Gay dating with hair loss

[swingline747]

Face beats everything. And hair is a big component of your face since the lack of it can throw your features out of proportion.

Being tall with a below average face won't help you. That's just short guys fantasies. Tall guys don't get girls served to them on a silver plate.

The advantage I've always had as a tall guy is having exclusive access to girls who are above 6 feet tall. That's it.

only a few guys get girls served on a silver plate lol, but take it from me being taller with some hair loss is better than short with no hairloss. Unless we are talking like 5-11 and 6-2,, then its moot. But like a difference of 5-6 and 6-2 or 3 is a major difference.

Face does trump but even then if youre like 5-6 or less, face isnt helping. Maybe its just different between europe and here though as well.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Really? I disagree. Face > Hair > Height

When I made the comment, face was not a factor. However, in certain cases a tall less good looking guy is going to trump someone who is short and better looking. I have seen this happen many times.

 

[Joan]

Just saw this post. Maybe. I still think it takes some doing to be really bad at it. Most girls have been very interested and keen which is half the battle in my eyes? Talking of lucky, my current situation with that girl I mentioned has turned obsessive on her part, definitely not lucky here!

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You're handling it well, though. That's one of the drawbacks of looking like a model I guess!

 

[Wolf Pack]

You're handling it well, though. That's one of the drawbacks of looking like a model I guess!

I'm sure you have your stalkers, as you say men often come and chat when you take a break at work. ID is a polite sneaky one to be aware of

 

[Joan]

I'm sure you have your stalkers, as you say men often come and chat when you take a break at work. ID is a polite sneaky one to be aware of

Not really stalkers. I actually met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We texted a couple of times, and I thought, "This guy's almost as sweet as I.D."

 

[I.D WALKER]

Haha Wolf I think our beloved Joan, in spite of her kind heart and approachability, would understandably not notice an unassuming looking guy like me. I "look better" only on the screen. (-:

I'm sure you have your stalkers, as you say men often come and chat when you take a break at work. ID is a polite sneaky one to be aware of

"Almost".., is my MOST favorite word ever.

Not really stalkers. I actually met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We texted a couple of times, and I thought, "This guy's almost as sweet as I.D."

 

[swingline747]

That's how it begins with a simple text, next thing you know...ha. ID seems caring and charismatic with his words, I doubt most Americans can outdo him on this front

except 90% of serial murderers!

 

[Wolf Pack]

except 90% of serial murderers!

He could be a Ted Bundy for all I know, he was charismatic and good looking apparently? The mods of HairLossTalk.com will be powerless if ID has such plans for Joan. I will ban him though for what it's worth

 

[swingline747]

He could be a Ted Bundy for all I know, he was charismatic and good looking apparently? The mods of HairLossTalk.com will be powerless if ID has such plans for Joan. I will ban him though for what it's worth

that might just make him ANGRIER for when the day finally does come!

 

[I.D WALKER]

It's true who ever really know until it's too late.., LOL
Yes I have been guilty from time to time of loving more than one women to death.
I've demolished the flimsily constructed pedestal I used to put some of my "love interest" on long since and now call them how I see them. (-:

except 90% of serial murderers!

 

[Joan]

He could be a Ted Bundy for all I know, he was charismatic and good looking apparently? The mods of HairLossTalk.com will be powerless if ID has such plans for Joan. I will ban him though for what it's worth

Not a serial killer. I just met up w/the guy for coffee and I'm still alive! (He's got NOTHING on I.D for sure.)

 

[Wolf Pack]

Nice, tell me on PM if you want It's good to have friendly interactions even when in a relationship.

 

[swingline747]

Not a serial killer. I just met up w/the guy for coffee and I'm still alive! (He's got NOTHING on I.D for sure.)

hey arent you married lady??????

 

[Joan]

hey arent you married lady??????

Can't men and women just be friends?

 

[hellouser]

Can't men and women just be friends?

I'm not familiar with the term 'friends'... can you explain please? Thanks.

 

[Joan]

I think that's science-fiction.

I think a woman can be friends with a man who is not her type.

But a man can never be friends with a woman he finds... passable.

So if the girl is very ugly and isn't attracted to guy at all, it may be possible.

But then again, the guy could get drunk and his friend would not seem so ugly anymore.

And we're back to science-fiction.

The male friends I had when I was young and single were not my type. You are right about that. I was involved with a guy for a couple of years and developed feelings for him, and we did remain friends for many years after I met my first and current husbands. I do think it wouldn't be possible to remain friends if one person continues to have feelings for the other after a breakup.

Regarding a man never being friends with a woman he finds passable, you sound like my husband, and he was only right about that once (I still do keep in contact with this guy, persistent as he is). These guys stick around even though I'm married because I am genuine and a good listener. They approached me in the first place because I'm not an uppity-looking snob, like a lot of women are. I have a smile for everyone with whom I make eye contact, male and the few females who don't look like they're better than everyone else. They are comfortable with me right away and talk to me about anything and everything. I keep telling my husband this is why they want to get coffee with me, and he laughs and says I'm naive. I've always preferred being around men because there's no drama with them. Women I've known suddenly act like they don't know you out of the blue and ignore you. Men never ignore you, and they're easier to talk to. That's been my experience.

You know what friendship is, Hellouser--caring about someone, checking in with each other, helping each other out, listening to each other and knowing that person, whether you talk once a day, week, month--whatever--will be there for you in a heartbeat if you ever need anything. One of my BFFs is a guy who used to be my neighbor. We hit it off right away, and when I think of someone I'd lean on if I ever needed anything, he's the first person who comes to mind.

 

[hellouser]

You know what friendship is, Hellouser--caring about someone, checking in with each other, helping each other out, listening to each other and knowing that person, whether you talk once a day, week, month--whatever--will be there for you in a heartbeat if you ever need anything. One of my BFFs is a guy who used to be my neighbor. We hit it off right away, and when I think of someone I'd lean on if I ever needed anything, he's the first person who comes to mind.

I was being facetious

 

[Joan]

I was being facetious

Oh! :doh:

 

[Exodus2011]

Am i the only one who doesnt care for friends much now that im bald?

Idc to be chilling with a crowd knowing im on the bottom of the social ladder there

 

[swingline747]

I think that's science-fiction.

I think a woman can be friends with a man who is not her type.

But a man can never be friends with a woman he finds... passable.

So if the girl is very ugly and isn't attracted to guy at all, it may be possible.

But then again, the guy could get drunk and his friend would not seem so ugly anymore.

And we're back to science-fiction.

Is fully possible

I used to have many female friends who were gorgeous and I never tried anything with them.

A few did end up not talking to me in the end since it never went further but most opposite sex friends do fizzle when one meets a new mate just because of the new mates jealousy.

I loved having hot female friends because it used to get me more action when we were out together, girls are so predictably jealous to even ones they don't know!

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Regarding a man never being friends with a woman he finds passable, you sound like my husband, and he was only right about that once (I still do keep in contact with this guy, persistent as he is). These guys stick around even though I'm married because I am genuine and a good listener. They approached me in the first place because I'm not an uppity-looking snob, like a lot of women are. I have a smile for everyone with whom I make eye contact, male and the few females who don't look like they're better than everyone else. They are comfortable with me right away and talk to me about anything and everything. I keep telling my husband this is why they want to get coffee with me, and he laughs and says I'm naive. I've always preferred being around men because there's no drama with them. Women I've known suddenly act like they don't know you out of the blue and ignore you. Men never ignore you, and they're easier to talk to. That's been my experience.

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I always found having female friends in the same light. I miss having them more than anything. Easier for me to talk with and I actually like some things like going out to eat and shopping doing with my guy friends is not the same.
Just so you know tho your husband is right and most guys you sit and have coffee with probably think you are secretly looking to cheat on your husband. I think you secretly know it and just like the attention and confidence boost
As Chris Rock would say they want to be that dick behind the glass!

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