Incels want sex but supposedly according to them can't have it. I do not want it, it's called being asexual - I'm fine with not having a sex drive and I also happen to be aromantic. It frees me up to concentrate working on my singing, playing musical instruments, playing video games, having friends without having to worry about complications from sexual/romantic attraction. Not that you care, but I participate in musicals, community theater online and offline, help teach other trans people voice modification, play in a band, go out with friends to watch movies. I have a social life that is plenty for my needs, so call me incel if you want, I just don't want that stuff. Maybe some day that will change, and if so, I can still do that stuff, as a woman, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
I also train for and run marathons casually on a yearly basis, but I guess I am still somehow weak and sick according to you despite doing that. I can tell you for sure that I didn't care to do stuff like exercise and eat healthy until after my transition because I hated my body and disassociated from it. I *love* *everything* that surgeries and HRT did for me and the only parts I still don't like are the parts I wanted them to change that they couldn't.
Of course, you can claim to know what I want better than I know, but then you would be telling others what they want.