HPM - living the dream?(Whatever happend to) thread

[cb123]

dear hairpieceman ive been a member here for nearly a year now but never posted before ive been losing my hair slowly for around 4 years im a Norwood 2 on the scale and started proscar 1/4 for 8 months, during that time ive notice hair thickening and also abit of small hair started to grow on the temple area.
I first found out about propecia from this site but the negative comments made me hesitant on using it until i saw a guy here posting i think hes user nick is rawskta or something (actor guy) and talked to my Doctor who assured me getting sides was very rare and he has proscribed it to many patients with no complaints.
having been on it for 8 months now i wished i would of started on it earlier cause even though i still have lots of hair i cant leave home without a hat every day(losing hair is one of the most depress thing ive been through).
i dont quite understand why ur so obsessed with height im really short guy(170cm barefoot) with shoes add n inch (5'8) but height has never bothered me at all (hairloss is like 20x worst) i have a friend whos around ur height(164cm) and standing next to him theres no big difference at all, so as long as you have a full head of hair you should have np getting a gf i would advice you not to get that height surgery it sounds painful and dangerous - anyways if rawshat or whatever ur name is reading this i just want to say thanks so much you help me so much on deciding to ignoring all the negetive stories on propecia and actually try it myslef i just hope that ppl would stop making stories up about all the horrible sideaffects.

 

[HairPieceMan]

I dunno, tom cruise wears lifts all the time, playing in park with his 3rd wife, got married to his 3rd wife in lifts, pretty sure she knows!

president of france lives inside lifts, walks down the street with his girl in lifts all the time!

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I couldnt wear lifts if i was short...it be like i be with her soon as i take them off...boom...you drop...like chris said have you saw a woman take heels off? you literally see them drop i mentioned it to a friend once and we joked about it...i think a woman would love you more for who YOU are but what ever makes you happy...but hey what do i know....

Dannyboy, that's why I wouldn't wear them. I'd rather a woman know my shortcomings (!) up front, and if she's still interested in me, great. If not, c'est la vie. I'd rather a girl love me or fancy me for me. Not for a lie. But then HPM hasn't had the luck with women I have, and it must be scary putting yourself out there for the first time at his age. I don't envy him :/

 

[HairPieceMan]

good news cb123.

actually there is quite a difference between 5 7 and 5 4.5!

I hear some guys can get by at 5 7, but 5 6 and under the short **** starts to hit the fan pretty hard.

but it is good you have a positive opinion about being 5 7, and yes Hairloss does indeed suck

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well there is no way I am going to be with a girl that is taller than me!

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also are you really 5 3?

i saw some earlier post on and you said you were 5 4, you really need to measure yourself!

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and also I do not think it is fair to claim these "enhancements", it is more about being fair or equality, maybe if i was 5 7 w/ 4" lifts to 5 11, THAT would be an enhancement, but 5 4.5 -> 5 8.5 I feel it is justified. and also with the hair as well.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Oh my first post. Yeah I like to round up not sure what difference it would make though?

 

[DannyBoyy]

I know i would be honest to her aswell and same vice versa... also when i said i mentioned to a friend it was the woman i was on about who dropped when she took her heels off...i thought i would clarify.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

C'mon, of course they're enhancements! You may feel justified in them, but they're enhancements never the less.

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Oh and you have a lot to learn if you expect a woman you don't know, to think "fairly". Take it from me!

 

[cb123]

wow that was a quick reply i guess ur online right now reading this- well having read your post i dont understand how you and chris here would be argueing and having such nasty personal attacks on each other its quit childish. im sure u two are good ppl i just hate personal insults on a site where you should be comforting one another and give advice thats why i decided to post if anyone is unsure about starting propecia i say go for it and find out its not a dangerous drug like what some ppl make it out to be.
anyways gl with your life being short is not really bad im always same height or shorter then most guys (they are around 5"9 - 5"10) its no big deal man getting women is very very easy i just dont understand why u have so much trouble- hairloss to me is more of n image issue i always had a certain hairstyle all my life and when i saw it thinning slightly on the temples i freaked out.
i sympathise with guys here that are nw3 and above because that would suck so much(ive always had that hairstyle like zac effron)

 

[Benjamin36]

Very true Benjamin. That's why I worry about what will happen if HPM's dream girl discovers his verious deceptions/enhancements. I know I've been peeed off when I've got a girl home who has apparently had amazing cleavage, and then when the clothes come off, it's the biggest wonderbra known to man. Plus woe betide him if the dream girl asks her friends for advice about how to proceed. It would not end well. Hopefully he finds that one in a million who is shallow but conversely non-judgemental...

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You overthink this HPM, god you need to get out there and erm how do I put this? Well here goes, get ya **** wet!!

I can relate to that. A few years ago I dated a woman who was very petite, and had some enhancements in her bra. She's pretty much flat chested, which doesn't really bother me, especially because it's something that she cannot control, much like us with hair loss, but it bothered me that she felt compelled to go out with them all of the time. Guys would be staring at her drooling, and I'm just thinking to myself "Take those stupid things off".

 

[HairPieceMan]

I can relate to that. A few years ago I dated a woman who was very petite, and had some enhancements in her bra. She's pretty much flat chested, which doesn't really bother me, especially because it's something that she cannot control, much like us with hair loss, but it bothered me that she felt compelled to go out with them all of the time. Guys would be staring at her drooling, and I'm just thinking to myself "Take those stupid things off".

breast enlargements really are not a good comparison.

at 5 4 you are VERY undatable, at least statistically proven.

at 5 8 your chances are far greater.

breast enlargements are not nearly as significant, how many guys are with girls with low chest, but how many girls do you see with guys that are short, like really short?

it would not bother me if a girl is wearing wonder bra, but if i am without lifts me and a girl "don't look good together", its actually a non super fitial qaulity girls look for in guys.

so a girl of 5 3 might say "I only date guys that are 5 8, otherwise we don't look good together, I want to feel like a woman next to a man etc."

but honestly how many guys put that much stock in a girls breast size, really it's not a deal breaker quality.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

It's not an enlargement though. They are actually inside them. Much like how you will actually be taller when you have LL as opposed to just wearing the lifts. I'm talking about girls with wonderbras and the chicken fillet things

 

[Benjamin36]

chicken fillet things

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I'm not even a fan of big boobs particularly. In fact quite the opposite (within reason). But it's the deception element that has disappointed. Kind of like buying a bag of apples and the top ones are lovely and you think the rest are like that. Then you get them home, and yeah the top apples are great, but the ones beneath are all bruised and bashed. Weird analogy I know!

 

[HairPieceMan]

well I guess I would be less attracted to a girl with a wonder bra if she took it off and has lesser breasts.

but with lifts I go from datable to undatable instantly, I don't think I can walk down the streets with a girl with my height, because I cannot protect her from a sabre tooth tiger or whatever it is a lot of them need for height.

and stuff like them kissing you on their tip toes and things like that, its sorta of sociaterial norm, the man is always taller than the girl.

whereas the girls doesn't need a certain breast size its not as important.

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I get your point chris, it is the deception element.

but as i said with girls will they be disappointed? yes, but I don't really have a choice!

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I guess that's something you and I don't see eye to eye on HPM (especially once you're in your lifts and I have to really look up to you!). Each to their own, as I've said before.

 

[HairPieceMan]

the gist is

I am undatable without lifts, I NEED them.

girls are not undatable if they are with small breasts, they do not NEED them, like I need lifts.

does that justify it more? I'm not sure, but it is a factor.

+ I do plan to get LL so it becomes less of an issue after LL.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

HPM you don't need to justify yourself to me. The lifts give you confidence. I get it. How could I not get it? We're both of a similar height. I just feel in my case, the fear of discovery would outweigh the potential benefits. But you're not me, I'm not you. Without sounding like a douche (or not too much eh, lol) I'm just very glad I'm not in your position. If I had have been, I guess I'd feel differently. It's just that there are undeniable pitfalls, and I just want you to be aware of them, that's all. As I've said before, I really really hope you meet your dream woman, and these forums can just be part of the past

 

[HairPieceMan]

well thank you chris!

and yes I take those into account, I am impressed you don't wear lifts yet you are shorter than me.

I plan to live in lifts for the rest of my life, I will never be caught dead without my lifts and will always be in them when meeting women!

 

[DannyBoyy]

Wait if chris is shorter then you or similar size...then whats all this about being undateable? dont Chris having a girlfriend prove that you ARE dateable at being the size that you are?

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

It's something I did consider, along with LL. But I'd already lost the Big V and was in a LTR before the internet was everywhere and you could find out a lot of information about such things. Even after that LTR I was shy around women in bars and clubs. I'd get friends to talk to women for me etc. It was only after I'd grown in confidence when these women found me attractive, that I felt able to approach women under my own steam so to speak. Once that had happened, my confidence with women snowballed. I know this will happen to you, once the kind of fear element has left you

I've been with Kylie for getting on for 2 years now. But when I was going out when I was 30, I approached women and yeah some said no. But I really didn't care. The rejection from a girl who didn't know me, wasn't painful. It was when a woman who had known me well (girlfriend) who decided after knowing me inside and out, that they didn't want to be with me, that hurt much more. Having said that, I've only been dumped once. I don't want to be seen as bragging, because I'm really not. I'm just trying to explain why I never pursued the lifts thing etc.