How do you deal with the anger and frustration?

[Isaac Newton]

Guys I didn't spend one second thinking about hair during my high school years. I don't know anybody that did. There's school going on and social ladders and friends and fun going on

Answer our questions. Are you really saying people who balded later have it just as bad as early balders? And obviously yes we didnt think about hair because we had hair

 

[Isaac Newton]

HERE is my argument, by an older age like 26 you've already built this image of yourself. You know f*** all at 16, if you're NW5 by then that's who you are man. To have glorious hair for many years then suddenly lose it over a couple is a massive loss of identity. What does a balding 15 year old know about that good life? He was NW4 at 14 years old!

Well first of all even i or ohg didnt have it that bad but what about the 14 f*****g years of that guys life???? Lol

And being a kid and teen IS the good life. Not degenerate *** (((college))). College is just choking down sjw bs and degenerate college parties. Its better than adult wageslaving but still always found it overrated

This mindset is f*****g ridiculous

 

[BurningCoals]

HERE is my argument, by an older age like 26 you've already built this image of yourself. You know f*** all at 16, if you're NW5 by then that's who you are man. To have glorious hair for many years then suddenly lose it over a couple is a massive loss of identity. What does a balding 15 year old know about that good life? He was NW4 at 14 years old!

Is it worse to go bald when you're 66 or 26?

 

[Isaac Newton]

f*****g image lol, wtf kind of image does someone have when theyre a balding teensger. Again the self delusion involved in thinking someone older has it as bad lmao

 

[Isaac Newton]

I find this argument more compelling anyways (even tho i dont fully believe it)- youre already established and busy being a wageslave by 26. Life isnt about looks at that point so hair loss doesnt really matter as much

 

[Isaac Newton]

I blame the internet for this. I didn't give a f*** about self image when I was 14 or anywhere below that, didn't you ever go through a period of pure exploration?

Obviously and thats what i missed. I was a careless kid cuz like every other kid in the world i had hair

 

[Howdy Partner]

Also important: Teenagers and 20 year olds are a bunch of oversensitive total pussies. (no offense, all wonderful people, of course). A bunch of total pussies. They get knocked into a depressive state by a breakup or because some chick doesn't like them back or whatever. If you experience drastic hair loss at that age, that sounds like a recipe for depression of various sorts. Later, people get more chill, thankfully.

Wow Dr D spitting facts today

 

[Isaac Newton]

Really stopping to try to understand dark hearts ridiculous delusion just makes me realize im not even f*****g alive. I never even had the f*****g chance to become a person, i was bald before then

 

[Isaac Newton]

26 because by 66 you're already old and invisible and nobody cares. To have gone through university and beyond, enjoyed all those memories with college girls, then degrade into a lesser form is to feel like you've lost who you are. What memories can you reflect upon before 16? Playing in a ball pit, swinging by the ropes with your tiny full head of hair? Like I said already different mental issues, I'm sure it also sucks to lose hair so early, OF COURSE it does

Nah by 26 you're already busy being an adult. It doesnt matter if you go bald by then

 

[BurningCoals]

26 because by 66 you're already old and invisible and nobody cares. To have gone through university and beyond, enjoyed all those memories with college girls, then degrade into a lesser form is to feel like you've lost who you are. What memories can you reflect upon before 16? Playing in a ball pit, swinging by the ropes with your tiny full head of hair? Like I said already different mental issues, I'm sure it also sucks to lose hair so early, OF COURSE it does

But you will have had hair for 66 years and lose it quickly, vs for just 26 years, wouldn't that be worse? It would be more entrenched in your identity wouldn't it?

 

[Isaac Newton]

@BurningCoals @darkheart i made a thread lol

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Also important: Teenagers and 20 year olds are a bunch of oversensitive total pussies. (no offense, all wonderful people, of course). A bunch of total pussies. They get knocked into a depressive state by a breakup or because some chick doesn't like them back or whatever. If you experience drastic hair loss at that age, that sounds like a recipe for depression of various sorts. Later, people get more chill, thankfully.

It should not be a surprise to anybody, you are still immature then lmao, especially when your peers are using your hairloss problems to make fun of you

But people who go bald young will still have had hair...

Tbf I have a warped memories of my hair, I thought that they were great when I was 18; they were already diffused as sh*t and NW3, watching my old photos I have seen a bald spot on my scalp lmao

 

[Isaac Newton]

Do you think that's like a potion to get well? Oh I'm 26 now, guess I'll lose my glory now and hopefully women will settle for a lesser version of what I once was. Look man I get this is an uphill battle. If I hadn't had hair as glorious as I did during my university I wouldn't have known such beautiful memories. But YOU are also denying my suffering

That's different by 66 you're halfway into the coffin not the same case at all

We never denied your suffering but i and ohg and other teen balders had it twice as bad. I legit fantasize about having started losing hair 10 years later

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

We never denied your suffering by i and ohg and other teen balders had it twice as bad. I legit fantasize about having started losing hair 10 years later

Same here, especially when you are the youngest and are going bald the youngest and the fastest lmao

 

[BurningCoals]

Do you think that's like a potion to get well? Oh I'm 26 now, guess I'll lose my glory now and hopefully women will settle for a lesser version of what I once was. Look man I get this is an uphill battle. If I hadn't had hair as glorious as I did during my university I wouldn't have known such beautiful memories. But YOU are also denying my suffering

That's different by 66 you're halfway into the coffin not the same case at all

Ok what about 26 vs 46, which is worse to go bald at? It's not like you're some old man playing chess in the park at 46.

 

[Isaac Newton]

By 46 if you haven't already had kids you're failed anyway by 26 you might still form a family

Oh how convenient. The age which you started balding just happens to be the worst? Lol

 

[BurningCoals]

By 46 if you haven't already had kids you're failed anyway by 26 you might still form a family

But if you go bald in your teens you're still gonna be bald at 26 so idk how that solves anything. Also when it comes to the identity stuff, at 46 you will have had hair for 20 years more than at 26, so like I said before hair will arguably be a stronger part of your identity, which according to you would make it worse.

 

[Isaac Newton]

It should not be a surprise to anybody, you are still immature then lmao, especially when your peers are using your hairloss problems to make fun of you

Tbf I have a warped memories of my hair, I thought that they were great when I was 18; they were already diffused as sh*t and NW3, watching my old photos I have seen a bald spot on my scalp lmao

I remember at 16 a few people pointing out i had a bald spot and me thinking they were just taking the mickey out of a weird crown or something lol

 

[DoctorHouse]

For those who have real hair loss, not the BDD b****s

It's been a while since i complained about hair loss. But i genuinely feel scammed that i have to deal with this sh*t. I don't f*****g understand why is it okay when my 60 yo uncles and my dead 70 yo grandfather have more hair than i had at 17. Even though i personally know people my age balding, it's still rare as f***. Like 20% rare to have any kind of major hair loss before your 30, not to mention before your 20's. The odds with my family history and age to have hair loss start before my 20 were incredibly slim that it feels like a joke

Hair loss has legit ruined my life because it stunted my emotional and social development in the most crucial stage and caused me to do lots of stupid sh*t out of depression and self-hate, and i'm so f*****g angry about it. I would be living in a different universe rn if i never had to deal with this sh*t

If I remember your hair always looked decent to me and I have BDD. You had very thick density. Has it gotten worse over the years?

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

I remember at 16 a few people pointing out i had a bald spot and me thinking they were just taking the mickey out of a weird crown or something lol

Baldspot at 16? Holy sh*t I knew a guy in my HS who had a bald crown by then... but idk he was a drug junkie