How you deal with setbacks is what ....

[Feelsbadman]

According to them, he did.

that's some cuck stuff lol

 

[vondoom]

I probably would settle with a plain Jane by my late 30s if the situation does not improve

doesnt get any easier anyway... just by default...

 

[vondoom]

I am only talking from my experience. My results did not change one bit from college student to employee. And yes the women who met me did think that I was in a good career area but the volume of dates didn't change and neither did the number of successes.

If we have guy 1 and guy 2 as completely identical then yes you're correct. But if they are identical except guy 2 was Norwood 1 and guy 1 was Norwood 6 it would be much much closer and I think that the janitor could well win out. These are just hypotheticals so we can't argue either way. But I am just basing it on my experiences. Now say that we go further and reduce guy 2 a little bit to working at Google but not as a senior and guy 2 as working in a white collar profession in a relatively unknown firm. This is the more realistic scenario and guy 2, the Norwood 1 white collar guy, will be more attractive every single time. Nothing that my constructed guy 1 does, except for sorting out his hair, will allow him to outcompete guy 2, even if he founded his own Google. Again these are hypotheticals based on my experiences.


I am looking into transplants and systems. It will probably be a transplant with crown left bald. My point is that no matter the positive qualities you build up in yourself and life, baldness destroys them all and my experiences are in full agreement with that. I didn't used to be miserable; I became miserable after lots of sad life moments and disappointments. Yes everybody on here says good things about me and say that I look fine bald when I show a photo, but that doesn't change anything, sadly.

One other factor is that @Oknow has experience dating in 30s while myself and @Feelsbadman have experience of failing at it in 20s. So maybe what I am saying is true for me and what @Oknow is saying is true for him.

do yourself a favour: dont let the crown be bald... it is the worst...

 

[doubleindemnity]

do yourself a favour: dont let the crown be bald... it is the worst...

Guys here have done well after hair transplant with bald crown. And anyway I am starting as NW6 or NW7 so the first procedure will definitely leave the crown bald. Maybe I would have future procedures to fill in the crown if I have more donor but that is a decision for the future. It is not the worst; the worst is having no hairline. Look at Prince Charles for example. He looks great.

 

[Oknow]

wow well said
even in the short time we were togeher i felt like this
she was raging at me for not taking her out and treating her like a girlfriend but also desperate for attention and posting half naked pictures all over social media

she was pretty messed up

that’s why you pump and dump them

 

[Feelsbadman]

should we just give up on women and try men instead?

 

[vondoom]

Guys here have done well after hair transplant with bald crown. And anyway I am starting as NW6 or NW7 so the first procedure will definitely leave the crown bald. Maybe I would have future procedures to fill in the crown if I have more donor but that is a decision for the future. It is not the worst; the worst is having no hairline. Look at Prince Charles for example. He looks great.

well not exactly great^^ but i get what you mean...
i think a lot of people will be disappointed, when they see a good/very good/moderate hairline and then they see the bald crown...
well if you are lucky you can still use toppik, maybe cover with some hair... do whatever you think is best for you...

 

[Feelsbadman]

that’s why you pump and dump them

yea you'd have to be a really low value male/desperate or messed up yourself to date a grl like that

at least i've improved to the point i wouldn't do that again so that's something

 

[Oknow]

Guys here have done well after hair transplant with bald crown. And anyway I am starting as NW6 or NW7 so the first procedure will definitely leave the crown bald. Maybe I would have future procedures to fill in the crown if I have more donor but that is a decision for the future. It is not the worst; the worst is having no hairline. Look at Prince Charles for example. He looks great.

when women think of a good set of hair, they don’t think balding as that

they think of David Beckham or Christiano Ronaldo

sorry to say but you will be disappointed, as a full head I struggle, let alone if my hair is in that state

 

[doubleindemnity]

when women think of a good set of hair, they don’t think of balding as that

they think of David Beckham or Christiano Ronaldo

sorry to say but you will be disappointed, as a full head I struggle, let alone if my hair is in that state

For a bald guy, his life is going to be changed hugely if he can go from 'bald loser' to 'going bald but looks ok for now'. Ask @justinbieberscombover , who had for some time a bald crown. A bald guy is not looking to get a good set of hair, just to get out of the bald category.

 

[vondoom]

that’s why you pump and dump them

the only thing he pumps and dumps are the barbells at the gym^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

the only thing he pumps and dumps are the barbells at the gym^^

you seem jealous

 

[Oknow]

I am only talking from my experience. My results did not change one bit from college student to employee. And yes the women who met me did think that I was in a good career area but the volume of dates didn't change and neither did the number of successes.

If we have guy 1 and guy 2 as completely identical then yes you're correct. But if they are identical except guy 2 was Norwood 1 and guy 1 was Norwood 6 it would be much much closer and I think that the janitor could well win out. These are just hypotheticals so we can't argue either way. But I am just basing it on my experiences. Now say that we go further and reduce guy 2 a little bit to working at Google but not as a senior and guy 2 as working in a white collar profession in a relatively unknown firm. This is the more realistic scenario and guy 2, the Norwood 1 white collar guy, will be more attractive every single time. Nothing that my constructed guy 1 does, except for sorting out his hair, will allow him to outcompete guy 2, even if he founded his own Google. Again these are hypotheticals based on my experiences.


I am looking into transplants and systems. It will probably be a transplant with crown left bald. My point is that no matter the positive qualities you build up in yourself and life, baldness destroys them all and my experiences are in full agreement with that. I didn't used to be miserable; I became miserable after lots of sad life moments and disappointments. Yes everybody on here says good things about me and say that I look fine bald when I show a photo, but that doesn't change anything, sadly.

One other factor is that @Oknow has experience dating in 30s while myself and @Feelsbadman have experience of failing at it in 20s. So maybe what I am saying is true for me and what @Oknow is saying is true for him.

Well as a Senior, I’m working in a management role in a Google type firm and it helps boost my credibility big time with women. Especially with those working in less reputable firms.

I can definitely see a massive difference to my days working in a small company. Where women would be like ‘meh’ when I told them what I was doing for a living.

But as I mentioned relying on that ALONE is not enough, you still need to be attractive (to them) - which is subjective, and have good chat.

Outside of my career, I work out, dress well and on treatments to maintain my hair.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Well as a Senior, I’m working in a management role in a Google type firm and it helps boost my credibility big time with women. Especially with those working in less reputable firms.

I can definitely see a massive difference to my days working in a small company.

But as I mentioned relying on that ALONE is not enough, you still need to be attractive (to them) - which is subjective, and have good chat.

Outside of my career, I work out, dress well and on treatments to maintain my hair.

are you a data analyst?

 

[Oknow]

the only thing he pumps and dumps are the barbells at the gym^^

Not into one night stands to be honest, banged 9 women, could be higher if I seriously pursued every woman that is interested

 

[Oknow]

are you a data analyst?

No, I’m not a grunt, working in management within a leadership role

 

[vondoom]

you seem jealous

about pumping barbells? well, a bit^^

was a joke anyway...

 

[Oknow]

For a bald guy, his life is going to be changed hugely if he can go from 'bald loser' to 'going bald but looks ok for now'. Ask @justinbieberscombover , who had for some time a bald crown. A bald guy is not looking to get a good set of hair, just to get out of the bald category.

it will probably improve your situation but it won’t automatically make you a slayer.

I have a good set of hair with lots going for me and I don’t find dating to be a walk in the park

 

[vondoom]

Not into one night stands to be honest, banged 9 women, could be higher if I seriously pursued every woman that is interested

well yeah i would have preferred a steady relationship, too... but if that doesnt happen for a while, i try as many as i can get^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

whats a good way to get a man agent position ?