Has Hairloss changed YOUR Personality?

[stampede]

lol u have become a twat pal, life sucks, i f****ing hate it, get me girl , ill marry herm sl*t, f*** off libertine u u ratlihertine dont f****ing judge me im nortehertn

Put the crack pipe down, dude :shakehead:

 

[feenix101]

Hairloss certainly has changed my personality. Before all this I was extremely outgoing, super happy, and energetic all the time, and just wanted to party hard and have a good time. Like most here, I became more spiteful and angry with life in general. I stopped going out, stopped dating, stopped networking with friends, and became withdrawn from my family. I went through that for 6monthes straight. I remembered when hairloss first affected me, I would try to avoid topics involving hair, or even comment on friends new hairstyles cause I felt uneasy about it, now I just bring it up without thinking about it. I stopped working out, I became very lazy, and started smoking, and drinking more. I don't know exactly what happened but I've gotten alot better lately about how I feel about myself in general, and having great friends were key to my mental well being. I got back into the gym and intensified my weighting training and started doing cardio, and play alot of squash with my friends and I've gotten more fit then Ive ever been before, and that has really boosted my confidence. Then girls started to approach me for the first time in awhile, and I started dating. I recently quit smoking cold turkey 14 days ago, and cut back my drinking alot to only one evening a week, and only wine. I think the best thing i've done was quit smoking cause I feel sooooo much better now, I have lost my anxiety, my stamina at the gym(and in bed lol) has improved ALOT, and can actually think happy thoughts
The most important thing I think is to keep busy, build-up our self-worth and confidence by trying new things, activities, new music, read different literature, and when I'm at home alone all sad and depressed, I would call up good friends and go out and have brunch or dinner or something just to avoid being alone. lol, i got so sad once, I started going to the symphony lately and it's become my new passion, and before I went I never listened to classical, just sort of jumped into it.
When I read stories here about how upset or depressed people are it's really discouraging to me so I just avoid coming on here all the time like I used to, but I like to come back time to time and see what's up and thats about it. Anyways, lol, thats how hairloss changed my personality in a nutshell! I wrote out a much longer message, but It's way too long and detailed! keep ur chin up, cause hairloss is definitely not the worst thing to happen to person!

 

[omgstfuty]

Yeah I hear that canada...

Im still a bit of a prick, however I refuse to let any body I mean anybody let me feel like crap.


Some times when Im running, I let go of all worries, and then I see a perfect norward 1 grinning.Now a few years ago I would have seen this as a bad thing.
However, I see this now as a monkey-man grinning at me, just nodding at me, and being apprectiative at me getting off my arse and doing it.
If not, f*** him in anyway, the majority of planet-of-thehair-lines look like special needs.
I give em time of the day with my smirk, I hope they feel happy with my running past there ugly arses.
Fact of the matter is, some one is feeding these dougnuts that women want men with great hair, so the moron boyfriends belive it,
Time for acting like a prick and shagging full norwards girlfirends.


Cos we f*****g can.

LOL

 

[drdennis]

Hairloss has changed me alot!!!! I pretty much use to be happy go-lucky and things just went my way until I hit my 30 years old!!!!! I was a good looking guy with a full head of hair and the ladies gave me alot of attention. When I started to loose my hair it was hard, because I lost my confidence!! I was not the man I use to be!!! Started wearing hats and making excuses. People treated me with less respect and this angered me . I thought to myself wow man truely looks at the outward appearence and this sucks!!!! I stayed in more and more as the hairloss progressed. I noticed that in my mind I was thinking negative all the time and was thinking negative about the people around me. Know that really sucks!!! To think in this way!!! I use to have good thoughts about people and was friendly and outgoing. Always made friends!!! Then my life was turned upside down with hairloss!!! Man I prayed to God on a daily basis and asked God help me!!! and asked again god help me!!! I cant live like this for the remainder of my life,please help me find a way!!! Here I was a 30 year old guy with no $$$$$$ and no credit and no help from anyone!!! I went to bosley about 4 years after my hairloss started and met with the consultant and boy was I unimpressed and thought these guys say Im to young and they need to see how my male pattern baldness turns more in the future and could not tell me that they could help me,but still offered to do a transplant witch was about $25,000 dollars!!!!! I walked out a little depressed since I did not have that type of money in the bank!!! So I said to myself I have to have a better plan and I will not waste what bosley said to me!!! And that was wait 5 more years for hair transplants to get better and save $$$$$$$. Well guys I saved the money and Im 39 years old but could not find a doctor that was going to meet my expectations. I am considered a norwood 3 with some thinning on my crown. Through my prayers I found Dr. Jeff Epstein and we have our 1st meeting in his New York office on Dec 5th and he has givin me a peace that this is the man God has sent into my life to give me back my life,but as a better man and humble all around. I am truely blessed to have lost my hair,because it made me self examine my self for the last 9 years when the hairloss began. Men hairloss is tough,but there is hope, so dont settle for less and save your $$$$$ and believe and lets help other men in this situation. I thank God and Jesus Christ for going through the trial ,but for also seeing me out of the trial. Pruning,plucking and God meant plucking my hair!!! I have even come to the place where I tell people that hairloss has bothered me and these are people with a full head of hair!!! When we are down we can humble ourselves and really begin to self examine and see who we really are deep inside. God bless all you men who have lost hair and are trying to get it back!!!!! Remember there is hope with a little persistance.

 

[RaginDemon]

Hairloss has changed me alot!!!! I pretty much use to be happy go-lucky and things just went my way until I hit my 30 years old!!!!! I was a good looking guy with a full head of hair and the ladies gave me alot of attention. When I started to loose my hair it was hard, because I lost my confidence!! I was not the man I use to be!!! Started wearing hats and making excuses. People treated me with less respect and this angered me . I thought to myself wow man truely looks at the outward appearence and this sucks!!!! I stayed in more and more as the hairloss progressed. I noticed that in my mind I was thinking negative all the time and was thinking negative about the people around me. Know that really sucks!!! To think in this way!!! I use to have good thoughts about people and was friendly and outgoing. Always made friends!!! Then my life was turned upside down with hairloss!!! Man I prayed to God on a daily basis and asked God help me!!! and asked again god help me!!! I cant live like this for the remainder of my life,please help me find a way!!! Here I was a 30 year old guy with no $$$$$$ and no credit and no help from anyone!!! I went to bosley about 4 years after my hairloss started and met with the consultant and boy was I unimpressed and thought these guys say Im to young and they need to see how my male pattern baldness turns more in the future and could not tell me that they could help me,but still offered to do a transplant witch was about $25,000 dollars!!!!! I walked out a little depressed since I did not have that type of money in the bank!!! So I said to myself I have to have a better plan and I will not waste what bosley said to me!!! And that was wait 5 more years for hair transplants to get better and save $$$$$$$. Well guys I saved the money and Im 39 years old but could not find a doctor that was going to meet my expectations. I am considered a norwood 3 with some thinning on my crown. Through my prayers I found Dr. Jeff Epstein and we have our 1st meeting in his New York office on Dec 5th and he has givin me a peace that this is the man God has sent into my life to give me back my life,but as a better man and humble all around. I am truely blessed to have lost my hair,because it made me self examine my self for the last 9 years when the hairloss began. Men hairloss is tough,but there is hope, so dont settle for less and save your $$$$$ and believe and lets help other men in this situation. I thank God and Jesus Christ for going through the trial ,but for also seeing me out of the trial. Pruning,plucking and God meant plucking my hair!!! I have even come to the place where I tell people that hairloss has bothered me and these are people with a full head of hair!!! When we are down we can humble ourselves and really begin to self examine and see who we really are deep inside. God bless all you men who have lost hair and are trying to get it back!!!!! Remember there is hope with a little persistance.

If you want the best, Armani is the man.

 

[IHateIt]

I have become more spiteful and hateful. I also watch other guys with great hair and feel jealous, like I wish I could have long hair, or grow it out and have a cool hairstyle that would contrast with my face.

It sucks man. I agree and sympathise with everyone who has posted on this thread.

I feel your pain. I think just like you. Everybody at my age have great metal long hair. And I have a grandfather hair. It sux and really changed how I act.

 

[drdennis]

Man I sympathize with you!!! I remember when I was 14 and I loved heavy metal and I had pretty long hair down to the back of my neck bone,but not long like some of the other guys who had it down to the middle of the back. Chasing girls and going to heavy metal shows!!!!! Those where the days!!! My friend have you ever thought of a hair transplant? Im am getting one very soon and I cant stop to tell that man it looks natural and blended in with your natural hair no one would ever ditect it!! Because if would be your real hair back in its place and with propecia started right away soon you can save all the hair that is on your head now!! I wish that technology with hair transplants was like this 10 years ago when I started to loose mine. You are in a great error with hair transplants and I have a great doctor who is one of the best in hair transplants in the world and I mean world not just the USA. His name is Dr. Jeffrey Epstein and his website is called foundhair.com Check him out Bro !!!! And he even did a hair transplant on a Little girl about the age range of 6 to 10, and on his site it will show the clip of her experience and this little girl was picked on at school all the time and this doctor did it for free because he is a man with compassion and its not always about the $$$$$$. Where do you live? Im from Boston Massachusetts. Talk to me Man and I will help you through this and both of us will have victory in our hair lives again. Brother lets get it back and cheer once again!!!! TTYL DENNIS

I have become more spiteful and hateful. I also watch other guys with great hair and feel jealous, like I wish I could have long hair, or grow it out and have a cool hairstyle that would contrast with my face.

It sucks man. I agree and sympathise with everyone who has posted on this thread.

I feel your pain. I think just like you. Everybody at my age have great metal long hair. And I have a grandfather hair. It sux and really changed how I act.

 

[cal]

Armani's one to be careful with.
He does great hair transplant work but he also gives criminally-decieving donor reserve estimates.

 

[hair_tomorrow]

Has Hairloss changed YOUR Personality?

Nahhh. there have been the occassional instances of being self-conscious about it - but I've managed to tough it out.

 

[RaginDemon]

Has Hairloss changed YOUR Personality?

Nahhh. there have been the occassional instances of being self-conscious about it - but I've managed to tough it out.

good for you.

 

[blueshard]

Hair loss has TAKEN my personality.

Hair loss feels like someone screaming "kill yourself!!" into my ear at all times of the day.

 

[hair_tomorrow]

Dude. It's only hair.

:dunno:

(Things could be a lot worse)

 

[IHateIt]

Dude. It's only hair.

:dunno:

(Things could be a lot worse)

No, it's not. It's the part I like the most in my body, my self-steem, my style, 95% of my beauty, the "wow! your hair is beatiful! I wish mine was like that!" girls used to say, it's a lot of things. Not only dead capilar cells. If you look at the material side of it, then you're right, it's only a crap hair. But if you look at the social side, it means a lot of things.
So, yes! It changed my personality. When I look at mirror I don't see myself. I see an ugly bald man that looks way older than me.

Current society says bald men are ugly. We can't blame women for thinking that way too.

 

[s.a.f]

Better get used to it bud. :whistle:

 

[hair_tomorrow]

How does that old saying go . . . ?

(paraphrasing)

"God grant me the serenity to change those things I can change,
not worry about the things I can't -
and the wisdom to know the difference."


Serenity NOWWWW!!!!

 

[ghg]

Dude. It's only hair.

:dunno:

(Things could be a lot worse)

No, it's not. It's the part I like the most in my body, my self-steem, my style, 95% of my beauty, the "wow! your hair is beatiful! I wish mine was like that!" girls used to say, it's a lot of things. Not only dead capilar cells. If you look at the material side of it, then you're right, it's only a crap hair. But if you look at the social side, it means a lot of things.
So, yes! It changed my personality. When I look at mirror I don't see myself. I see an ugly bald man that looks way older than me.

Current society says bald men are ugly. We can't blame women for thinking that way too.

What are you smoking? The bald look has never been more widely accepted as it is now. Hell, it can even be considered trendy, and it just became that way in the mid-to-late 90's. What's in YOUR head is a different thing, though.

 

[RaginDemon]

Dude. It's only hair.

:dunno:

(Things could be a lot worse)

No, it's not. It's the part I like the most in my body, my self-steem, my style, 95% of my beauty, the "wow! your hair is beatiful! I wish mine was like that!" girls used to say, it's a lot of things. Not only dead capilar cells. If you look at the material side of it, then you're right, it's only a crap hair. But if you look at the social side, it means a lot of things.
So, yes! It changed my personality. When I look at mirror I don't see myself. I see an ugly bald man that looks way older than me.

Current society says bald men are ugly. We can't blame women for thinking that way too.

What are you smoking? The bald look has never been more widely accepted as it is now. Hell, it can even be considered trendy, and it just became that way in the mid-to-late 90's. What's in YOUR head is a different thing, though.

I agree, so many guys shaved their heads just because they want to look cool...but then again you have to have the facial structure to back it up.

 

[slowburn]

I am a lot more of a curmudgeon than I was before I had noticeable hair loss. A little bit more recluse than the norm. Also having a hard time holding down a job. But there are other issues not just hair loss, more of a mixed bag of bullshit that rolls into one big fatty that tastes like sh*t.

 

[JayBear]

If i wasn't for all intents and purposes married, i imagine my hair loss would kill my confidence in trying to start a relationship. Thankfully my partner just seems to like me so i get confidence from that.

 

[RaginDemon]

If i wasn't for all intents and purposes married, i imagine my hair loss would kill my confidence in trying to start a relationship. Thankfully my partner just seems to like me so i get confidence from that.

:bravo: