innocent small boys, we thought women are little princesses. You give them flowers, go to the cinema and maybe after your 3rd date, you kiss her. After that she invites you to meet her parents.
Cute.
Im always, always saying to MGTOW/incels whatever you wanna call elliot rodgers types of guy, go out and f*****g date. You fat --> GYM. Ugly face? --> GYM. Bald? --> gun (joking just lower standards and GYM maybe hairtransplant).
But the more you date women and you get some action, you will realise they are fucked up like men are (sometimes even more). If you have a women in bed that calls her boyfriend she will come home later cause of "studys" after she swallowed your load like a good girl, or you f*** on the first date (welcome to Tinder) and she tell you "please hit my face daddy" this: "women are princesses" sh*t goes into the toilet. Now, most men (I hope) want a girlfriend or wife that isnt being used by 50 Chads. Have fun finding that. Some are okay that "you go girl get some tinder experience" cause "finding yourself" is okay. Im not. sl*t shaming is important. Im lucky I found one girl that has a family that actualy cares what she is dating (christians background). But this girl despite how sweet she is, is still a women. And women care about looks. And balding is a big step back into your SMV. A big one.
lmao being fat is good when baldHe's certainly not helping his situation by being a fat f***.
I have noticed that every time I say I (have) date(d) an 8/9 no one believes it here and accuses me of being delusional so...
Again, I am not saying that women do not care about looks at all. But it is a fact that a guy can easily date a woman that scores 2 points higher on the attraction scale than him if the guy does everything else right.
Ill GUARANTEE you the guys here will shred her down to a 4.5 lol.......
There are ABSURDLY high standards here
Not saying I don't believe you, I'm just saying...do you?
Sure, but the kinds of guys we're talking about aren't generally a "two points" difference. Again, in that range...it starts to get pretty subjective.
But the guys I'm talking about are the what the people here call "incel" types.
I had this conversation with a guy I know, who is a manlet for sure, 5ft 4...sh*t maybe shorter, the other day, actually. He's married to a woman that's at least twice his width. But he insists to me that looks aren't that big of a deal if you have a lot of money or charisma, and he scoffed at the idea that "you can't talk women into sleeping with you" (credit to Roberto for that line). Maybe a low blow, but I just straight asked him:
"So why aren't you married to a model if it's just that easy?"
Suddenly, we were on a different subject.
Not that I disagree, I've accused the community in general of having absurd standards.
But it's not relevant here, because the thesis is "women care about looks just like men do. No more; no less."
sl*t shaming is for angry virgins only.Bad in what case? Ask any Chad what he thinks about women. Well better, go out and get yourself some experience. When we were innocent small boys, we thought women are little princesses. You give them flowers, go to the cinema and maybe after your 3rd date, you kiss her. After that she invites you to meet her parents.
Cute.
Im always, always saying to MGTOW/incels whatever you wanna call elliot rodgers types of guy, go out and f*****g date. You fat --> GYM. Ugly face? --> GYM. Bald? --> gun (joking just lower standards and GYM maybe hairtransplant).
But the more you date women and you get some action, you will realise they are fucked up like men are (sometimes even more). If you have a women in bed that calls her boyfriend she will come home later cause of "studys" after she swallowed your load like a good girl, or you f*** on the first date (welcome to Tinder) and she tell you "please hit my face daddy" this: "women are princesses" sh*t goes into the toilet. Now, most men (I hope) want a girlfriend or wife that isnt being used by 50 Chads. Have fun finding that. Some are okay that "you go girl get some tinder experience" cause "finding yourself" is okay. Im not. sl*t shaming is important. Im lucky I found one girl that has a family that actualy cares what she is dating (christians background). But this girl despite how sweet she is, is still a women. And women care about looks. And balding is a big step back into your SMV. A big one.
sl*t shaming is for angry virgins only.
It's very transparent.
You'd be surprised how quickly men's opinions about these so-called "sl*ts" will change after these men finally get some action themselves.