Hi, Dr. Nick! Simpson's joke. Welcome. Let me read all of this since you write in Janey-style meaning lots of words!
Thank you for your reply Janey
I didn't get the joke at first but I looked it up online. The only Simpson's joke I know is Sneed's Feed and Seed because of a 4chan thing called Sneedposting, it's pretty funny but also a bit annoying when some people do it too much.
1. I doubt that breast growth is avoidable. Most MtF's are small says Janey but there are no guarantees. Pretty much the founder of the thread and I in emulation both experienced quite noticeable breast growth. We/I discuss this a lot because I have been trying to find a way to use estradiol to regrow hair without going systemic and feminizing and it won't work because you have to pass through the breast growth part, which starts all but immediately before you get to the E2 levels that likely regrow hair.
You could try raloxi or tamoxi but word's that they are difficult to work with and outcomes vary so it probably makes sense to just chance the breast growth and if you get it like me, then learn to like it because 100 different MtF's will be insanely jealous of your "results".
Breasts grow on you over time, so to speak, laughs Janey at her own pun.
2. Any bio-identical estradiol, especially parenteral estradiol. You are wrong entirely about minoxidil but that's a common misperception among the young for some reason. To deny yourself the use of oral minoxidil to avoid some chest hair is never going to work. That's what laser removal is for. Hair regrowth is literally so precious that $1,000 for full laser below the neck minus the pubic area is a trifling thing. You have to want this as much as you want to breathe or don't bother. You will just end up frustrated and balder than you were.
3. HRT.cafe but you will have to go through it and see who offers what. I use only Amazon four health.
With respect to your own trans issues, nobody on here cares--it's all copacetic and some of what you say about not wanting to be trans might be offensive to some. Me, very little offends me.
I have coined a term called "just in it for the hair" and that will quench some of your fears. I go by two names and three pronouns but some people on here are very sensitive about pronouns and I think that we try to use their pronouns or when in doubt, use "they" because for transfolks, that's the term you use when you don't know someone's gender assignation or you aren't sure because maybe like me, some of us sort of transition androgynously and I am no different. If I go to trans outings, I struggle some times to know which direction the person is going but for hair regrowth, MtF has nothing to do with gender. It indicates the direction of the meds that you use so MtF HRT applies just as much to the folks "just in it for the hair" as it does to transgender females. There's some baggage in doing this for any XY but if it's not for you, you probably will know fairly quickly because if you can't deal with the gyno/growth issue then what you are attempting won't work.
Anyway as I am inclined to allusions and metaphors:
Come with me if you want to save you hair....
Best and welcome
Janey
1. Yeah, I know gyno is hard to avoid by just going through this thread. Some people on other forums (4chan) apparently use just AAs and Raloxifene for a more "Femboy" look without going full HRT, but I don't know how effective that is in regrowing hair, so I asked here as it's a pretty big trade off, gyno for hair. It seems to be a rule in this world, everything has both wanted and unwanted effects in most aspects of life and what we have to do is to balance them out. I took some more pictures of my hair today and it's pretty tragic, maybe your right and it's best to just risk the gyno, as letting my hair fall out would be an act of hate towards my body, a body that I love and want to care for. Yeah, I got your pun, it made me smile
2. Well I lived with body hair from my late puberty till I started getting rid of it some time ago, so maybe I can swallow having more of it for my hair while using Minoxidil. It's just that I always hated it as it makes a human look like an ape, but I never did anything about it in the past when I was stuck trying to be a "real masculine man", and that didn't go very well for me. Well laser does seem to be an option, I was already thinking about it for some time. Anyway, I have another question for you, do you think that Minoxidil hair dependency is a myth? Some people earlier in this thread think it exists, plus a few people I spoke to in my country seem to think so too, so I'm interested in your opinion about it, maybe I am overreacting.
3. Thank you for the HRT.cafe link
, I looked through the site and the prices are pretty good. Some websites linked there ship from Russia, I used to go there quite a lot before covid as my country has a border with Russia, and some of my ancestry is Russian. It's a nice country, although there are some stereotypes about it, in my experience Russians are very friendly people, who are more tolerant and open minded then people in my own country. I used to buy a lot of things there, so I trust Russian products.
About the trans thing, I have no problem with transgender people. It's their life, and they can do whatever they want. I used to hate them, but that's because I didn't understand what they were going through, plus hating on LGBT people is a thing young males do a lot in my country and I was trying to fit in. I don't hate them anymore, it's something I really regret, they are human beings with souls and hating them just for who they are is wrong. When I deconstructed my fake "real man" identity, I had a time I thought I might be trans who tried to repress it, but after a lot of questioning, I don't think so.
As I said, I don't have much of a overall problem with my male body and organs beside a few things, and I don't want to be a girl. In fact gender is not important to me, of course there is male and female sex, and masculine and feminine energies, but gender is a man made concept that I don't really care about. I am a biological male and I don't want to change that, but I don't feel like any gender. I just want to be myself fully, and trying to fit into gender roles again as a girl would be being fake once again, something I want to avoid. I also have a problem with how corporate "elites" and politicians who they control on both the left and right use LGBT issues as a way to set people against each other, to stir up hate and division instead of promoting unity, love, and diversity.
Of course this does not mean I want to invalidate the identities, feelings and experiences of others, so if I do offend any trans person I am sorry. I will try to use the correct pronouns and I promise to be nice to everybody on hairlosstalk