Balding Makes Me Envy Women. I Want To Be A Women. Is This Normal?

[Feelsbadman]

I am not homosexual in anyway.

However, the more i think about it, the more I want to be a women.

This is the greatest time in HISTORY to be a women.

Women have it extremely easy at the moment.

Low-self-esteem? Post a photo on instagram/social media for instant likes?
Want to have sex? Go on tinder and choose any man you want.
Ugly? Wear make up
Overweight? Doesn't matter, some men will still want you.
Poor? Marry a rich man
Alone? Go out clubbing with the girls

Women have it extremely easy. Literally all they have to do is look pretty and they have already won at life.

Women don't have to go through any of this balding chit, find a job chit, earn money, provide for others etc etc.
f*** that.
Men are hated these days.
Feminism will take over soon.

 

[Rudiger]

Men are hated these days.
Feminism will take over soon.

Well I may think feminism if a laughing stock but at least it's funny.

I guess if I had to choose it would be feminism over all the other stuff you just wrote - not that it was necessarily untrue, but that you think it's socially and culturally incredibly relevant to our individual meaning and lifestyles.

 

[Baldingat188]

I think women do have it easier socially. Women are simply better at making freinds with other women- espically close friends. Men are so scared to befriend other men. "What if someone thinks I'm gay!!" That's why you see men who just have sports buddies , or drinking buddies but they fail to form deep friendships. Women also do have it easier in dating espically online.

But overall in life do women really have it better? I would say no. It is still easier for men to have a meaningful career , and once a woman's beauty fades assuming she hasn't started a family or anything, if can be pretty tough. There is pros and cons to both sides...

 

[DHTpolice]

> "Balding Makes Me Envy Women. I Want To Be A Women. Is This Normal?"
Why "I want to be a women" instead of "I want to be a woman"?

 

[Dench57]

Women don't have to go through any of this balding chit

@EvilLocks @Pasbrillantebrunette

 

[Nano123]

Balding and hair loss is sh*t for both genders man. I only get good comments because I mask my hair loss, and most comments come with "but why don't you like grow your hair longer? It'll be cooler" , and if I don't mask it, my life will probably be as hard as it is for a bald guy. We are all going through pressure because our genes suck and simply being a woman doesn't make things easier.

 

[Saurabhaj]

I hope you have done proper homework before making this thread.

 

[Saurabhaj]

> "Balding Makes Me Envy Women. I Want To Be A Women. Is This Normal?"
Why "I want to be a women" instead of "I want to be a woman"?

DHT+Grammar police.

 

[fixthis]

... I want to be a woman too ^^

Real women have hair

 

[buckthorn]

Real women have hair

I know you're joking, but kind of a hurtful, dick thing to say.

 

[fixthis]

I know you're joking, but kind of a hurtful, dick thing to say.

I'm just shitposting here and yeah it was a joke. I didn't mean anything bad by it, since we're all suffering from hairloss.

 

[IdealForehead]

I figured it's only hurtful because realistic, not your fault.

Are you planning or trying any new treatments at the moment? If I recall correctly you haven't tried too many.

Eg. Add high dose topical RU, or switch spironolactone to cypro, or add finasteride/dutasteride, or add oral minoxidil.

If you're losing ground you should keep trying things.

 

[IdealForehead]

I have tried some... Diane 35, spironolactone, CPA... the problem is they all triggered rapid uncontrolable waight gain, partly water retention related I guess and aggravated my veins issues. All anti androgens do that on me. The reason I am not on any oral medication is because I was having other health issue lately that required stop all meds but I guess duta or fina would result on weight gain again. It was very difficult to lose the weight gained on spironolactone (only mg!) so I am not willing to play with the devil. I made a choice between my body and my hair.
I am still using minoxidil + progesterone tho, and will try RU pretty soon. I am also using ricin oil + dmso and dermarolling once a week, and serioxyl mixed with adenosine. But that's already a lot on my sclap. I am opened to cetirizine/voltaren protocols and also duta meso but I have to discuss that with my derm first as I have a risky hormonal profile on top of it (breast cancer seems to run in the family), so whatever I do I tell my derm and am very closely monitored.
It's not lazyness on my side.

Fair enough. I couldn't even handle spironolactone. I went up to 200 actually but I was drinking and pissing and nauseous so much it was exhausting. Oral antiandrogens are exhausting. spironolactone and cypro both depressed me like hell too.

In that case you should definitely try some topical antiandrogens as you suggest you will be. I know we talked about this already and you agree.

You can also order some desloratadine and add 1% to your topical or have it compounded in by your pharmacy if your doctor agrees. Cetirizine may be less stable in alcohol containing solutions though we don't know how bad the instability truly is.

https://m.alibaba.com/product/60637...e.html?spm=a2706.7843299.1998817009.14.MMx70v

What you're doing with dmso and ricin oil could be dropped confidently if you added the two above treatments to simplify things and I would bet you'd get a lot of regrowth.

 

[IdealForehead]

spironolactone is a mild diuretic, hence the pissing (making you lose magnesium) but mostlu it's a potassium keeper, which could, if not monitored, result in hyperkalemia... it's no joke. It also made me tired and made my periods and libido inexistant...
Thanks for the advice, will talk about it with my derm.

Yeah but don't expect much help or advice on things like RU or topical antihistamines. None of the hair surgeons I have talked with in consultation had even heard of RU. Topical antihistamines are so cutting edge and there are only two tiny studies on them I doubt most doctors know about that either.

At a certain point you may find you need to take your problem into your own hands. For me that point was years ago when finasteride/dutasteride failed for me and my doctor/pharmacist both said "well I guess that's it".

 

[Xander94]

Fred the baldcel at it again with the blue pills to please his women overlords

 

[fixthis]

I figured it's only hurtful because realistic, not your fault.

It won't have to be if hair systems/wigs are an option or better yet if they release a decent maintenance treatment (shesido). The comments that get to me in real life are stuff like 'ew he's bald' when a girl is asked about some bald guy.

 

[fixthis]

It seems to me you are taking this to the male/female territory... that's not the point. Also, do you really think male won't say "oh but she is bald"!! Enough with this genre war nonsense.

My intention wasn't to get into a gender war, I was just giving a typical comment that made me feel bad at the time, and to answer your question of course they would.

 

[sisenegonan]

There is a ludwig 1 + nw3 (vertex) diffusing girl at my workplace. Its rather sad imo to watch it happen. She is like the diva of our training batch. I don't remember what she looked like when she joined but back then she defo had hair. The second diva is also losing hair from the front (nw4 ish type recession) and ludwig 1 around the part, slightly to the left.

Coming from a balding (dupa @ 15) mother, I only have pity for their male children.

 

[blackg]

This is some world-class "grass is greener" rant.

Here are few points to give you some perspective:

- Women are also becoming more and more miserable in the West and a quarter of the female population is on antidepressants.

- Likes on Instagram provide some kind of dopamine rush which wears off fast, they'll still need antidepressants to cope with their empty superficial lives.

- Same problem with impulsive sex on Tinder, it can provide a great dopamine kick when that disease-ridden hunk blows his load into you, but once he goes on to f****r other dumb sl*ts and never calls you again, what then? Antidepressants.

- Make-up? Every night, they have to remove it and the truth will scream at them. It must be the same feeling I had when I washed off my dermmatch: "ah f***, still half-bald."

- Marry a rich man? Unfortunately, not many women are wise enough to do that these days, and the competition to get those tall good-looking guys who have the potential to make a lot of money is ferocious. A high value guy just won't settle for a woman like the one you describe above.

- And about going clubbing with the girls, it's the same problem: great short-term solution that will make you forget that you're miserable for a couple of hours of goofing around on the dancefloor but it won't solve your fundamental life problems.

Having a meaningful life whether it's as a man or a woman isn't so easy I'm afraid.

And for your "women don't have to go through any of this balding sh*t"... @Pasbrillantebrunette @EvilLocks .

You haven't thought this through and you haven't done your homework.

No offence, Fred, but you're playing amateur psychologist again and are attempting to prescribe this overly dramatic outcome arbitrarily.

It's a little simplistic.

Most of these "attention seeking females" will just move on from this phase of there lives easily enough once other age-appropriate distractions take hold.

 

[razzmatazz91]

Fred the baldcel at it again with the blue pills to please his women overlords

Fred is actually as close to a baldchad as a man can be. Read up his posts and you'll know this ex-baldcel has come a long way. Stop sh*t posting stuff you don't know about man.