I signed up just to post this message: You look good with a shaved dome, man.
I think getting to the stage where you can take a risk and shave it is what it's all about. Most guys fear the baldness without ever giving the shaved look a chance. But if you're like me, you're not passive, so you at least want to know you 'fought it.' So that's what I suggest. Try Nizoral, finasteride, and minoxidil all at once and be consistent. You'll notice some hair loss from thinning spots, but if you're going to fight it, take this as a sign at the drug is doing its thing.
Realize that the prescriptions are costly. And there are no guarantees. But fighting it gives peace of mind. In the end, mates talk trash about the things they're scared of. You showed that you had some major juevos when you went for the shaven dome. The ladies complimented me when I shaved my head as well. I'm using all three and I have seen some regrowth, but I still keep my head shaved. If I don't see improvement in the next year, I'll discontinue and have lost nothing.
I care more about what the ladies think than my guy friends, even though I listen to both.And I don't listen to all this 'research' funded by pharmaceutical companies and glamour mags that says "bald men are more likely to make less money, be less happy, blah blah blah."
What I DO listen to are female friends that break up with guys that constantly whine about themselves and their thinning hair, imperfect physique, etc. As one told me "If he isn't comfortable with himself, how can I expect him to be happy with me?"
In the end, like I said, fight it if you gotta, but if fighting it doesn't have the outcome you want, then look at the things you CAN change and change THOSE. We of the western world have an interesting preoccupation with dwelling on things we presumably CAN'T change when the things having the most impact on our lives are reversible and often unaddressed.
Just my thoughts. Best to you all
J