had a weird baldness nightmare last night

[I.D WALKER]

Bravo! That's more like the sort of response I'ld expect from you.

 

[blackg]

Hi guys, this is EvilLocks writing from my old account. I wasn't going to post here really, but I changed my mind because there are a few things I want to say (I don't care if this account is banned also). First of all, I have no idea why I was banned. The ban says I'm banned because of "Too many personal attacks through insecurity, lack of sensitivity to male hair loss sufferers. The moderators says they have recieved several complaints about me during the last few months, but won't say who made the complaints, although I have a strong suspicion who might be involved. All I can say is I'm totally surprised at this, because I do not know what I've said that is so wrong (I have asked a moderator about this and he won't tell me why). But I can see that I'm not wanted here (by some at least), so this might be my last post ever. I do not want to stay where I'm not welcome. However, I would like to know what I did wrong so if the people who reported me could speak up and say what I did wrong, that would be great. It's been nice having this place to vent for sure, and I think I'll miss it. Maybe I'll come back, I don't know. But right now the right thing to do feels like leaving this forum for good. Anyway have a nice day guys, and I hope this message won't be removed (but I understand if it will). Thanks.

You didn't deserve to be banned. That sadviagra guy did, before you.
And I can't recall you saying anything too offensive from your other posts.
Anyway, I will miss ya.

 

[Roberto_72]

You didn't deserve to be banned. That sadviagra guy did, before you.
And I can't recall you saying anything too offensive from your other posts.
Anyway, I will miss ya.

In another post where an admin wrote I asked him if they cared to explain. I think this is just sad.

 

[CaptainForehead]

The moderators says they have recieved several complaints about me during the last few months, but won't say who made the complaints, although I have a strong suspicion who might be involved. All I can say is I'm totally surprised at this, because I do not know what I've said that is so wrong (I have asked a moderator about this and he won't tell me why). But I can see that I'm not wanted here (by some at least), so this might be my last post ever. I do not want to stay where I'm not welcome. However, I would like to know what I did wrong so if the people who reported me could speak up and say what I did wrong, that would be great. It's been nice having this place to vent for sure, and I think I'll miss it. Maybe I'll come back, I don't know. But right now the right thing to do feels like leaving this forum for good.

I didn't report you this year, I may have reported your personal attacks last year during your unstable period, I cannot recall.
Anyhow, I do not support the ban, and do not wish you gone.

In any case, best wishes for all your endeavors.

 

[Wolf Pack]

It's a temporary ban for one month. I may reduce it a little.

 

[CaptainForehead]

It's a temporary ban for one month. I may reduce it a little.

That makes more sense. A Permaban is a super-heavy punishment.

And EvilLocks -- time away from this forum might do you good. It's a dark place here, you should enjoy life (I know, I know, you have troubles, but you also have other "assets"; so use those). Enjoy spring.

 

[Roberto_72]

That makes more sense. A Permaban is a super-heavy punishment.

And EvilLocks -- time away from this forum might do you good. It's a dark place here, you should enjoy life (I know, I know, you have troubles, but you also have other "assets"; so use those). Enjoy spring.

Ah ah good advice!

 

[parisienne]

This doesn't sit well with me. Granted as equals I passionately respect your choice, however in this situation I'ld be a liar were I to proclaim such a choice like this is warranted. Because I believe even in microcosmic space(s) that self imposed social restraints in the name of Peace-Keeper can actually lead to more systemic trauma to the corporal body (as a whole). Therefore I pause to share the position that of a person who reacts through concessionary methods and inevitably as well as invariably sacrifices their personal liberties; contrary attitudes, values or otherwise to appease the overbearing majority. We must do what feels right for us while also understanding that we will be judged fairly and unfairly regardless of how we behave. At times it helps to remind our fellow sufferers, that HairLossTalk.com is a hair loss SUPPORT forum and not a hair club for men.

Ever since Joan's and Evil's debut here at HairLossTalk.com, I knew intuitively how well both members' invigorating interactivity withn our community, by token of their thoughtful and intelligent contributions, would positively impact us and enrich the dynamics here on many levels. I quietly prognosticated that their favorability rate would soon soar and I am pleased that it did and proud of HairLossTalk.com for accepting them so warmly.
So Parisienne, I believe it is fair to proclaim that the general consensus here at HairLossTalk.com also holds you in this light. Keep shining it.

Thank you very much, I.D.
I think that while EL, Joan and I share with you guys the traumatic path of hair loss, the consequences are not one hundred percent the same. I'm glad to participate and I'm doing my best to spend a day in the other poster's shoes, even though most are not fitting, but I understand that a girl's reaction can sometimes be unwelcomed.

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Yeah, I agree with ID. The opinions of the girls are valued.

And thanks to you too, blackg. I like how you do not judge on the past

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EvilLocks : I'm gonna repeat what I already told you by PM : When you can, please.come.back !

 

[CaptainForehead]

parisienne, can you remove that image from your sig? As well as the giant font line? Your sig is way too intrusive.

 

[parisienne]

parisienne, can you remove that image from your sig? As well as the giant font line? Your sig is way too intrusive.

okay no prob

 

[CaptainForehead]

Merci!

 

[PappinAce]

Very true. The sweet relief of sleep, nightmare or not, is far better than the actual reality. Balding is like living a nightmare 24/7.

Yeah, I just keep waiting to open my eyes and wake up in a cold sweat, realizing the last five years were just a horrible nightmare <.< **** this life!

 

[Rudiger]

I think the females input and presence in this forum is important for a few different reasons.

Firstly it reminds us that there are a variety of different people and different stories in front of us when we post something, when posting in a forum it can be easy to picture everyone as being able to relate exactly to what you're going through, maybe a lot of people are similar to you, but it's important to remember this isn't always the case. It keeps us on our toes when posting to remember that not everyone reading our posts will relate directly to what we're saying, so when making a point it is good for everyone if we try to be inclusive as possible. There tends to be a lot of self-centred people on here which is understandable when balding, so when we have females, who's situation couldn't be further from our own, yet within the same umbrella, it's a good marker for everything in between, every individual that may be reading, and how we can all work to relate to each other in some form.

Secondly and just as importantly, from what I've read the content of the posters we're talking about here is always worth reading, reading things from another perspective or regardless of the perspective just their general thoughts, and I value them as much as any good poster on here really.