Completely Destroyed...utterly Destroyed.

michel sapin

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I have started propecia as a Norwood 1,25 , because hair is fuking important to me , but it has failed to stop my receding hairline . Now 2 years after i am a Norwood 2,25 and i hope that duta and minoxidil will save me .
For the moment minoxidil just ruined my hairline even more so i'm sad .
 

Mattias

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I have started propecia as a Norwood 1,25 , because hair is fuking important to me , but it has failed to stop my receding hairline . Now 2 years after i am a Norwood 2,25 and i hope that duta and minoxidil will save me .
For the moment minoxidil just ruined my hairline even more so i'm sad .

Im sorry but you are high jacking Bobsters thread. Please make your own thread with the questions you have if you want to discuss your case and lets respect Bobster.
 

michel sapin

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for sure i respect him man, but i just wanted to know if they tried an anti androgen .
 

kj6723

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for sure i respect him man, but i just wanted to know if they tried an anti androgen .

The dude literally said he tried propecia in his opening post
 

Bobster231

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Thanks for the support guys. I am currently using toppik concealer to get by in the mean time. But I don't know how much longer I have left. It's getting to the point where the concealer is getting very noticeable.

I have consulted with a local salon who specializes in male hair replacement. That might be something I looknow into. It might not be a permanent solution if my sides continue to thin.

I've honestly considered quitting my job because I can't wear a hat where I work.

I've become isolated. Lying in bed all day. Feeling sorry for myself..That I was inflicted with this horrific curse.

It literally has derailed my life to a point where I don't care anymore.

To the people who say it's just hair.. no.. it's your identity and self worth being stripped away. It's a cancer of the mind.

I've been through some serious sh*t in my life. But nothing has paralyzed me and my well being with rapid hair loss.

I love my parents. But I honestly wish I was never born. If I knew my life was going to completely stop at 27 years old.

This horrific genetic defect just destroyed me.

Like I said. Nobody will understand until it happens to them. It's easy to say "it's just hair, you are not your hair" but when you have an essential part of you stripped away you feel f*****g defective.
 

Bobster231

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I wish I didn'the care. But self image is very important to me. Especially at my age. Being single. My quality of women just completely took a nose dive. As well as my confidence and self esteem.

I couldn't even have normal male pattern baldness. I had to have a very rare form of hair loss only 5 percent of males get.

It apparently skips a generation because no one in my family is bald. But if I could go back in time and find the ancestor who passed this down I would bludgeon them with a baseball bat.

It's hard to see your family and cousins your age with no hair issues. And somehow I get fucked over.
 

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I wish I didn'the care. But self image is very important to me. Especially at my age. Being single. My quality of women just completely took a nose dive. As well as my confidence and self esteem.

I couldn't even have normal male pattern baldness. I had to have a very rare form of hair loss only 5 percent of males get.

It apparently skips a generation because no one in my family is bald. But if I could go back in time and find the ancestor who passed this down I would bludgeon them with a baseball bat.

It's hard to see your family and cousins your age with no hair issues. And somehow I get fucked over.
How are you so sure it is dupa..
 

EvilLocks

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Thanks for the support guys. I am currently using toppik concealer to get by in the mean time. But I don't know how much longer I have left. It's getting to the point where the concealer is getting very noticeable.

I have consulted with a local salon who specializes in male hair replacement. That might be something I looknow into. It might not be a permanent solution if my sides continue to thin.

I've honestly considered quitting my job because I can't wear a hat where I work.

I've become isolated. Lying in bed all day. Feeling sorry for myself..That I was inflicted with this horrific curse.

It literally has derailed my life to a point where I don't care anymore.

To the people who say it's just hair.. no.. it's your identity and self worth being stripped away. It's a cancer of the mind.

I've been through some serious sh*t in my life. But nothing has paralyzed me and my well being with rapid hair loss.

I love my parents. But I honestly wish I was never born. If I knew my life was going to completely stop at 27 years old.

This horrific genetic defect just destroyed me.

Like I said. Nobody will understand until it happens to them. It's easy to say "it's just hair, you are not your hair" but when you have an essential part of you stripped away you feel f*****g defective.

I feel you, Bobster. And yeah I'm aware of that certain members here will probably say I can't possibly understand since I'm a woman. However, I recognize myself in what you write. Hair loss completely ruined my life as well, and I've been through a lot of crap but this is among the worst I've ever experienced. Also, like you, I suffer from DUPA so a hair transplant is out of the question for me as well. I absolutely hate it..
 

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I'm aware of that certain members here will probably say I can't possibly understand since I'm a woman.
You don't need to say that when you post. we gotcha back girl!
 

MrBald

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Relax man, its just hair???!

No brother I am just joking.

Baldness has completely destroyed my life too, so I can really relate to you and I feel your pain.

My advice is to try to focus on things in life that doesn't rely or involve your physical appearance. Its hard but its like the buddhists say:
its your attachments that makes you suffer. And your hair/physical appearance is a big attachment for you.

I wish you all the best.
 

Bobster231

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I was diagnosed with DUPA from a hair transplant clinic. They said my Donor is unstable. They said if I agreed to use Propecia than a transplant could possibly work but they don't recommend it due to continued thinning and I would be wasting my money. And I tried Propecia and had immediate side effects and had to stop.

I just see the rest of my life living in misery. Wishing I was somebody else. I won't leave the house without a hat on.
 

shookwun

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Post your hair bruh.


We have a lot of bdd kids around here devestated by a c*** hair of temple loss
 

kj6723

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Post your hair bruh.


We have a lot of bdd kids around here devestated by a c*** hair of temple loss

I wish I'd been one of them.

Would've got my loss early, possibly forego a transplant
 

F2005

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Again Bobster, your thoughts completely sum up how I feel. Probably more than anyone else since I've been on this forum. Matter of fact, your posts should be required reading for people (who have their hair) who downplay the significance of having a decent head of hair.
 
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shookwun

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Again Bobster, your thoughts completely sum up how I feel. Probably more than anyone else since I've been on this forum.
Why don't you try a toupee?


You will look good, but will go through series of emotions, obstacles, and routine maitenance to fit the part. They are what I like to call all smoke and mirrors. Looks perfect but requires a grave deal of effort to maintain a certain look. Touching is a different story...
 

F2005

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Why don't you try a toupee?


You will look good, but will go through series of emotions, obstacles, and routine maitenance to fit the part. They are what I like to call all smoke and mirrors. Looks perfect but requires a grave deal of effort to maintain a certain look. Touching is a different story...

I won't try it for some of the reasons you just mentioned. I lift weights just like you and I also like to jog. I sweat big time and that is just murder on a toupee, especially during these summer months. Also, detection. I don't want to be with a woman and have to confess to her that I am wearing a wig. That would be like hell. One of my old best friends wore a toupee for 15 years so I know exactly what it entails, and now that he ditched the toupee, I think he feels relieved that he doesn't have to worry about all of the issues that go along with it. Also, his situation was different. His girlfriend knew he was wearing (hell, she paid for it!) and he wasn't big into exercise. Although he did tell me that when he did sweat, the wig would move.
 

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hit the gym hard
 
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