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I've seen a few #metoo posts, they're everywhere and most of the time I don't bother reading them. So I might be off a bit on this, but from the ones that I've read they all have one thing in common. They never say what actually happened, just like you are doing here. I do get it to an extent that you don't want to reveal personal information and that's completely fine. But the terms sexual assualt and sexual harassment don't have a clear definition. Let's suppose you have 30K followers, which isn't even that big of a number in the social media world. But it's the amount of people in a football stadium, so when you post your #metoo post you're actually speaking to an immense amount of people, which I think a lot of people forget. If you're accusing someone of something there's no court of justice, normies will just believe you if you say you're a victim and the person you're accusing of sexual assault (whatever that means) life's ruined.I used to be a model. Believe it or not I was once pretty. Didn’t ever prevent me from sexual assault or harassment. I and many other girls I know went through eating disorders because he expectation to be thin and perfect. Everyone always assumed that I was vain or brainless, and worst was trying to find a man who wanted to ever genuinely get to know me as a person, rather than just use me. Which happened a lot. Being a woman is not as it seems.
If someone said they were in a car accident, then people would ask how bad it was. It could be just an accident while parking. Or everyone in the car except the person telling you about it could have died. Every time someone says they were in a car accident people would ask what happened. But with sexual assault you're not supposed to ask, and there's no clear definition to what it means. That's why these umbrella terms such as sexual assault and harassment are terms that don't mean anything. When someone tries to talk about that fact they get shamed as a misogynist. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/17/arts/matt-damon-metoo-movement.html
Apparently you can't categorize the different types of sexual assault because "They all hurt". I guess we shouldn't differentiate between a parking car accident and a fatal one either, because both of them hurt too.
Mens careers and personal lives are literally getting destroyed because they're being branded as sexual assaulters for trying and failing to flirt with a woman. Yet no one cares about them. What matters is the brave women posting on a social media platform!
Moving onto your other points. Do you really think men aren't also experiencing the pressure to be "thin and perfect" as you put it? I'd wager that it's also alot more difficult (impossible for most) to be tall, broad framed, lean and muscular than it is to be skinny.
In the cases you were used by men which you say happened alot, don't you think it's partly your fault for picking the wrong men (Chad) multiple times? Inb4 victim blaming.
As @WhitePolarBear said most people are nice.