How To Cope With Hairloss If You Are In Relationships?

[EvilLocks]

Lol, they take exceptions (because that's what they are) like these women to feel better about the fact that they'll never have children themselves.

That was actually pretty rude. How do you know we'll never have children? I, for one is 24 and would like to have children some day.

"Who Gets Stretch Marks
If you have them, you’re in good company. About 90% of women will get them sometime after their sixth or seventh month of pregnancy, according to the American Academy of Dermatology."

from an article. Exceptions my ***. The severity of stretch marks on women greatly wary though.

 

[hairblues]

What did she do for instance?

She is strict vegan super healthy diet i think she said since 70s or 80s
she adds hair she said her hair thinned as she aged and she supplements with hair I am not sure if she has extension or clips them in..but thats not all her hair.
She does skin treatments but i dont remember what she said she did
I can tell she gets fillers..but pretty sure she admitted that as well
She said she wanted to do botox and tired it but she felt really uncomfortable..she said its great but not right for her
Im going to guess she has veneers because around 60 people have to do something because the teeth change.
She does fitness her whole life.


I mean its definitely genetics but i have a friend her genetics are fantastic but she fucked it up just the past three years..
She smokes, she is a pretty heavy drinker, she abuses prescription pills, she eats like sh*t, she worships the Sun AND does tanning booths...I think 90% of it was eating like crap and the sun and tanning booths. Just completely aged her.
Its almost shocking just in few years what she did.
I tried to warn her nicely a few years ago..she did not care.

 

[hairblues]

Lol, they take exceptions (because that's what they are) like these women to feel better about the fact that they'll never have children themselves.

"It's better to remain childless because at least my body won't be like this lololol!"
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Nice try.

If you are referencing me it's not a cope if i had had children i don't assume that would have happened to me. If it did i would have gotten surgery.

LOL thats not why i did not have kids.

YOU are the one talking about if your wife body changes that you will go to prostitutes.

LOL try to flip it sweetheart does not work.

COPE.

 

[hairblues]

I've seen them, but it was nothing shocking like on those pictures.

Fred you are so sensitive

OF COURSE the pic is extreme example

But having 19 kids is extreme.

ITs impossible to have 19 kids with a woman and still find her attractive. Her body naked. Not in clothes.

 

[hairblues]

I try my best to be careful, take care of my skin, quit smoking, almost never drink... but sometimes I fear meds are going to age me.

she takes some fucked up prescription drugs and mixes with wine and alcohol.

Not hormones.

 

[rclark]

The only thing that has worked for me, in relationships is having a sense of humor about my hair loss.

My hairline looks like I'm on the show Avatar. Seriously, it probably would look better with an arrow
tattoo on my forehead.

Laughter is the best medicine.

When I'm angry, I feel like I'm having a heart attack.

The other thing is comparing myself with men my own age. Have to justify spending lots of money on my hair,
which always looks terrible, at least to myself.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

When I was starting to lose weight, I tried to look for actual genuine science on preventing stretch marks and I found nothing that was reliable. It was all hearsay and speculation:

"drink a lot of water, lose weight slowly, apply coconut oil, apply cocoa butter, apply shea butter, eat avocados, drink more water, do a lot of exercise, eat coconut oil, eat more protein, eat less protein, etc etc etc" it was all speculation passed off as facts, I never saw any robust references.

Somehow, I did not get significant stretch marks. For once in my life, I'm aesthetically fortunate.

 

[hairblues]

That was actually pretty rude. How do you know we'll never have children? I, for one is 24 and would like to have children some day.

"Who Gets Stretch Marks
If you have them, you’re in good company. About 90% of women will get them sometime after their sixth or seventh month of pregnancy, according to the American Academy of Dermatology."

from an article. Exceptions my ***. The severity of stretch marks on women greatly wary though.

He's talking about me LOL not you two.

 

[EvilLocks]

As @SmoothSailing , some girls in this thread are being too harsh and are taking it too far. Women can still take care of themselves and look sexy after multiple pregnancies.

But a lot of them just give up and give in to the cope.

You don't seem to understand though, that even an athlete who takes perfect care of herself before/during/after pregnancy can end up with a belly like the one hairblues posted. It's not about 'giving up' or coping, it's purely genetic like I already said. Stretch marks are no less genetic than baldness, to put it on the spot - even a skinny girl can get them pretty bad. I've had a lot of female friends over the years and many of them have complained about getting them. It's not worst case scenario either, you'd be surprised how common a belly like that is (for women having gone through pregnancy or substantial weight gain)

 

[hairblues]

He said "they"

He did but i assumed he meant 'me' and other women in my age group who did not have kids. like to 'justify' it to ourselves as a cope...'well at least i never had kids because of what it does to body'

You two are in 20s.

I honestly feel bad now because i did not think he was that sensitive to hear things like this.

i mean its just logical to put the body back and forth for years of pregnancy how is it not going to change?

the pic i put was an extreme but still even normal amount is a turn off to some people.

Most men, i dont think care but he sounds like he cares from what he posted.

 

[EvilLocks]

And I have a belly fetish.

Ah well, hot childless mistress on the side it will be then.

It's not all dark and gloomy, many girls make it through pregnancy without (much) stretch marks too. I'm not saying expect your gf to look like that after pregnancy, I'm saying it could happen, as it does to many women.

 

[hairblues]

And I have a belly fetish.

Ah well, hot childless mistress on the side it will be then.

then just have 3 in her 20s, close shop get her a mommy make over and call it a day.

 

[EvilLocks]

And it's just genetics, not lazyness of landwhale (awful word).

Exactly. I've seen obese women with no stretch marks and relatively slim women with lots. It's a lottery, like with baldness.

 

[hairblues]

Exactly. I've seen obese women with no stretch marks and relatively slim women with lots. It's a lottery, like with baldness.

People assume stretch marks, cellulite and natural flexibility are weight related and none of them are.
I think because they can be made worse by weight gain but its really all genetics.

 

[EvilLocks]

I think you can get them out with a looooot of money.

You can never get rid of them 100%, but I think laser treatments can make them less visible.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Hairblues and WhitePolarBear discussed Isabelle Huppert.

She's on my mind, because her losing the best actress oscar to Emma Stone is the joke of the week.

 

[hairblues]

I think its is possible to get rid of cellulite tough,no?

i think you can get treatments that help it temporarily but i don't think there is cure.

it looks worse on some than others and if a persons overweight it can make it looks so much worse. but some skinny people have it horrible too which is i dont understand why. other than genetics.

 

[hairblues]

Hairblues and WhitePolarBear discussed Isabelle Huppert.

She's on my mind, because her losing the best actress oscar to Emma Stone is the joke of the week.

I have not seen either movie but just naming the two of them i am going to agree.

 

[EvilLocks]

then just have 3 in her 20s, close shop get her a mommy make over and call it a day.

How old is the gf, @WhitePolarBear ? Assuming she's in her early 20's, maybe it's time to hurry up and pump out some mini Fred's? ;D

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

How old is the gf, @WhitePolarBear ? Assuming she's in her early 20's, maybe it's time to hurry up and pump out some mini Fred's? ;D

We can't call them Freds until they're old enough to express opinions.












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