Facebook Post On The Pursuing Of Women

[hairblues]

isn't it just easier to let your body signals tell you if you are attracted instead of your mind telling you this exact ratings system?

 

[hairblues]

She is a cuty!

Well i dont know who Felicity Jones is but shes my small Bi Side approved.

I dont care number.

she has pretty eyes and a cute over bite like a bunny

 

[SmoothSailing]

isn't it just easier to let your body signals tell you if you are attracted instead of your mind telling you this exact ratings system?

Isn't the rating system not just our minds trying to scale these body signals on a numbered basis?

 

[hairblues]

Isn't the rating system not just our minds trying to scale these body signals on a numbered basis?

not really i dont think

i think the ratings system is good if you are model agents or casting directors

I dont really get the ratings system in discussing the nuance of attractiveness..

My opinion? and i can be wrong..that is more a thing that is going on when discussing it with people

which makes me think its more about other people think than ourselves.

She's hot a guy says of a girl/boy she/ he meets...

well how hot? friend asks

etc etc.

If you like someone and find them attractive physically and mentally etc...why spoil it with this analyzing of just how 'hot' they are. To a degree of a number or even a fraction of a number.

I get it in a Pageant situation to get so nuanced...I dont get it in a personal decision on who you want to date/screw/introduce to family friends etc...like is a 7 okay but a 6.5 not cut it?

Gets kind of over proportioned.

 

[hairblues]

its quantifying something that can not be really quantified to such an extent that everyone is even on the same page.

even here we have debated long debates on the number system...some agree some dont.

 

[SmoothSailing]

not really i dont think

i think the ratings system is good if you are model agents or casting directors

I dont really get the ratings system in discussing the nuance of attractiveness..

My opinion? and i can be wrong..that is more a thing that is going on when discussing it with people

which makes me think its more about other people think than ourselves.

She's hot a guy says of a girl/boy she/ he meets...

well how hot? friend asks

etc etc.

If you like someone and find them attractive physically and mentally etc...why spoil it with this analyzing of just how 'hot' they are. To a degree of a number or even a fraction of a number.

I get it in a Pageant situation to get so nuanced...I dont get it in a personal decision on who you want to date/screw/introduce to family friends etc...like is a 7 okay but a 6.5 not cut it?

Gets kind of over proportioned.

I guess the difference for me is that it doesn't 'spoil' it to analyze their attractiveness.

I feel I choose who I want to date/screw based purely on who I'm attracted to and not some conventional way of rating people.

Like I'm never going to a choose a girl I'm less attracted to simply because she's rated higher. I still think ratings make perfect sense though. It's just people trying to put a figure on someones attractiveness.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Plus I think you can not really know if you are attracted to someone over a pic. Often I am attracted by a certain way of moving, smiling (or not!), walking... voice, modesty, etc.

Yeah this is very true. Pictures can be deceiving in both ways.

 

[hairblues]

I guess the difference for me is that it doesn't 'spoil' it to analyze their attractiveness.

I feel I choose who I want to date/screw based purely on who I'm attracted to and not some conventional way of rating people.

Like I'm never going to a choose a girl I'm less attracted to simply because she's rated higher. I still think ratings make perfect sense though. It's just people trying to put a figure on someones attractiveness.

Im not talking about doing it here or doing it about actresses models random photos.

I do mean people in real life..who you/we select.

or like the OP

 

[hairblues]

Plus I think you can not really know if you are attracted to someone over a pic. Often I am attracted by a certain way of moving, smiling (or not!), walking... voice, modesty, etc.

this is very true

flood someone with enough light and make up and right angles and GREAT lenses (anyone who knows even a little about photography know that models and actresses are often being shot with a $4000 lens that is insanely flattering)

Rita Hayworth famously said 'They go to bed with Rita Hayworth and wake up with 'me''.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

The problem is that girls mistake their sexual value as their actual value.
The fact that 8/10s message you on Tinder wanting f*** you doesn't mean you're 8/10.

 

[hairblues]

The problem is that girls mistake their sexual value as their actual value.
The fact that 8/10s message you on Tinder wanting f*** you doesn't mean you're 8/10.

Im just curious though...

you really think it is just women who are over estimating there value to the opposite sex?

You dont think perhaps its both sexes are doing this?

edit
never mind jus saw you are talking sexual value

I think women are stupid if they don't figure out by age 16 that almost any man will want to get in her pants.

I dont think smart women do this....its often said amongst my friends over years even in our 20s 'oh he just wants to get laid' or 'he's just a player'
this is in reference to men who are really good looking/smooth laying it on.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Im just curious though...

you really think it is just women who are over estimating there value to the opposite sex?

You dont think perhaps its both sexes are doing this?

Of course, the difference is that it doesn't work for men, because they aren't getting bombarded with messages unless they're truly good-looking. Women on the other hand..

 

[hairblues]

Of course, the difference is that it doesn't work for men, because they aren't getting bombarded with messages unless they're truly good-looking. Women on the other hand..

I saw after i posted you meant sexual value...

Women know this---at least smart women figure this out young...thats why we call good looking men "players' or 'he's just trying to get laid' this is in reference to really hot men laying it on thick.

 

[davesmith420]

The problem is that girls mistake their sexual value as their actual value.
The fact that 8/10s message you on Tinder wanting f*** you doesn't mean you're 8/10.

Great point. I had (key word is had, we had a weird FWB thing going but ANYWAYS) a female friend for a while. She was slightly above average looking; she used to brag to me about all these Chad Thundercocks that were messaging her on Tinder. I could see that she was going on an ego trip over it. She used to do what I posted about earlier in this thread; post screenshots on sexual Tinder convos on social media talking about how "creepy" this guy was.

Things between her and I were weird. We had a friend's with benefits thing going on for the last year and a half; I made it clear to her that I wanted more (to date her) but she always claimed that she "didn't want to ruin what we had going." Then I would see her on posting on social media posting about how she was tired of being single, etc. It was a totally mind f*** and made me feel like sh*t. Even though she claimed that she was didn't want to take it further, she used to get mad when I would go on dates with other girls and often times call them ugly. She even constantly called this girl I was going on dates with "ugly" and how she was just using me, to the point it put soooo many thoughts into my head that I stopped seeing this girl. Months later my FWB tells me "Oh I was just saying that because I didn't want you to date her. I would never see you then." The last straw was when her and I went to a Halloween party this year; some girl I knew was being really flirty with me and I could tell that my "FWB" didn't like it. She kept coming in the middle of us and talking to me, and eventually said "We have to go" (she was my ride home). I have barely talked to her since.

Long story short; be careful with FWB and having female friends.

 

[hairblues]

The problem is that girls mistake their sexual value as their actual value.
The fact that 8/10s message you on Tinder wanting f*** you doesn't mean you're 8/10.

Also to be very honest i work for 25 years with some really stunningly beautiful people...my experience a lot of really top beauties are not really that interesting people male or female...I have a 'friend' really someone i worked with many times over the years so we have hung out socialized quite a bit..she is younger than me she has modeled a lot but is mainly an actress...and she is someone who oozes sex appeal and she has beautiful face and fantastic body men lose there sh*t when they first meet her....they talk to her for more than 30 minutes?
yeah they still want to f*** her but they are not 'into' her.

so she is almost always single unless she has a much less attractive BF who puts up with her very, very selfish ways.

She is extremely self centered and very 'whinny'.

she is also very, very insecure about other women. It's actually weird because she is so stunning i don't know why she has this insecurity but she does..she just sees all attractive women as competition.

 

[hairblues]

Great point. I had (key word is had, we had a weird FWB thing going but ANYWAYS) a female friend for a while. She was slightly above average looking; she used to brag to me about all these Chad Thundercocks that were messaging her on Tinder. I could see that she was going on an ego trip over it. She used to do what I posted about earlier in this thread; post screenshots on sexual Tinder convos on social media talking about how "creepy" this guy was.

Things between her and I were weird. We had a friend's with benefits thing going on for the last year and a half; I made it clear to her that I wanted more (to date her) but she always claimed that she "didn't want to ruin what we had going." Then I would see her on posting on social media posting about how she was tired of being single, etc. It was a totally mind f*** and made me feel like sh*t. Even though she claimed that she was didn't want to take it further, she used to get mad when I would go on dates with other girls and often times call them ugly. She even constantly called this girl I was going on dates with "ugly" and how she was just using me, to the point it put soooo many thoughts into my head that I stopped seeing this girl. Months later my FWB tells me "Oh I was just saying that because I didn't want you to date her. I would never see you then." The last straw was when her and I went to a Halloween party this year; some girl I knew was being really flirty with me and I could tell that my "FWB" didn't like it. She kept coming in the middle of us and talking to me, and eventually said "We have to go" (she was my ride home). I have barely talked to her since.

Long story short; be careful with FWB and having female friends.

Here is the thing that is interesting to me though....


why were you into her? Was it just sex for you or did you like her..cause she sounds kind of awful.

I have never dangled other mens interest in me to any of my lovers, boyfriends, men i am dating etc...

I was having a friends with benefits with a guy--he did this..he showed me without asking me his phone to see a naked girl sent him photos...we were in bed just had sex.....it was so weird...i was like 'uhm okay'

I never fucked him again...cause it was a turn off to me.

 

[nameless]

Claim:
"Felicity Jones isn't beautiful"

Reality:

Those shots are from the Indy film "Like Crazy", which did well at Sundance a few years back, and is the first movie I saw her in.

I agree with That Guy. If you look at a lot of her pics a few stand out as very good but most of them look average. Some pics make her look below average.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I agree with That Guy. If you look at a lot of her pics a few stand out as very good but most of them look average. Some pics make her look below average.

No.

The "average" woman has a body mass index of ~28, severely flawed teeth, and is substantially wrinkled.

Stop inflating the average to be something it's not.

Only @hairblues gets to do this as she works within the NY celebrity industry. She probably does have a shifted picture of average. The rest of us? Not so much.

 

[davesmith420]

Here is the thing that is interesting to me though....


why were you into her? Was it just sex for you or did you like her..cause she sounds kind of awful.

I have never dangled other mens interest in me to any of my lovers, boyfriends, men i am dating etc...

I was having a friends with benefits with a guy--he did this..he showed me without asking me his phone to see a naked girl sent him photos...we were in bed just had sex.....it was so weird...i was like 'uhm okay'

I never fucked him again...cause it was a turn off to me.

Good question. I guess she was just my oneitis.

 

[resu]

You're evaluating a celebrity, it's different. It's like in high school how sometimes the really popular guys had extra appeal even though their looks didn't but because they were popular the girls fawned to them and overrated them.

I really hated high-school, I think it's very similar to being in prison if you think about it.