You are so wrong in so many ways that I do not even know which post to quote or where to start @brahmabull117
here you go
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I have a great smile very similar to Mario Lopez but I obviously look much more masculine. Yes I make about 180K a year in a cheap area (I would say comparable to 400K a year if you live in NYC or London or California, my quality of life is just unbelievable). I go to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/vacations 8+ times a year/etc...
and no I don't get any dating attention from any women anywhere near my league. All the ladies who make it obvious they like me are 10 levels below my league
Take my advice man, try online dating and just make an attempt. Just a few pics like that one with your sister and a selfie and you'll do fine. Most I'm friends with and myself consistently pull attractive women and you're well above our average, especially considering your career. Ask your own friends, they'll tell you the same that you're overestimating how good looking you need to be to get 7-8/10 women.
You have self-esteem issues on your looks, but truthfully you'd have no issues with finding women of ANY league interested in you if you made the attempt.
Also I have the feeling that whenever a girl compliments or flirts with you you immediately are turned off and find them unattractive, even if they are a 7-8 in reality. I used to have the same issue.
i hate to say it but in my area you would be too masculine. girls here seem to like the pretty boy look, the jpop look etc.
Ok I picked this one...
Dude... On a forum of lunatics, you are one of the most delusional people I have seen. You are an ok looking dude but come on...? There are no women that are 10 levels below your league...
This is probably the case:
More than likely you are actually quite insecure but you manage to package that with 'checklist-thinking' about your rather shallow achievements in order to feel better about yourself. You are the typical guy that brags to a girl about all the things you have achieved (probably lie about half of it) and most intelligent (even the not so intelligent ones) see right through this pathetic approval-seeking behavior.
Nothing makes pussies dry up faster than approval seeking behavior and bragging is the most pathetic version of it because besides being pathetic it is also not authentic. That makes it even worse than 'honest weakness' because at least it is congruent with how you actually feel.
IF you talk to a woman within your league (pretty much half of the women out there) you will more than likely talk like you do in this thread and she will walk away from you and go for the guy that does not take himself that serious.
You know that song 'girls just wanna have fun'?
Girls (that are actually worth dating) do not give a sh*t about your achievements, they just want a man that knows how to make them feel good.
Probably because you sound and act like a douchebag
honestly man I never ever get any dates so it's not like I have opportunities and then screw it up by acting like an idiot
My basic problem is I just don't get any opportunities with anybody decent looking. I'm actually very very confident in my abilities on dates - I know how to make people feel comfortable around me. People who get to know me for any extended period of time all say I'm a great person.
Half the women out there are in my league? Are you drunk? most women nowadays are fat and look disgusting.
honestly man I never ever get any dates so it's not like I have opportunities and then screw it up by acting like an idiot
My basic problem is I just don't get any opportunities with anybody decent looking. I'm actually very very confident in my abilities on dates - I know how to make people feel comfortable around me. People who get to know me for any extended period of time all say I'm a great person.
I don't have self esteem issues on my looks. I'm pretty well aware that I'm a decent looking dude
Women on dating sites want somebody like Nick Bateman or Chris hemsworth,
a regular say top 10 or top 20 percentile man like myself
so she's looking for top 0.001 percentile man
God even when you talk about other people you have to put in there how much they like you. Dude, you definitely show some signs of narcissism.
Well, I do not know where you live but pretty much everywhere I have been over the world, half of the women are in your league.
my point was that I'm very good on dates, I just don't ever get any
I've been out on a date with maybe 14 women in my lifetime and 12 of the 14 wanted to date me long term but none of them were anywhere near dating material. They were all way too old, fat, had kids or not cute at all in the face
I need to move wherever the hell you are man. Maybe 1 in 10 women here are cute/in great shape/dress nice/take great care of themselves
I suppose I'm okay with an average female in that sense but your idea of average seems to be South Beach or Hollywood
I need to move wherever the hell you are man.
Oh why am IM not surprisedd you take Hollywood as an example...
the only place I've really ever been where the average female on the street clearly put in a ton of effort into looking decent and was in nice shape is Miami South Beach. I've never been to Hollywood but I imagine Hollywood is the same
the average female nowadays looks like garbage. Honestly, I think most people are more lazy than ugly. I was approached by a group of 3 disgusting black chicks last night and I would have totally dated the light skinned one if she wasn't fat.
Western Europe.
Well you are probably not going to give 2 shits about my advice but if you want to be in a good romantic relationship you might need to lower your standards a bit, be less superficial and tame down on the ego.
Good luck.
Oh really, we had not noticed yet. Thanks for finally clarifying that you find yourself a decent looking dude.
No they don't. Are you aware that maybe not everyone is so superficial as you? Even if you would be, let's say an 8, you still would scare women away with this attitude.
LOL
No she is not. Let me tell you something about attractive women. The main reason why the most gorgeous women are a lot of the times single is not because there is no one good enough for her, it is because almost every guy puts them on a pedestal. Women want a guy that makes them laugh, that is natural and relaxed with them.
Women hate rejection. They must have thought they had a chance with you otherwise they would not have walked up to you. What does that tell your attractiveness...