I'm 25, 5'4'', and about a NW3, which was way worse than it is now 1 year ago. Last year I was left by my ex-girlfriend of two years. At that point I was grossly overweight, balding very quickly, had lost almost all of my friends, and had a variety of health problems.
Instead of wallowing in self pity ALL the time like some of you guys do, I started improving everything about myself that I could. This was not just cosmetic stuff like weight and clothes, but also mental issues like depression and lack of social ability.
In about 6 months I managed to go very far on my journey, I lost weight, bought nicer clothes and kick-started my social life. My hair, however, took a dive during that time. Even though my hair at that point looked "OMG, it's so thin" (quote from a female friend of mine) , I STILL managed to hook up with some girls, some of which were quite attractive. A bigger number of girls flirted with me, and I had a couple of good lookings girls come onto ME as well.
I am now in a relationship with a cute, albeit slightly overweight, 19 year old girl, who doesn't mind my hairloss one bit. I know plently of friends my age who are balding as much as I do or more, who also have no problem finding girls. I also know very good looking guys who are still virgins at 25 years old.
This is not just because of looks, but also (and I'm saying also because looks DO matter, just not as much as some guys think) because of how you present yourself, and how confident you are/act.
Oh and HPM, my girlfriend is about 5'8''. She doesn't care about my baldness, or my height. Stop convincing yourself that it's all that matters.
