shookwun
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Is 2 dates in 2 weeks meant to be special online? Also depends how hot.
Anyway I was just teasing on here when I said he won the argument. There's a common sarcastic view held on here that the one with the most hair wins, especially when he closes in with a bald jibe.
In reality, both online and real life are tools to date. Just one provides more of a rush and spontaneous than flicking your fingers and matching other girls who are looking for someone.
I've always enjoyed getting to know a girl in a club, it's all looks but most girls want the physical and mental stimulation = game too. It's all an experience for them, fun all round. I did it more when I was younger. A lot of hot girls are not even on Tinder, I was dating a 9 and none of her friends were on it. They were young too. They have no need to be on it. Same principle applies to a coffee shop or mall. Girls dig meeting handsome nice guys naturally as it's more romantic.
There are many relationships formed on Tinder though so it's all good. I prefer to date someone I know and since I'm outgoing and quite social, it's not a problem. I've had friends who couldn't pull for **** in real life or get much attention, yet going on dates regularly on Tinder. Nothing to do with being photogenic. Just Tinder is already set up to make people meet (obviously), girls more willing to have sex or settle down. I prefer to unearth jems in real life, tend to be better long term partners and prettier over online connoisseurs. This is the feedback I got from people using both Tinder and dating girls they know in their social circles.
Tinder plays a role though, to sleep with as many girls as possible looks max. But I don't really care about that anymore plus quality > quantity for me. When I was 18, I used to get 5-10 messages a day on early social apps, at that point it wasn't even officially for dating. Most those girls I would never date long term as I felt there was something missing in them. I know dating has come a long way since then but still online is a back up option. A lot of girls may be on Tinder but for many it's more as an extension of socialising and validation over dating, free dinner.
Just to add if I met a girl online through an unrelated forum, or facebook friends of friends, I view that differently. When it's like "match making" on Tinder just sounds a little like left overs.
I am the same way. I am all about the rush, and spontaneous build up. best of all, I am actually learning how to develop my social skills.
Tinder left me insecure, because truth be told It never taught me how to meet women. It's all set up and done, and there is no room for failure outside of having shitty photos. I pulled quite a few chicks online, but like aformentioned it never game me the that natural rush of pulling a women the following night. What ended up happening is that I new how to meet women online, but lacked the ability to overcome my actuall fears - approaching women in person. WHERE IT MATTERS MOST
Ever since I started learning game, and getting into self-development I have completely changed my mind set, and it has made me a better person in the process. I am becoming confident in my own abilities, which is what I want. The ability to be free, and talk to women without hesitation.
it takes years of positive progress to over come years of insecurity.
2 dates lol
A date, number yada yada yada doesn't mean anything to me, until i am sticking my dick in her pussy. it's the only validation that matters. Rest is mental masterbation.