How you deal with setbacks is what ....

[doubleindemnity]

it will probably improve your situation but it won’t automatically make you a slayer.

I have a good set of hair with lots going for me and I don’t find dating to be a walk in the park

You are forgetting that I have much lower standards and a much more lax definition of success. I may end up more satisfied than you.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

when women think of a good set of hair, they don’t think balding as that

they think of David Beckham or Christiano Ronaldo

sorry to say but you will be disappointed, as a full head I struggle, let alone if my hair is in that state

They don't like those guys only because of their hair.. they like them because of the whole package. Now move their hairline to NW3-3.5+ territory, and their facial proportions/harmony get fucked. It's always better to have good framing to your face than a full crown. No one goes "nice crown bro".

Also I know girls who think they're not good looking. No guy is fancied by all women.

Prince Harry has a bald crown but he still looks like himself. From most angles you can't even notice that he has hair loss.

 

[Oknow]

You are forgetting that I have much lower standards and a much more lax definition of success. I may end up more satisfied than you.

if you think uglier women have lower standards, you will be in for a rude awakening. If anything many are super insecure and want to date up to validate themselves

if that was the case, you should be attracting them easily right now

 

[doubleindemnity]

if you think uglier women have lower standards, you will be in for a rude awakening. If anything many are super insecure and want to date up to validate themselves

if that was the case, you should be attracting them easily right now

Yes it's true. But I mean that you always seem to be thinking "if this, then on to the next one, if that, she can get out of my life" and so on. I never wanted a successful dating life or any of that; I just wanted to get married and have a kid on the way around now. I would jump at the first opportunity to do that. Let's see how much hair I will need for it. I know that I'm not the most attractive guy, don't have much going for me and am past my prime attractiveness years (these were spent bald) so this would probably be an optimal strategy for me too. I never wanted to become old and going on dates.

 

[Feelsbadman]

i just want a girl to be in my arms and watch netflix did like i did with my ex.

 

[vondoom]

They don't like those guys only because of their hair.. they like them because of the whole package. Now move their hairline to NW3-3.5+ territory, and their facial proportions/harmony get fucked. It's always better to have good framing to your face than a full crown. No one goes "nice crown bro".

Also I know girls who think they're not good looking. No guy is fancied by all women.

Prince Harry has a bald crown but he still looks like himself. From most angles you can't even notice that he has hair loss.

you need glasses if you cant see that...

 

[vondoom]

Yes it's true. But I mean that you always seem to be thinking "if this, then on to the next one, if that, she can get out of my life" and so on. I never wanted a successful dating life or any of that; I just wanted to get married and have a kid on the way around now. I would jump at the first opportunity to do that. Let's see how much hair I will need for it. I know that I'm not the most attractive guy, don't have much going for me and am past my prime attractiveness years (these were spent bald) so this would probably be an optimal strategy for me too. I never wanted to become old and going on dates.

sounds like arranged marriage would help (just kidding, dont do that^^)

 

[justinbieberscombover]

you need glasses if you cant see that...

You stay coping

 

[doubleindemnity]

sounds like arranged marriage would help (just kidding, dont do that^^)

Yes I'd be ok with that but even that can't be done as a bald guy. It is not arranged marriage but arranged date nowadays. And then the usual date rules apply.... no bald guys accepted.

 

[Oknow]

sounds like arranged marriage would help (just kidding, dont do that^^)

I know an Indian guy, NW6, fat, not very attractive at all but very nice personality. Lively.

He ended up getting an arranged marriage to an attractive Indian woman that his parents helped set up, whilst he was bald. Now happily married.

He’s a smart man.

 

[vondoom]

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You stay coping

that is from the front

i keep coping...

 

[Oknow]

Yes I'd be ok with that but even that can't be done as a bald guy. It is not arranged marriage but arranged date nowadays. And then the usual date rules apply.... no bald guys accepted.

lol bullshit, maybe western south Asian girls but women from the motherland would jump at the opportunity of marrying a wealthy British guy

 

[vondoom]

I know an Indian guy, NW6, fat, not very attractive at all but very nice personality. Lively.

He ended up getting an arranged marriage to an attractive Indian woman that his parents helped set up, whilst he was bald. Now happily married.

He’s a smart man.

sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt... for some people the concept is so wrong that they cant be happy with it

 

[justinbieberscombover]

that is from the front

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i keep coping...

Yeah, front matters the most.. even from the sides he looks much better than his bald bro. What were you trying to prove again? You sound mental

 

[Oknow]

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You stay coping

To be fair Harry is a good looking chap even with recession that’s why he gets away with it

 

[Oknow]

sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt... for some people the concept is so wrong that they cant be happy with it

forced arranged marriages are wrong , but when it’s just parents playing match maker it’s no different to using a dating app

in terms of them working out, no different to any marriage

 

[vondoom]

Yeah, front matters the most.. even from the sides he looks much better than his bald bro. What were you trying to prove again? You sound mental

of course he looks better than his bald bro... you just cant go and say that this hairloss isnt visible, because it clearly is...
thx for calling me mental, though... nice change in attitude...

 

[Oknow]

Yes it's true. But I mean that you always seem to be thinking "if this, then on to the next one, if that, she can get out of my life" and so on. I never wanted a successful dating life or any of that; I just wanted to get married and have a kid on the way around now. I would jump at the first opportunity to do that. Let's see how much hair I will need for it. I know that I'm not the most attractive guy, don't have much going for me and am past my prime attractiveness years (these were spent bald) so this would probably be an optimal strategy for me too. I never wanted to become old and going on dates.

given how f*****g miserable you are, for the short term I would use a system.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

To be fair Harry is a good looking chap even with recession that’s why he gets away with it

True. And if his brother had a transplant and grew a beard he would look as good as him..

of course he looks better than his bald bro... you just cant go and say that this hairloss isnt visible, because it clearly is...
thx for calling me mental, though... nice change in attitude...

I said from most angles it isn't. I didn't say it's not visible at all.

I'm sorry for calling you that, I was too harsh..

 

[justinbieberscombover]

You can't say this isn't a big improvement