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bilboswaggins

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man I have to say though.. bar refaeli is now engaged to a very bald man, and bar refaeli is BEAUTIFUL. I don't deny hair gives a lot of chumps beautiful women, but sometimes baldites come out on top!!

100% that man is loaded
no woman goes from leonardo di caprio to some average cueball
 

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The problem with UC man seeing a therapist is, the therapist has a full head of hair and can't understand his problem or the therapist is rich enough to afford the best of hair pieces and still doesn't fully understand his problem.
You can read all the books you want about hairloss, but untill your affected by it personally(complete baldness) you'll never truly understand the psychology behind it. Nuff Said!
 

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this guy

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got this girl pregnant
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This is the power of a nw0 head. No workout, no money, no charm, just the old good no dht sensitive follicle. Embarassing, mother nature hate us, the war is over, we lost, and there are still people who think girls like muscle and money and **** LOL, no, women love the juvenile and healthy looking that only a nw0 can give, **** this life. Imagine this monster as a nw3 or 4, the top freaking model would have called the security to smash his baldy head on the wall at the first attempt to talk with her. wow.....

Bs...come on guys, yes maybe extensive balding from NW3 onto may be a major turnoff to women, but to believe that you must be NW0 in order to impress women is bs.
In fact, NW0 men look like little boys.
 

Notcoolanymore

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It's just hard to really feel somebody else's pain unless you are in their shoes. Not too long ago I was one of those guys that would get offended by being called a "receder" by guys like exodus. I would think how can this a**h** down play my hair loss just because it is not as bad as his. I would get pissed because in my mind I had more hair, but it was still a ****ty head of hair, that was thin all over. MY HAIR SUCKS! With that being said, I would take what I have over being a NW6 any day of the week. That is the way I look at things now. It is too easy for me to say "get over it" or "other guys deal with it better than you", when I don't have to deal with it.

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As far as the post above with the loser looking guy with the hot chick. I have no idea who the guy is and I could be wrong about this, but I have one word to explain that: money.
 

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It's just hard to really feel somebody else's pain unless you are in their shoes. Not too long ago I was one of those guys that would get offended by being called a "receder" by guys like exodus. I would think how can this a**h** down play my hair loss just because it is not as bad as his. I would get pissed because in my mind I had more hair, but it was still a ****ty head of hair, that was thin all over. MY HAIR SUCKS! With that being said, I would take what I have over being a NW6 any day of the week. That is the way I look at things now. It is too easy for me to say "get over it" or "other guys deal with it better than you", when I don't have to deal with it.

It's not so much the offence of calling someone a "mere receder."He is abusing lower norwoods on the forum, felt it was a very aggressive message to winnyblues. I don't go around abusing Norwood Os and I know you're a balanced individual too. I suppose he will say he gets abused in real life so he can give some back too.

These things are often easy enough to predict and tell you about someone's mind and state of life. Gonna leave it at that.
 

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No, I can confirm this too, uncomfortable man doesn't need therapy, he's completely right.

I thought I got it at the early stages of my baldness. But once you get to "the bald guy" stage, it's a whole different story.

Too bad you still seem to be in denial about this fact Wolf Pack, but that's how it is.

Balding: painful. Acutally being bald: hell on earth.

It's going to sound very arrogant, but I think people who "handle it better" as you put it are also in denial, because they don't have the social intuition and intelligence people like me or uncomfortable man have.

You say they have severe conditions and they handle it better? Well, of course, they don't have male pattern baldness. It might also seem conceited to say that, but come on, we've been all over this on the forum: even people who get f-ing cancer think their hair loss is the worst part of it.

The part about intelligence is just ridiculous. More anxiety and paranoia than social intuition.


I've seen people with severe facial disfigurements and burns that are more functional than some of the people here. Imagine rather than losing hair having it all burnt off... In addition to the scars, pain, sensory/motor damage etc...
Each person reacts to things differently and it's a lot more complex than intelligence alone. You'd probably find the people that would moan and whine about male pattern baldness would kill themselves if they got a more severe disfigurement. Some people just get up and get on with it... And it takes a stronger person than me and many others here to do that...

Oh, but they aren't strong, they are just ignorant.. How could I miss that distinction.

male pattern baldness is **** ( here's my badge NW5 here) but this... I just can't...

I'm done. Time for a forum break, I'm starting to lose perspective
 

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The part about intelligence is just ridiculous. More anxiety and paranoia than social intuition.


I've seen people with severe facial disfigurements and burns that are more functional than some of the people here. Imagine rather than losing hair having it all burnt off... In addition to the scars, pain, sensory/motor damage etc...
Each person reacts to things differently and it's a lot more complex than intelligence alone. You'd probably find the people that would moan and whine about male pattern baldness would kill themselves if they got a more severe disfigurement. Some people just get up and get on with it... And it takes a stronger person than me and many others here to do that...

Oh, but they aren't strong, they are just ignorant.. How could I miss that distinction.

male pattern baldness is **** ( here's my badge NW5 here) but this... I just can't...

I'm done. Time for a forum break, I'm starting to lose perspective

You're from a healthcare background too right? Makes sense. There are a few sensible/sane individuals in this section, some on the mend, some need serious help.
 

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The part about intelligence is just ridiculous. More anxiety and paranoia than social intuition.


I've seen people with severe facial disfigurements and burns that are more functional than some of the people here. Imagine rather than losing hair having it all burnt off... In addition to the scars, pain, sensory/motor damage etc...
Each person reacts to things differently and it's a lot more complex than intelligence alone. You'd probably find the people that would moan and whine about male pattern baldness would kill themselves if they got a more severe disfigurement. Some people just get up and get on with it... And it takes a stronger person than me and many others here to do that...

Oh, but they aren't strong, they are just ignorant.. How could I miss that distinction.

male pattern baldness is **** ( here's my badge NW5 here) but this... I just can't...

I'm done. Time for a forum break, I'm starting to lose perspective


A lot probably has to do with your social surrounding and social structure. Some guys might just be in different areas where their interactions are way worse. I know where I live most guys dont give a crap, but Im certainly tired of getting the snub nose when me and my brother are out now and receiving the "you two are brothers?", since I started thinning and receding. And I have a MUCH better body, he doesnt work out at all, so hitting the gym means absolute crap, and you should slap whoever says otherwise.
 

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As far as the post above with the loser looking guy with the hot chick. I have no idea who the guy is and I could be wrong about this, but I have one word to explain that: money.


naaa she is richer

For the bar rafaeli event well, ok that guy is bald BUT is rich, decent face and perfect body, you can compensate hairs when you are a 10/10 in the other aspects of life somehow
 

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"Just stay skinny you ***got, you look like Moby, no wonder no woman wants to sleep with you!"

This the responses I've got on several men's forums for choosing not to work out.

This working out trend is a scam. It's like people saying you need to become rich, then the women will come.

Thanks to our journey through hair loss, we know the truth. It's looks that matter over anything else.

You can be broke and not muscular, but if you are a hot tall dark NW1, most women will fall onto your lap no questions asked. I've seen it a lot around me.

But if you make a 100k a year, are small or of average height, with a NW5, women will shot you down, and those who say yes most likely have an agenda.

its been proven man, girls don't want a huge muscular dude they want a slim toned guy. So the whole concept of get shredded and massive once you start going bald is stupid
 

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Winny, Vepr - exactly.

Above average Looks, lean slightly muscular body, good career can take care of most women. They will like your personality if you have this and I say some pretty dumb things half the time :wave:

Height is also not a big deal as long as you're 5 8 I would say. A little shorter if you are very good looking might also be okay.
 

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I don't go around abusing Norwood Os and I know you're a balanced individual too.

I agreed with what you were saying on the previous page, but I was just trying to put myself in the shoes of others that are worse off. I would like to think that if/when my hair loss gets worse that I will be able to take it better than some do around here, but you never know. I would agree that some of the **** written on here is a little over the top. "Slitting people's throats"...yeah, probably not the way I would take it, at least I hope not.

There are many variables that go into how we all deal with hair loss. I couldn't list everything here, but age, life experience, support, dating life, etc. make a difference in how we all react to certain situations. I read some of UCMan's stuff and I think he is being ridiculous. I hope he is exaggerating, but is he? If he isn't then I can understand where he is coming from.
 

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I agreed with what you were saying on the previous page, but I was just trying to put myself in the shoes of others that are worse off. I would like to think that if/when my hair loss gets worse that I will be able to take it better than some do around here, but you never know. I would agree that some of the **** written on here is a little over the top. "Slitting people's throats"...yeah, probably not the way I would take it, at least I hope not.

There are many variables that go into how we all deal with hair loss. I couldn't list everything here, but age, life experience, support, dating life, etc. make a difference in how we all react to certain situations. I read some of UCMan's stuff and I think he is being ridiculous. I hope he is exaggerating, but is he? If he isn't then I can understand where he is coming from.

Thanks notcool, sometimes I try and rep you yet I can't. You're right, I shouldn't judge generally and I try to help out guys when I can. But yes, that post in particular by UC seemed pretty disturbing. It is the internet, I know, but still. Good point on us all having a different environment and if venting on here helps them, that's great. But there comes a time when you have to take stock of things and basically analyse your actions.

If you don't fit into society generally - something is wrong with the mind. No one on here will convince me it's baldness. You should still be capable of having normal interactions.
 

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To be fair, I dont know how I would react in ucmans situation or even swinglines. Some of us have it way easier than others.
 
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The environment he frequents is a big reason why u.man gets crap. Working menial, manual jobs will attract those narrow minded souls, who haven't set foot outside of theyre own territory, tadpoles who were the same meaningless c**ts they were at school. If u.man was working in a more professional setting with those who have evolved, then his appearance would be less of an issue.
 

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To be fair, I dont know how I would react in ucmans situation or even swinglines. Some of us have it way easier than others.

Swingline functions very well though despite the pain of hair loss, from his posts anyway.

By functioning I mean things like exercise, rational thinking, relationships (close and at work), self improvement, career progression, social and so forth. All these things tend to go hand in hand.
 

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Swingline functions very well though despite the pain of hair loss, from his posts anyway.

By functioning I mean things like exercise, rational thinking, relationships (close and at work), self improvement, career progression, social and so forth. All these things tend to go hand in hand.


I will def say UC has it worse so Im not taking that from him by any means.
I wouldnt say My situation is "awful" ... I mean I Have both limbs and no noticable tumors growing on my face but the situations I would say are "frustrating".... frustrating is a good word. I think UC painted himself into a corner, he needs to get out of working in a supermarket at 40+, unless hes a manager or something. Why not go into a trade? I know it seems late but really its DIFFERENT world in trades.
 

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Every day he is mocked by people and forced to take it. Every single day of his life. I doubt he'd really slit their throats even if he could somehow get away with it, but, honestly, how would you handle that? Think about it for a while before you answer. You wake up, knowing today's going to be the same hell as yesterday, drive to work, thinking about what's to come, tolerate being treated like scum, drive home, knowing tomorrow will be just like today, and so on and so on. He's treated like a freak in a sideshow, like a kid being bullied on the playground, only those kids are never going to grow up and it's never going to end.

IF and that is a big IF he is getting treated like he says, then yes I can see his frustration. Although I would agree that bald people get disrespected, the stuff he describes is pretty extreme. I don't lock myself up in my house at all so I am exposed to society on daily basis and I just don't see what he describes at all, and believe me I am very observant. I just don't see constant abuse of bald guys, especially bald guys that are 40. Being bald at 40 really isn't that unusual. Maybe if he was in high school or college I could see this happening and pretty often, but he is not. I am not saying that he hasn't been **** on over the years, I am sure he has, but many of his posts put emphasis on how he is reading how people are looking at him and thoughts and **** like that. Yes they could be turned off by baldness. I know how baldness is looked down upon, but they could also be turned off by lack of style, being short, facial hair, or just being plain unattractive.

If people really **** on bald people on a daily basis like this fights would be breaking out every day which does not happen.

Joan when was the last time you have seen a bald guy being abused like the way he describes? In your post you bolded "EVERY DAY" so tell me when was the last time you have actually seen something like he has described? Let me answer that for you...NEVER. So don't even try to validate somebody's point without even witnessing it yourself. Again, I am not saying that it doesn't happen every now and then, because it does, but it highly doubt it is a daily event and it if is like others have said he needs to move. AGAIN 40yo bald guy. Is this really that shocking?
 
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