Girlfriend thinks I get a bad haircut

[Isaac Newton]

Are you at least on finasteride to maintain your hair transplant?

if you have reached your final pattern you dont need finasteride

 

[Isaac Newton]

Telling every awkward thing that ever happened to you that could be a turn off for no reason is pretty dumb imo. Doesn't necessarily make the relationship better or something

Honesty and vulnerability are important, just gotta be smart about it and do it step by step

a transplant isn't just an inconsequential awkward thing though

 

[Feelsbadman]

I'd be scared to go bald whilst having a gf
but then again if she leaves it shows she was just a superficial basic b**ch

 

[justinbieberscombover]

a transplant isn't just an inconsequential awkward thing though

Yeah I said that in general

Bro I already told her I take antidepressants, I need to chill with the secrets for a good while now, we are only 3 months into the relationship lol

 

[justinbieberscombover]

I'd be scared to go bald whilst having a gf
but then again if she leaves it shows she was just a superficial basic b**ch

The world is superficial and basic

When you go bald super young like me and @Isaac Newton it puts things into perspective

Without the transplant I wouldn't be with my gf to begin with

 

[goku_black]

Yeah I said that in general

Bro I already told her I take antidepressants, I need to chill with the secrets for a good while now, we are only 3 months into the relationship lol

And you have normal sex drive and erections?

 

[Feelsbadman]

The world is superficial and basic

When you go bald super young like me and @Isaac Newton it puts things into perspective

Without the transplant I wouldn't be with my gf to begin with

but based on that logic ur gf would leave u if u lost ur hair right now?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

And you have normal sex drive and erections?

Nah my sex drive is fucked, that's why I'm quitting antidepressants for good now, been tapering off them for a while, need to give my body time to recover

I can get an erection but it takes time for me to warm up and even then it's not the same, my dick isn't as sensitive as it used to be, and I don't get an orgasm as easily

Tried v**** and it did help with getting a stronger erection faster, lasts longer, but makes it nearly impossible to c*m and makes your dick even less sensitive

Hopefully it all goes back to normal once I'm completely off antidepressants for a couple weeks

but based on that logic ur gf would leave u if u lost ur hair right now?

I don't know for certain but I think she wouldn't because she already loves me

She would probably get used to it

She told me she likes my eyes and smile, she would probably cope by focusing on them lol

 

[goku_black]

Nah my sex drive is fucked, that's why I'm quitting antidepressants for good now, been tapering off them for a while, need to give my body time to recover

I can get an erection but it takes time for me to warm up and even then it's not the same, my dick isn't as sensitive as it used to be, and I don't get an orgasm as easily

Tried v**** and it did help with getting a stronger erection faster, lasts longer, but makes it nearly impossible to c*m and makes your dick even less sensitive


I don't know for certain but I think she wouldn't because she already loves me

She would probably get used to it

She told me she likes my eyes and smile, she would probably cope by focusing on them lol

Try korean ginseng and ashwaganda. Studies say they increase testastorone. I try them too. Meanhile 2 days taking them felt no difference but lets wait and see. f*****g psychiatric meds are the worst

 

[Pacho]

I have a couple thin spots on my head, my gf finally noticed (or built the courage to ask) after ages and asked me if it's the barber. She still said no you don't need a new barber he's good he gives you a really nice haircut, just tell him to go easy on those spots next time.

If she brings it up again I'll just say I need vitamins, B12 or something

thin spots at midscalp or crown righ? why dont you style your hair like this

problem solved

 

[justinbieberscombover]

thin spots at midscalp or crown righ? why dont you style your hair like this


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problem solved

It's at the crown

My hair isn't long enough for this style, honestly I never even tried to grow it that long or style it this way

Do you think I should go for it?

 

[Norwoody]

Go for it

 

[Pacho]

It's at the crown

My hair isn't long enough for this style, honestly I never even tried to grow it that long or style it this way

Do you think I should go for it?

yes!

It's at the crown

My hair isn't long enough for this style, honestly I never even tried to grow it that long or style it this way

Do you think I should go for it?

i think its the logical approach to your problem

 

[Wolf Pack]

I have a couple thin spots on my head, my gf finally noticed (or built the courage to ask) after ages and asked me if it's the barber. She still said no you don't need a new barber he's good he gives you a really nice haircut, just tell him to go easy on those spots next time.

If she brings it up again I'll just say I need vitamins, B12 or something

You know I agree with you about the courage thing, I feel she already had an idea before that you had hair loss, based on older pictures and also living with you but wants to talk about it slowly, she may have picked up you're sensitive about it which is no bad thing overall. When you're coming from a NW6, there is a lot of illusion which will unfold when you're in close company with someone 24/7 who is watching you in a gf kind of way. It's just the way it goes even when someone has had a solid result like yourself, the fact you maintain an illusion a lot is a success itself considering the starting point, even those with ultra thick donor the result can still sometimes still look a little "off" compared to normal hair. Since she loves you (from what you say), there is no way she will dump you over hair once she's invested in you. I know you don't want to tell her yet but telling her eventually your story might free you from this burden, there is no shame, you will be able to joke and have serious discussions about it, however you wish like how you told work colleagues! I know it's a hard step but hopefully you'll get there with her one day. As an example, my girl is literally watching me type saying get off and do something useful this afternoon in our time off lol.

Also agree on growing it long, shave those sides like always, grow the sh*t out of the top and slick it back with that killer hairline. Barbers can really f*** up hair for us balding folks.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

You know I agree with you about the courage thing, I feel she already had an idea before that you had hair loss, based on older pictures and also living with you but wants to talk about it slowly, she may have picked up you're sensitive about it which is no bad thing overall. When you're coming from a NW6, there is a lot of illusion which will unfold when you're in close company with someone 24/7 who is watching you in a gf kind of way. It's just the way it goes even when someone has had a solid result like yourself, the fact you maintain an illusion a lot is a success itself considering the starting point, even those with ultra thick donor the result can still sometimes still look a little "off" compared to normal hair. Since she loves you (from what you say), there is no way she will dump you over hair once she's invested in you. I know you don't want to tell her yet but telling her eventually your story might free you from this burden, there is no shame, you will be able to joke and have serious discussions about it, however you wish like how you told work colleagues! I know it's a hard step but hopefully you'll get there with her one day. As an example, my girl is literally watching me type saying get off and do something useful this afternoon in our time off lol.

Also agree on growing it long, shave those sides like always, grow the sh*t out of the top and slick it back with that killer hairline. Barbers can really f*** up hair for us balding folks.

Yeah you're right bro, she has seen older pictures and asked me questions about it every now and then, so she clearly already has an idea. Knowing her she probably thinks it's sweet that I take care of my appearance like that to the point where I had a hair transplant to look/feel at my best.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Yeah you're right bro, she has seen older pictures and asked me questions about it every now and then, so she clearly already has an idea. Knowing her she probably thinks it's sweet that I take care of my appearance like that to the point where I had a hair transplant to look/feel at my best.

You can see many of the other socially adjusted guys on youtube or on other forums (free of incel **** or finasteride is poison crap) and they often share their story and how their gf was a big part of it and loving their restoration. Yeah it's important to be realistic about what transplants are, especially in advanced cases, but one thing is certain a girl definitely likes a guy who takes care of himself and is admired by other women as it makes her feel like it's a "power couple" rather than a guy that she settled with. You're doing well and once you open up about all this (at the right time and you know best) it may improve things for you even more mentally. The only negative too balding hard so young is it can have an impact on a girl thinking about kids so you're right to be cautious in the early stages but once she loves you, nothing matters really.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

I've already reached my final pattern a while ago

It's not like an NW3-4 transplant while I'm still massively shedding

My balding has ended a couple years ago lol

It never ends until you hit Norwood 6 or 7.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Never

Honestly you'll have to tell her eventually.

But don't be shocked if she leaves you after telling. Women hate baldness because it is a genetic condition. She will want to avoid passing these genes on to her kids.

 

[goku_black]

Honestly you'll have to tell her eventually.

But don't be shocked if she leaves you after telling. Women hate baldness because it is a genetic condition. She will want to avoid passing these genes on to her kids.

i dont think this true judging by the amount of baldies who i saw married. and i dont mean old guys i mean around 30. woman dont care about thier son genes. all they care about in man are looks and money. if the bald guy is financially stable any woman will marry him.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Honestly you'll have to tell her eventually.

But don't be shocked if she leaves you after telling. Women hate baldness because it is a genetic condition. She will want to avoid passing these genes on to her kids.

She won't leave me lol