Has Anyone Considered Quitting Dating?

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You guys are less picky than I am. I don't think I can ever go for a women less than 6 or 7. Unfortunately, with such a high percentage of overweight people in the US, you are left with few choices. Still, I will rather use my hand than sleep with a women I am not attracted to.

Same here. Not to sound shallow, but I have to be physically attracted. When I was younger, I would f*** anything with a pulse. But now, even as a single man who still likes to go out and have a bit of fun, I just can't bring myself to go after a woman that isn't doing it for me looks wise.

As a younger man, the last call at a bar, would be the"take what you can drag home with you while super pissed drunk" time. Now, if I go out and have a few too many, and I get the "offer" by some girl that's not all that great looking at the end of the night, and I'm blindingly drunk, I'll most likely pass.

I don't date. And it's not because I wouldn't have a chance. I'm actually an alright looking guy. I actually like being single. I like my space and alone time.
I would do pretty damn good on the online dating/tinder thing, but to me it's kinda weird.
Never tried it. It seems to me, that for most people, it's an ego thing.

I'm the kinda guy who want's to meet someone by bumping into them at a grocery store. Or
a chance encounter while walking down the street.(no hooker)
It's kind of old fashion sounding and doesn't happen that much in this day and age of the internet, which by the way is making us as people, very f*****g lazy when it comes to actually doing things and getting off your ***.
But hey, thats just me.
 

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Why did you feel that way?

I was not really interested in her to begin with, but I knew she was into me and I had a mild interest in possibly sleeping with her, so I was like, well, whatever I don't have anything else going on, why not?

As soon as she got in the car though I guess I realized I was not that attracted to her and even the idea of just trying to hook up was not that appealing. Plus she's one of the trainers at the gym I go to most of the time, she seems like a fairly nice person, and all of these things combined just made the idea of hitting and quitting not appealing to me. Fortunately I found an excuse to speed the date along and I was up front with her when I dropped her off that I would not be pursuing anything further

This whole incident aside, as far as anything long term goes, it makes no sense for me to get involved with anyone when I'm getting a hair transplant in a month...imagine dropping that bombshell on someone you only just got involved with, lol
 

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I was not really interested in her to begin with, but I knew she was into me and I had a mild interest in possibly sleeping with her, so I was like, well, whatever I don't have anything else going on, why not?

As soon as she got in the car though I guess I realized I was not that attracted to her and even the idea of just trying to hook up was not that appealing. Plus she's one of the trainers at the gym I go to most of the time, she seems like a fairly nice person, and all of these things combined just made the idea of hitting and quitting not appealing to me. Fortunately I found an excuse to speed the date along and I was up front with her when I dropped her off that I would not be pursuing anything further

This whole incident aside, as far as anything long term goes, it makes no sense for me to get involved with anyone when I'm getting a hair transplant in a month...imagine dropping that bombshell on someone you only just got involved with, lol

I think you made the right call by not leading her on.
 

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I don't think I was ever into dating in the modern sense of the word. I never used those stupid apps or anything. I just met girls out there in the real world: at school, work, while out buying groceries, concerts, festivals, etc.

Years ago, when I didn't give a f*** about my appearance, it was just a flat out "no" when I'd ask a girl out.

I made a huge effort to improve my appearance, be more outgoing etc. and it paid off socially and especially with women - I could now land girls that I always wished I could get with.

Then, hairloss became noticeable back in the summer. A lot of temple loss making my head look too-narrow and the noticeable "V" shape to the hairline.

Even though it does appear to be getting better with the treatments and I hope to get a transplant in the near future, it's been devastating for me. I feel that I put in all this effort and then only got a couple years benefit from it before genetics started shitting on me. If you're someone who has always been ugly and got with no one or other ugly people, losing your hair still sucks, but I definitely don't think it's as bad if you were an average or above-average looking person who was satisfied with the sexual/romantic partners you could get and then being faced with the reality that you are developing this feature that will instantly write you off in the books of a majority of women; especially at a young age.

I don't think about dating or women right now. Right now, I'm focused on trying to feel like my old self again and improve other aspects of my life.
 

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Same here. Not to sound shallow, but I have to be physically attracted. When I was younger, I would f*** anything with a pulse. But now, even as a single man who still likes to go out and have a bit of fun, I just can't bring myself to go after a woman that isn't doing it for me looks wise.

As a younger man, the last call at a bar, would be the"take what you can drag home with you while super pissed drunk" time. Now, if I go out and have a few too many, and I get the "offer" by some girl that's not all that great looking at the end of the night, and I'm blindingly drunk, I'll most likely pass.

I don't date. And it's not because I wouldn't have a chance. I'm actually an alright looking guy. I actually like being single. I like my space and alone time.
I would do pretty damn good on the online dating/tinder thing, but to me it's kinda weird.
Never tried it. It seems to me, that for most people, it's an ego thing.

I'm the kinda guy who want's to meet someone by bumping into them at a grocery store. Or
a chance encounter while walking down the street.(no hooker)
It's kind of old fashion sounding and doesn't happen that much in this day and age of the internet, which by the way is making us as people, very f*****g lazy when it comes to actually doing things and getting off your ***.
But hey, thats just me.


I feel like I wrote this, because I feel strongly the same way.

It's definitely nice to have that reassurance that if you do feel like dating, it's not difficult to attract mates. But like yourself, I simply don't want to exert energy on boring prospects, and women that other wise don't do it for me. If the right one comes along, I will capitalize on the opportunity but as far as serial dating is concerned, I am not interested. I have done this many times, taking rampant months on meeting as much women as I can, and It has left me feeling empty, and more depressed if anything.


All though i demolish most my competition when I go to the bar/club. I tend to always get women come up to me, and start conversations out of no where. feelsgoodman
 

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I don't think I was ever into dating in the modern sense of the word. I never used those stupid apps or anything. I just met girls out there in the real world: at school, work, while out buying groceries, concerts, festivals, etc.

Years ago, when I didn't give a f*** about my appearance, it was just a flat out "no" when I'd ask a girl out.

I made a huge effort to improve my appearance, be more outgoing etc. and it paid off socially and especially with women - I could now land girls that I always wished I could get with.

Then, hairloss became noticeable back in the summer. A lot of temple loss making my head look too-narrow and the noticeable "V" shape to the hairline.

Even though it does appear to be getting better with the treatments and I hope to get a transplant in the near future, it's been devastating for me. I feel that I put in all this effort and then only got a couple years benefit from it before genetics started shitting on me. If you're someone who has always been ugly and got with no one or other ugly people, losing your hair still sucks, but I definitely don't think it's as bad if you were an average or above-average looking person who was satisfied with the sexual/romantic partners you could get and then being faced with the reality that you are developing this feature that will instantly write you off in the books of a majority of women; especially at a young age.

I don't think about dating or women right now. Right now, I'm focused on trying to feel like my old self again and improve other aspects of my life.



This 100%. I am mean there is no point investing time into someone else when you are not even comfortable with your own self. being on edge, having low self-esteem and anxiety is not a good cocktail for a healthy relationship, and attracting mates. it will leave you feeling jealous, worried and in despair. having felt this way before, and entering the dating scene at 50% potential, I can tell you first hand that it's better to focus on yourself before entering the scene again.

When you look good, you feel good,,,,




Luld at the flat out NO/friend zoned by every chick. Reached lvl 99- tier 10 cuck master status. I am sure that experience will come handy when you get older ;)
 

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When it comes down to it I'm a serious relationship kinda person, and until I find that I won't put out.

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I don't think I was ever into dating in the modern sense of the word. I never used those stupid apps or anything. I just met girls out there in the real world: at school, work, while out buying groceries, concerts, festivals, etc.

Years ago, when I didn't give a f*** about my appearance, it was just a flat out "no" when I'd ask a girl out.

I made a huge effort to improve my appearance, be more outgoing etc. and it paid off socially and especially with women - I could now land girls that I always wished I could get with.

Then, hairloss became noticeable back in the summer. A lot of temple loss making my head look too-narrow and the noticeable "V" shape to the hairline.

Even though it does appear to be getting better with the treatments and I hope to get a transplant in the near future, it's been devastating for me. I feel that I put in all this effort and then only got a couple years benefit from it before genetics started shitting on me. If you're someone who has always been ugly and got with no one or other ugly people, losing your hair still sucks, but I definitely don't think it's as bad if you were an average or above-average looking person who was satisfied with the sexual/romantic partners you could get and then being faced with the reality that you are developing this feature that will instantly write you off in the books of a majority of women; especially at a young age.

I don't think about dating or women right now. Right now, I'm focused on trying to feel like my old self again and improve other aspects of my life.

I think a lot of us feel like this last line both men and women.
 

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I've had my fair share of guys (not extreme). Not many one night stands though, typically it has been flings or boyfriends.

RESPECT! You are the female version of Fred. Honest, even if it might make you look bad.
 

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So basically this is another tellersquill-approved thread in which he says that life is hard because he screws too many girls and it's expensive also because he has an 8 inch penis and probably needs especially expensive condoms.

I think you mixed up this forum with match.com
 

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What's the difference between a fling and one night stand? Same sh*t.


Random encounter that become personal


Lul
 

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Not me anyway. I believe me, and most women, crave the emotional connection to their partner. But of course there are women who like sleeping around too. But from my experience and opinion, women want to be in love with their sex partner. And those women who do sleep around, often fall in love with one or several of their sex partners at a point in time, if we're talking a friends with benefits deal. I've experienced it, many of my friends have experienced it, they all say the same: They want an emotional connection. I can understand that this is different for guys though, but I believe I know what I'm talking about when it comes to women and sex.
It's so nice to actually hear about what, (let's say, most) women want...from an actual woman.

I roll my eyes and laugh everytime some dude gets on here and claims he knows what a woman wants/needs.

The slayers are actually the worst at this, I believe. Their opinions on females are so cliche and narrow.
 
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Women want a guy with a full head of hair, a six pack, and at least 8 inches(20.32cm)
 
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So basically this is another tellersquill-approved thread in which he says that life is hard because he screws too many girls and it's expensive also because he has an 8 inch penis and probably needs especially expensive condoms.

I think you mixed up this forum with match.com
Well its about trying to find some wisdom and trying to evolve as a man

Theres some great posters on this forum and I wanted to see if people have had the same problems and thoughts - and some people have :)

But I think maybe I should do what a few OP's suggest and only date people I really like and not just have sex for the sake of it.
 

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..went on a date a few weeks ago and immediately after she got in the car I was like "wtf am I doing. this is a mistake"
Why was it a mistake? Wouldn't your car start?
 
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What's the difference between a fling and one night stand? Same sh*t.


Random encounter that become personal


Lul
A fling is a lot better because you get to know them and get to sleep around for a month or.

A one night stand just doesn't feel very intimate to me.
 
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Women want a guy with a full head of hair, a six pack, and at least 8 inches(20.32cm)
Not true 8 inches hurts a lot of women and it can take them a while to adjust.

Sometimes it can make them bleed which makes me feel pretty guilty

7 inches is probably best.
 

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That's what I imagine the appeal of online dating to be for women that are too good looking to be online, they get treated by some fool who pays for their meals and drinks, makes them laugh, gives them some attention, she gets to mindfuck the guy with false hope then they repeat it with another guy.
 
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