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you think that is my problem?
How Do I Calm Down Need Legit Advice
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DoctorHouse
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That's because they don't know how to find you. You have to put yourself out there so they can find you. I used to be you many decades ago. However, it was acne that plagued me because I was obvlious to Norwood spotting and my hair was nothing special even at your age. Now I wish I was you and could have my twenties back and know what I know now. I could have been a slayer too. I don't know what you look like but I would gladly trade places with you any day. Zircon has given you the best advice possible. I am your future self telling you if you don't put yourself out there, you will be stuck inside your head( and the basement) for the rest of your life.
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yes it is, you seem like a normal to above average looking guy but want to bang prime girls out of your league with little to no effort. I bet i wouldn't get tinder matches that pleased me as well but that doesn't mean i don't get pretty girls at all. It takes effort and a social life to accomplish what you are craving for.
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I dont get tinder matches at all not even whales what are you talking about. CopeForLife did an experiment with my pic in russia and I got 0 matches
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Dude if your personality in real life mimics your personality here , I think you'd have a hard time attracting male friends never mind girls.
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Forget f*****g online dating and go out into the real world, that's what I'm saying
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how many people have done that here. Answer NONE
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Me lol
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I got more action in the real world then online dating. When I was your age and younger, online dating was not an option. If you put yourself out there, you have less competition in whatever setting you pick. Hang out at some coffee shops. Or even video stores and hopefully a few female gamers will come in. Forget going to bars if that makes you uneasy. Go to church even if you are not religious. Go to meet up events that seem interesting. Make a friend with someone who was like you and now is a success. Stop hiding behind a computer because its not true interaction. I was most successful when I put myself out there. I did online dating for years and had no success.
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In the mid 00's there was this book called The Game that encouraged us to become Pick Up Artists. For about a year, when I was a 19 year old virgin, I would hit the streets approaching women and trying to get their numbers. We did this all over, in shopping centres, cafes, and bars. It was a bit tragic but this was before online dating was a big thing so we kind of had to do it or we'd stay virgins.
I must have approached over a 1000 women over that year and I only slept with 4!
Anyway, what I'm saying is that despite this method of meeting in real life being non time effective, it does show that if you play the numbers game and are determined you will get a woman.
I imagine if I did this cold approach method these days then I would do a lot better.
(note: not advocating pua's - it was just a stage I went through out of desperation).
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It's basically being in the right place at the right time. If you put yourself in a basement all the time, you lessen your chances of "chance".
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Life has always been a struggle in one way or another. Can't imagine there would be a time in history with you not being miserable. Accept it or stay posting the same posts in 10 years time
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Incorrect. Most of the women I've dated on from tinder have been decent and have also paid their own way. I think I often pay for 60% of things, but its near enough equal.
With messaging its the other way round. They text me all the time and get pissy with me because I don't text much.
We certainly don't have to move mountains - even fred of the other guys getting laid will say the same thing.
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We're just not on the same league then
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That's the dirty little secret dude, women don't actually want free sh*t. They don't want to be worshipped.
I got out a lot, some guys think staring at a woman for a solid hour isn't creepy. Others think cheesy pick ups work. They don't. They just end up buying her drinks all night like a man-servant. It's hilarious. And of course they go home empty handed.
The guy that doesn't do any of that sh*t is the guy that wins. He's the guy that's just out having fun meeting people. Like you should be doing.
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Like I said, sort the unibrow out, style your hair, look more cheerful in your pictures and you will get matches.
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