Did You Acknowledge Hairloss Right Away Or Did You Live In Denial/delusion For A While?

[sunchyme1]

You're wasting too much time with this guy

what times your flight man?

you looking forward to a new adventure?

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I respect your decision to not want to have kids, but if you're looking at it so pragmatically like this then I think you're missing the whole point of having them. Of course nobody would want this little glub of a stranger crying and snotting all over the place, having to clean up it's sh*t, it's an exercise in un-conditional love, often getting little in return from it. It's also the idea of sharing the most important possible thing you ever could with the person you're in love with.

Jeebs, trying to put the reason people have kids into words is really hard.

Haha still not sold.

I looked after my nephew for a day and the sh*t they watch on tv and those annoying f*****g songs - I was near insanity. I took him to the park to get away from the shitty tv and he had fun for 30 mins then burst out into tears because he was tired.

Plus, I used to work in a nursing home and you would not believe the number of parents who don't have their kids visit them - it was so sad.

 

[SmoothSailing]

i honestly have no idea if i want kids.

im split to be honest

50/50

Have a dwarf then

Jeebs, trying to put the reason people have kids into words is really hard.

Evolutionary speaking every father to grandfather you have had going back to the first sexual organisms have had "children". All of us who choose not to, will eliminate our choose-not-to-have-kids genes and the future generations will come from the others that choose to have kids. Always thought of it as an interesting line of thinking.

I don't ever want to have kids, but my ego has always sort of said "you would raise a better kid than most". Probably bullshit but it's something I find quite hard to dispel when I look at the people around me.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

what times your flight man?

you looking forward to a new adventure?

Yep, tomorrow afternoon - it hasn't sunk in yet.

But I have to say I've been there before so its not as big adventure for me - i'm just curious to see how the village is that I'm going to.

Its going to be really simple living - teaching 5 hrs per day, exercise in the morning, and just reading in the evenings. On the weekends I can go to the city if I get bored of country life.

 

[Rudiger]

You're wasting too much time with this guy

It's true, I didn't think I'd say this with blackg but it's actually getting worse, to the point I just have to leave this all un-resolved.

@blackg of course you have your right to respond to my last post but I'm going to pre-empt your petulant little sly digs, vaguely directed at nobody, about "haters" and dragging this BH's thing on further than it needs to be. I've seen this before from you at others and myself, and it's just childish.

Examples I didn't feel were worth responding to (but clearly had ball-less antagonism from you):

Lets all act like five year old brats because he is good looking.

Thanks Baldhurts. This post may calm them down somewhat.

So yes, I've heard about this before, seen it before, and expect more (or at least would've expect more before making this point) and whatever your response to my last post, just try leave it at that instead of getting petty.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

It's true, I didn't think I'd say this with blackg but it's actually getting worse, to the point I just have to leave this all un-resolved.

@blackg of course you have your right to respond to my last post but I'm going to pre-empt your petulant little sly digs, vaguely directed at nobody, about "haters" and dragging this BH's thing on further than it needs to be. I've seen this before from you at others and myself, and it's just childish.

Examples I didn't feel were worth responding to (but clearly had ball-less antagonism from you):





So yes, I've heard about this before, seen it before, and expect more (or at least would've expect more before making this point) and whatever your response to my last post, just try leave it at that instead of getting petty.

Blackg is a very unusual case and we don't know all that much about him because he doesn't say that much about his personal life. He used to be a little blue pilled and optimistic (nothing wrong with that, per se) but recently he's grown a lot more cynical and antagonistic with certain posters. I don't know if he's going through some personal drama but he is not himself lately.

 

[kj6723]

Blackg is a very unusual case and we don't know all that much about him because he doesn't say that much about his personal life. He used to be a little blue pilled and optimistic (nothing wrong with that, per se) but recently he's grown a lot more cynical and antagonistic with certain posters. I don't know if he's going through some personal drama but he is not himself lately.

I've noticed this too. He's giving off a different vibe than he used to

 

[Baldhurts]

Actually I haven't noticed him saying this much at all, I know a lot of us have acknowledged he's a good looking guy, but as far as attracting women I've usually seen him say he gets absolutely no attention at all. That's right, if anything it's been the complete opposite.

But I guess I'm just lying through my teeth again, you know me better than I do, I've noticed it all, and I'm envious and can't admit it.

Again you are really over-stepping the mark of arrogance, and I think it's because you don't know what else to do at this point. I'm not crawling away from anything, I admitted that I can see why you feel I'm being critical of him, I explained why, and that doesn't suit you and this narrative you've created out of thin air.

But no, I definitely don't associate BH with posts about getting lots of attention from women, I wouldn't be surprised if he did, but he consistently says otherwise, this 20 year old girl is the only one I've seen him post about since he started here (that was recent, not some past thing).

A quick google search of "we will respect you more in the morning" brings up nothing really, one sort-of related facebook post, and now you're assuming I know what this means as well? It doesn't even seem to be a commonly used phrase anywhere, never mind across the globe. I've never heard this, but you'll just insist I'm lying anyway so what's the point at this stage? It's getting beyond desperate, anything that isn't suiting you is just lies and deception.

Is there anything else I should know about, that I apparently already know or feel? Because you're so far up your own *** that you are enlightening me on a lot of things I didn't realise about myself, and none of them are backed up by anything other than your remarkable brain power.

In everyday life I would say no I don't. I very rarely check girls out and always look away if I see one coming. If a hot woman at the gym comes near me or starts working out beside me I'll go somewhere else and carry on with my routine.

Tinder/bumble? I don't bother with online dating at all. I don't care for it. Although I did meet my ex girlfriend on tinder last summer. She came straight over after a week of talking/Snapchat. I fucked her brains out in my living room and we were inseparable for 3 months.

When I go out to bars and clubs- I NEVER approach, and girls will talk to me all the time. Usually this results in makeouts and rarely ends up in f*****g on that night.


Then there is a rare instance that a woman will take notice of me (the girl from yesterday) and she made and effort to get my attention with her passing down her business card to me through my grandmother who has been a client at this particular salon for over 10 years.



But as in everyday life I don't notice girls looking at me (if they even are who knows) and I just keep to myself.

I accept and realize I am at a dis-advantage in the dating world by being bald and I'm okay with it honestly. I'm taking the nessescary steps to improve my look (melanotan, sub 10% bf levels, insanely white teeth) so I'm doing what I can and I don't worry about what other people are doing)

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

rankmyphotos.com has this comparatively good-looking guy as a 5.62/10, f*** my life.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

rankmyphotos.com has this comparatively guy as a 5.62/10, f*** my life.

Why is that bad? He is a 5?

He could date average women over 30.

 

[Rudiger]

When I go out to bars and clubs- I NEVER approach, and girls will talk to me all the time. Usually this results in makeouts and rarely ends up in f*****g on that night.

This is still kinda rare, so wow if it's happening to you a lot. For me and even the most attractive friends I've ever had, this is normally the case:

3 - A girl will attempt, very clearly, to let a guy know they are interested through eye contact. 95% of the times that is the way they will indicate they like you - it is by lingering eye contact. If you are not looking them in the eyes, you will miss it.

I can pretty much remember each of the handful of times in the last year a girl has initiated things by literally going up to talk to me, the most I can hope for (which I'm happy with) is eye contact. Not long ago a girl I ended up seeing eventually said she was pissed off I didn't "read the signals" sooner and she thought I wasn't interested, what were the signals? The first time I saw her at a party she sort of glanced at me once, and then looked again before walking off literally 5 seconds later.

For her however these 2 little glances = air traffic controller holding up the glowsticks and pulling you in for landing.

I think that says a lot, in term of social etiquette and what females may feel are HUGE invites. I mean f***, if a girl starts talking to me I pretty much assume she wants my babies.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Why is that bad? He is a 5?

He could date average women over 30.

With all his assets, he is only a 5.62.

Low body fat
most of his hair
perfect skin
good nose
thick eyebrows
chest hair
ears and nose are the right size

 

[Rudiger]

Why is that bad? He is a 5?

He could date average women over 30.

Is it because he actually is quite good looking for a 5? It kinda shows the standard women can expect, if this is average what the f*** is 8.

 

[Rudiger]

With all his assets, he is only a 5.62.

Low body fat
most of his hair
perfect skin
good nose
thick eyebrows
chest hair
ears and nose are the right size

I'd agree actually, dunno why but he kinda reminds me of a low grade Edward Norton (who lots of women think is f*****g hot for some reason).

5.62, damn.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

With all his assets, he is only a 5.62.

Low body fat
most of his hair
perfect skin
good nose
thick eyebrows
chest hair
ears and nose are the right size

Soft jaw, hair loss, feminine face, sh*t stubble goatee. I'm not saying he is ugly but if you gave him a 6 then I'm a damn 10!

 

[Rudiger]

Soft jaw, hair loss, feminine face, sh*t stubble goatee. I'm not saying he is ugly but if you gave him a 6 then I'm a damn 10!

I feel much better looking than this guy but no, I still think a 5 should be uglier than this. It's kinda concerning for everyone on the ladder.

 

[Baldhurts]

This is still kinda rare, so wow if it's happening to you a lot. For me and even the most attractive friends I've ever had, this is normally the case:



I can pretty much remember each of the handful of times in the last year a girl has initiated things by literally going up to talk to me, the most I can hope for (which I'm happy with) is eye contact. Not long ago a girl I ended up seeing eventually said she was pissed off I didn't "read the signals" sooner and she thought I wasn't interested, what were the signals? The first time I saw her at a party she sort of glanced at me once, and then looked again before walking off literally 5 seconds later.

For her however these 2 little glances = air traffic controller holding up the glowsticks and pulling you in for landing.

I think that says a lot, in term of social etiquette and what females may feel are HUGE invites. I mean f***, if a girl starts talking to me I pretty much assume she wants my babies.

I don't go out a lot. I went out twice to a late twenties/thirties popular place here, in those instances I made out with two girls, one Asian, and another cute Latina, then the next weekend I walked in and literally 10 minutes later a blonde 6/7 was all over me (turned out she was married and her husband was away) but I haven't been out since then. Then of course some dates here and there that didn't end up in sex but I don't give a sh*t, it is what it is.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Is it because he actually is quite good looking for a 5? It kinda shows the standard women can expect, if this is average what the f*** is 8.

This is the highest ranked man on the site, he is a 9.46/10:

These guys are all rated as 8.00/10, with more than 30 votes:

 

[Rudiger]

This is the highest ranked man on the site, he is a 9.46/10:

These guys are all rated as 8.00/10, with more than 30 votes:

OK now I don't know what to think.

I suppose, someone has to be an 8.

 

[blackg]

Actually I haven't noticed him saying this much at all, I know a lot of us have acknowledged he's a good looking guy, but as far as attracting women I've usually seen him say he gets absolutely no attention at all. That's right, if anything it's been the complete opposite.

But I guess I'm just lying through my teeth again, you know me better than I do, I've noticed it all, and I'm envious and can't admit it.

Again you are really over-stepping the mark of arrogance, and I think it's because you don't know what else to do at this point. I'm not crawling away from anything, I admitted that I can see why you feel I'm being critical of him, I explained why, and that doesn't suit you and this narrative you've created out of thin air.

But no, I definitely don't associate BH with posts about getting lots of attention from women, I wouldn't be surprised if he did, but he consistently says otherwise, this 20 year old girl is the only one I've seen him post about since he started here (that was recent, not some past thing).

A quick google search of "we will respect you more in the morning" brings up nothing really, one sort-of related facebook post, and now you're assuming I know what this means as well? It doesn't even seem to be a commonly used phrase anywhere, never mind across the globe. I've never heard this, but you'll just insist I'm lying anyway so what's the point at this stage? It's getting beyond desperate, anything that isn't suiting you is just lies and deception.

Is there anything else I should know about, that I apparently already know or feel? Because you're so far up your own *** that you are enlightening me on a lot of things I didn't realise about myself, and none of them are backed up by anything other than your remarkable brain power.

Yes there is one more thing I could enlightened you about: Less is more. Google that!