fall3n said:
The girl is in fact a girl.
Can I just say that I honestly don't think I'm unique in not caring about hair loss in the opposite gender..? You all seem to be a touch incredulous that a girl could love a guy who's going bald and not care about his hair loss, but there's no reason to be. Out of all the qualities we look for in a potential love match, hair really doesn't figure.
Hi fall3n
Im in the same situtation as you. My partner ( and yes Im a girl and he is a boy for those who think term partner must mean we are the same sex) is suffering hair loss and I want to support him and let him kow that it really dosent make me love or fancy him any less than if he had a full head of thick jhair.
Its not how much hair is on his head that makes e love him, but him as a a person.
Infact I fell for him before I had even seen him. ( yes we met on line) and as well as loving him to bits I fancy the pants off of him everytime I see him which is most days.
Maybe we can support each other on here or with private messages.
I understand that you guys feel that to some women hair loss makes you less attractive, but I can assure you that there are some of us who do not think that way- at least two of us have found our way onto here and many many other women who feel this way will never have found the need to visit a site like this. So please dont loose heart. I know that for many men the way a woman looks is what attracts them to them in the first place ( its human nature for the male of the specis!!!!!!) but for many women its other things that attract us- truly honestly personality truly counts ( well that and fab eyes!!
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) I know it sounds like a line but its true. Women see deeper into a mans personality and soul ( and to be truthful, for me at least, a little vunerabilty is attractive- not into OTT macho men at all)
Some of you guys have fantastic personalities that shine thro on here, and if the treetments you are undergoing boost your self esteme and self image then cool, it all helps. I fully support my partners treatment, what ever he needs to make him happy. I will be happy if he is, with or without hair its his choice
I dont bring the subject up when Im with him, I let him do that, if he wants to talk I listen. He has some very bad days and Im there if he wants me, sometimes he dosent want to see me on those days or even to talk, but Im there if he wants. Not sure what else I can do. We have been togther over a year and as far as I am aware he has had soem degree of hair loss since before we met. I really dont know to what degree as he dosent want me to see, and thats fine with me if thats how he wants it. Im a foot shorter than him so not normally in a position to see top of his head anyway!!!!!!!!!!! Some times he wears a hat- ususally when he is having a bad day- but Id rather that than not see him at all- I actually find the hat sexy.
I do understand insecurities, I too have mine - its called a spare tyre, the way my face looks and wearing glassess. Yep there is stuff I could do about that too- and I do at times- but my BF says niether bother him and I believe him. So inshort we support we support each other and because we both have our problems we understand that we have bad days and good days and just have learnt to rub along and cope with both