Balding Is Beautiful......shave It Bruh

Roberto_72

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If he is married happily it's fine to shave

Shaving is sometimes a good solution
I beg to differ
When I shaved I felt like some kind of horrid worm
 

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60 percent divorce rate (in general) is still a thing. Saying women dont care about looks, are from incels or/and RSD autist that never had a girlfriend before. Now people are saying: "But explain 50 year old millionar with...." I will. They have sideboys. You really think a young 20 something dont get tingles from good looking men? lol. What women say and WHAT THEY DO are different. How many women said: "I would never stop to love you" and years later sucked Chads c***? Just months ago I had a women telling me she loves me after like 3 dates lol. Women say what they feel in the moment and that moment is constantly changing. Hair is important for most men to look good. If you look very good with hair, the chances you can go bald are high. If you are between 5-6 (like most men), getting bald gets you into the sweet 4-5 brackets. Have fun on Tinder baldy xD
 

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Women do care about looks. In a different way than men though.

Yes, they do; they are more extreme in their demands. This has even been studied by evolutionary pscyh/biologists. If you have to carry around a baby in your womb for 9 months, possibly die having the kid, whereas the man can reproduce again 15 minutes after he bangs you, that guy better have been worth it. The 80/20 rule is indeed real.

Women only "settle" if they feel like their time is running out, and that's not good for anyone because the woman inevitably winds up unhappy.

sh*t, this woman left her husband for no reason other than "She thought she could do better"! Now, she's childless and alone at 42.



You make it seem like there are only two categories: ugly and attractive but there is obviously a huge grey area. When I say compensate I do not mean that a physical 2 van become an 8 to women attraction-wise but a physical 6 can be an 8 if he does everything else right. Of course you will not find anyone saying that their spouse is ugly but you will find people that say that their spouse is 'completely not their usual type'.

The "grey area" you refer to is what I said is "subjective at a certain point."

but again, men aren't allowed any real variety in phenotypes that women (and even gay dudes) find attractive.

There is no shortage of men who are into fat chicks, hairy chicks, girls with long hair, girls with short hair, tall women, short women, etc. Going back as far as antiquity, the male image deemed attractive and the ideal male standard is virtually the same as today.

You and I likely have different opinions of what an "attractive" woman looks like,

but I guarantee you that every woman would absolutely prefer her man to be ripped, tall, herculean-jawed, and fullheaded.

Once women are ready to start a family they absolutely will compromise on their partner’s looks if they think he offers maturity and stability.

And that leads to problems, like I said before.

"Chad & Stacy" are meant to be.

No relationship is guaranteed to last, but their success hinges on way more than continued mutual physical attraction.

Yep, it does.

The issue is, the system has made it so heavily unbalanced in the woman's favour that she can quite easily ditch him with minimal collateral.

True, in my experience this also happens before the starting a family phase.

So you got a 10 wife, then?

60 percent divorce rate (in general) is still a thing. Saying women dont care about looks, are from incels or/and RSD autist that never had a girlfriend before. Now people are saying: "But explain 50 year old millionar with...." I will. They have sideboys. You really think a young 20 something dont get tingles from good looking men? lol. What women say and WHAT THEY DO are different. How many women said: "I would never stop to love you" and years later sucked Chads c***? Just months ago I had a women telling me she loves me after like 3 dates lol. Women say what they feel in the moment and that moment is constantly changing. Hair is important for most men to look good. If you look very good with hair, the chances you can go bald are high. If you are between 5-6 (like most men), getting bald gets you into the sweet 4-5 brackets. Have fun on Tinder baldy xD

Couldn't have said it better.
 

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Going back as far as antiquity, the male image deemed attractive and the ideal male standard is virtually the same as today.

You and I likely have different opinions of what an "attractive" woman looks like,

but I guarantee you that every woman would absolutely prefer her man to be ripped, tall, herculean-jawed, and fullheaded.

I don’t see how you can fulfil this guarantee. What does “ripped” mean? Professional men in the 19th century weren’t hitting the gym to get “ripped”. You think Rich Piana is every woman’s dream?

You just approved @jasonstatham’s post essentially implying women are fickle whilst simultaneously claiming they have a fixed ideal of the male aesthetic. This seems contradictory to me.
 

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I think a major obstacle to guys on this forum finding a relationship is that they spend too much time theorising about them rather than actually trying to find one. Most of the amateur psychologists here are in their 20s and still live with their parents, they’re essentially still children.

Yeah this place is kind basically a heroine den of depression though. I was caught in it for a while then dropped off after a bit of a depressive bout, got my transplant and started moving on a bit.
The problem is you can sit here and preach 25/8 that even thought balding is probably the worst "NATURAL" uncontrolled shift in your looks you can get, you should still try to be your best it will get no where in this section. Enough people have found compatible bro mates here that it just easier to assume "why it is" other than try anything.

Ive consistently said, if you want a wife, you can find one. But unless you are that perfect 10, unicorn of a bald man, the players game is probably out of reach. Its a tough nut to crack, Ill admit I had it easier with being good looking until hairloss hit me hard in my 20s but still JUST TRY to go improve yourself a bit. You probably wont land a perfect 10, but in the grand scheme of things, get a cute 6 and you have less worry of better looking guys trying to steal her away.
 

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So you got a 10 wife, then?


I have noticed that every time I say I (have) date(d) an 8/9 no one believes it here and accuses me of being delusional so...


Again, I am not saying that women do not care about looks at all. But it is a fact that a guy can easily date a woman that scores 2 points higher on the attraction scale than him if the guy does everything else right.
 

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I am surprised I do not read more here about MGTOW. It seems like a lot of guys here have a very bad image of women.
 

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I have noticed that every time I say I (have) date(d) an 8/9 no one believes it here and accuses me of being delusional so...


Again, I am not saying that women do not care about looks at all. But it is a fact that a guy can easily date a woman that scores 2 points higher on the attraction scale than him if the guy does everything else right.

Looks are subjective and you might be better off posting a pic of a similar girl to what youve dated. Ill GUARANTEE you the guys here will shred her down to a 4.5 lol.......

There are ABSURDLY high standards here, I think its a coping mechanism. Second time this week, the fox and the grapes.

what MTGOW?
 

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I am surprised I do not read more here about MGTOW. It seems like a lot of guys here have a very bad image of women.

Their colloquial language (“chad”, “stacey”, “...cel”, etc.) is the hallmark of a geeky subculture.
 

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I am surprised I do not read more here about MGTOW. It seems like a lot of guys here have a very bad image of women.

Bad in what case? Ask any Chad what he thinks about women. Well better, go out and get yourself some experience. When we were innocent small boys, we thought women are little princesses. You give them flowers, go to the cinema and maybe after your 3rd date, you kiss her. After that she invites you to meet her parents.

Cute.

Im always, always saying to MGTOW/incels whatever you wanna call elliot rodgers types of guy, go out and f*****g date. You fat --> GYM. Ugly face? --> GYM. Bald? --> gun (joking just lower standards and GYM maybe hairtransplant).

But the more you date women and you get some action, you will realise they are fucked up like men are (sometimes even more). If you have a women in bed that calls her boyfriend she will come home later cause of "studys" after she swallowed your load like a good girl, or you f*** on the first date (welcome to Tinder) and she tell you "please hit my face daddy" this: "women are princesses" sh*t goes into the toilet. Now, most men (I hope) want a girlfriend or wife that isnt being used by 50 Chads. Have fun finding that. Some are okay that "you go girl get some tinder experience" cause "finding yourself" is okay. Im not. sl*t shaming is important. Im lucky I found one girl that has a family that actualy cares what she is dating (christians background). But this girl despite how sweet she is, is still a women. And women care about looks. And balding is a big step back into your SMV. A big one.
 

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Bad in what case? Ask any Chad what he thinks about women. Well better, go out and get yourself some experience. When we were innocent small boys, we thought women are little princesses. You give them flowers, go to the cinema and maybe after your 3rd date, you kiss her. After that she invites you to meet her parents.

Cute.

Im always, always saying to MGTOW/incels whatever you wanna call elliot rodgers types of guy, go out and f*****g date. You fat --> GYM. Ugly face? --> GYM. Bald? --> gun (joking just lower standards and GYM maybe hairtransplant).

But the more you date women and you get some action, you will realise they are fucked up like men are (sometimes even more). If you have a women in bed that calls her boyfriend she will come home later cause of "studys" after she swallowed your load like a good girl, or you f*** on the first date (welcome to Tinder) and she tell you "please hit my face daddy" this: "women are princesses" sh*t goes into the toilet. Now, most men (I hope) want a girlfriend or wife that isnt being used by 50 Chads. Have fun finding that. Some are okay that "you go girl get some tinder experience" cause "finding yourself" is okay. Im not. sl*t shaming is important. Im lucky I found one girl that has a family that actualy cares what she is dating (christians background). But this girl despite how sweet she is, is still a women. And women care about looks. And balding is a big step back into your SMV. A big one.

That post is literally all over the place. What point are you trying to make?
 

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I have noticed that every time I say I (have) date(d) an 8/9 no one believes it here and accuses me of being delusional so...

Not saying I don't believe you, I'm just saying...do you?

Again, I am not saying that women do not care about looks at all. But it is a fact that a guy can easily date a woman that scores 2 points higher on the attraction scale than him if the guy does everything else right.

Sure, but the kinds of guys we're talking about aren't generally a "two points" difference. Again, in that range...it starts to get pretty subjective.

But the guys I'm talking about are the what the people here call "incel" types.

I had this conversation with a guy I know, who is a manlet for sure, 5ft 4...sh*t maybe shorter, the other day, actually. He's married to a woman that's at least twice his width. But he insists to me that looks aren't that big of a deal if you have a lot of money or charisma, and he scoffed at the idea that "you can't talk women into sleeping with you" (credit to Roberto for that line). Maybe a low blow, but I just straight asked him:

"So why aren't you married to a model if it's just that easy?"

Suddenly, we were on a different subject.

Ill GUARANTEE you the guys here will shred her down to a 4.5 lol.......

There are ABSURDLY high standards here

Not that I disagree, I've accused the community in general of having absurd standards.

But it's not relevant here, because the thesis is "women care about looks just like men do. No more; no less."
 

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Not saying I don't believe you, I'm just saying...do you?



Sure, but the kinds of guys we're talking about aren't generally a "two points" difference. Again, in that range...it starts to get pretty subjective.

But the guys I'm talking about are the what the people here call "incel" types.

I had this conversation with a guy I know, who is a manlet for sure, 5ft 4...sh*t maybe shorter, the other day, actually. He's married to a woman that's at least twice his width. But he insists to me that looks aren't that big of a deal if you have a lot of money or charisma, and he scoffed at the idea that "you can't talk women into sleeping with you" (credit to Roberto for that line). Maybe a low blow, but I just straight asked him:

"So why aren't you married to a model if it's just that easy?"

Suddenly, we were on a different subject.



Not that I disagree, I've accused the community in general of having absurd standards.

But it's not relevant here, because the thesis is "women care about looks just like men do. No more; no less."

I was commenting directly to the quote not the thread. No more no less.
 

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Bad in what case? Ask any Chad what he thinks about women. Well better, go out and get yourself some experience. When we were innocent small boys, we thought women are little princesses. You give them flowers, go to the cinema and maybe after your 3rd date, you kiss her. After that she invites you to meet her parents.

Cute.

Im always, always saying to MGTOW/incels whatever you wanna call elliot rodgers types of guy, go out and f*****g date. You fat --> GYM. Ugly face? --> GYM. Bald? --> gun (joking just lower standards and GYM maybe hairtransplant).

But the more you date women and you get some action, you will realise they are fucked up like men are (sometimes even more). If you have a women in bed that calls her boyfriend she will come home later cause of "studys" after she swallowed your load like a good girl, or you f*** on the first date (welcome to Tinder) and she tell you "please hit my face daddy" this: "women are princesses" sh*t goes into the toilet. Now, most men (I hope) want a girlfriend or wife that isnt being used by 50 Chads. Have fun finding that. Some are okay that "you go girl get some tinder experience" cause "finding yourself" is okay. Im not. sl*t shaming is important. Im lucky I found one girl that has a family that actualy cares what she is dating (christians background). But this girl despite how sweet she is, is still a women. And women care about looks. And balding is a big step back into your SMV. A big one.
sl*t shaming is for angry virgins only.
It's very transparent.
You'd be surprised how quickly men's opinions about these so-called "sl*ts" will change after these men finally get some action themselves.
 

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sl*t shaming is for angry virgins only.
It's very transparent.
You'd be surprised how quickly men's opinions about these so-called "sl*ts" will change after these men finally get some action themselves.

Not that I think you're "wrong" or anything, but it's not hard to see why "sl*t-shaming" is a thing. It's always been around.

Womb is, biologically speaking, the most valuable thing a woman possesses, but sperm is a dime a dozen and like I said earlier, has a very short "cool down" before it can be used again.

Women that are voluntarily the town bicycle or sex workers have always been looked down on for that reason. By just sleeping with a shitload of men, it devalues their reproductive asset; it suggests she has low standards.

But for men, if you are able to have sex with a lot of women, it suggests you are a high-value sexual partner. Imagine women as venture capitalists. If you just throw money at every startup, not knowing if you're going to get any good returns, you're a pretty shitty venture capitalist. For men, if you're a startup who is getting approved by every bank, investment firm etc. it suggests you are a high-value business partner.

People forget that birth control is actually a fairly recent invention, and I don't think that society has really adjusted to that because it goes against our nature. I'm not sure we ever will, tbh. What it's done, IMO, is changed sexual pursuits from a matter of finding someone to help pass on your genes to a matter of conquest; everyone wants the superior partner to be "better" than everyone else, and of course, personal satisfaction.

So here's a question: If a single woman has sex with a lot of attractive men, and only attractive men, while never getting pregnant (doesn't give up the womb) is she really a "sl*t"?

I would say no, because she only gets with high-value sex partners and suggests she herself is also one.
 
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