I honestly can't comprehend how young bald guys keep themselves away from suicide

[Capone]

Funny story: a good friend who's a chadlite had this decent woman who used to like him and placed her in the friendzone cuz he enjoyed her company, but didnt wanna commit to her couple of years ago.
Last summer he stayed at my place for a couple of weeks cuz of job interviews and depression and we went to a festival where this woman was also.
I met her at that festival and couple of days post party they were having a chat where she was complaining to him that she cant find a man she likes for a FWB or relationship situation.
Couple of weeks after this, we went to a beach party (these 2 + other people in entourage) where I tried my luck with her, but ofc without any favorable outcome.
Best part: some days after this beach party and another chat between the 2 of them, she was still complaining about said fact and was telling him that she lacked dick so hard she started using toys. So he asked her "why didnt u want UnLuckyLuciano then? I know he hit on you". She avoided the subject and moved on with the conversation.
TLDR: a young woman would rather use a vibrator than f*** a bald man.

Maybe she was pissed off he kerbed her, it’s actually quite embarrassing for a women to be turned down. Us men don’t really care

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

It can’t be just hair loss, you must think you’re ugly asf too, cause getting shredded and SMP would make a diff.

I got a mushroomhead, reason why I always hated having short hair (and why I never got short hair haircuts when I was younger) so SMP doesnt help at all.
Im NW6 so my only chance are probably 2x hair transplants that probably will cost me more than 10k euros, money which I dont have thus why Im depressed as a hungry street dog.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

Maybe she was pissed off he kerbed her, it’s actually quite embarrassing for a women to be turned down. Us men don’t really care

Nope, she was just unattracted to me. My bro came to town some months ago with a FWB and stayed at abovementioned woman's place cuz I had my parents at my place. She had found a FWB on Tinder and guess what Norwood that dude was ))))))).

 

[doubleindemnity]

Funny story: a good friend who's a chadlite had this decent woman who used to like him and placed her in the friendzone cuz he enjoyed her company, but didnt wanna commit to her couple of years ago.
Last summer he stayed at my place for a couple of weeks cuz of job interviews and depression and we went to a festival where this woman was also.
I met her at that festival and couple of days post party they were having a chat where she was complaining to him that she cant find a man she likes for a FWB or relationship situation.
Couple of weeks after this, we went to a beach party (these 2 + other people in entourage) where I tried my luck with her, but ofc without any favorable outcome.
Best part: some days after this beach party and another chat between the 2 of them, she was still complaining about said fact and was telling him that she lacked dick so hard she started using toys. So he asked her "why didnt u want UnLuckyLuciano then? I know he hit on you". She avoided the subject and moved on with the conversation.
TLDR: a young woman would rather use a vibrator than f*** a bald man.

We already know this stuff but what worries me is that it is happening for marriage too. More and more spinsters and unmarried. Will it have an effect on the society of the future? I guess that there's always the option of doing what Priyanka Chopra did but I feel like there will be some women left out at that stage.

To answer the question, what keeps me going is my system and all the entertainment like books, video games etc. that we have nowadays. OP are you sure that your life would have been that different with hair or do you think that these feelings would have hit you with hair too? For me, the two things that I wanted to do with hair were 1) try different hairstyles and feel good about the way that I look and, 2) try the dating game and see if it might be possible for me to settle down. 1 I have done but I am seeing now that maybe 2 is still out of reach for me. Even with hair you do have to look good and have the attractive features such as ethnic background or height.

 

[doubleindemnity]

I got a mushroomhead, reason why I always hated having short hair (and why I never got short hair haircuts when I was younger) so SMP doesnt help at all.
Im NW6 so my only chance are probably 2x hair transplants that probably will cost me more than 10k euros, money which I dont have thus why Im depressed as a hungry street dog.

Once again, I recommend that you spend a week with a hair system. For a NW6 it will be more like 25k Euros so forget that unless you can afford it. (6000 grafts at 3 EUR per graft + VAT already gets you to around 20k Euros).

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

OP are you sure that your life would have been that different with hair or do you think that these feelings would have hit you with hair too?

Im not OP, but Im sure my life would have been better with hair because:
1. I wouldn't be so depressed when looking in the mirror
2. My 95% rejection rate bald would have probably been my normal 65%. Would also get better quality women interested.
3. Since most HR are women, Im sure I wouldn't need to be so perfect in interviews as with a bald head.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

Once again, I recommend that you spend a week with a hair system. For a NW6 it will be more like 25k Euros so forget that unless you can afford it. (6000 grafts at 3 EUR per graft + VAT already gets you to around 20k Euros).

I live in Eastern Europe where women laugh about men who get hair transplants. U have no idea the stigma that is around wearing a hair system as a man here.
Also, my sweating problems (yes, I sweat like crazy and Im sure that would be quite inconvenient when wearing a system).

 

[doubleindemnity]

Im not OP, but Im sure my life would have been better with hair because:
1. I wouldn't be so depressed when looking in the mirror
2. My 95% rejection rate bald would have probably been my normal 65%. Would also get better quality women interested.
3. Since most HR are women, Im sure I wouldn't need to be so perfect in interviews as with a bald head.

So your 1 and 2 are the same as mine. I was in for a rude awakening with 2. If I had gotten my system 5 years ago when I first buzzed my head, 2 would be fine. But today, things have changed a lot after the pandemic.

And I reiterate: hair system for one week.

 

[doubleindemnity]

I live in Eastern Europe where women laugh about men who get hair transplants. U have no idea the stigma that is around wearing a hair system as a man here.
Also, my sweating problems (yes, I sweat like crazy and Im sure that would be quite inconvenient when wearing a system).

Just hide it like I did. Wear a hat everywhere for 3 months. Then take the hat off and people will have forgotten that you were bald. Seriously that worked for me. If you get the system, you'd tick off 1 on your list and that's a plus. What others think is less important than what you think. I am advising you to wear it for a week. Feel free to hide it under a hat for that week. See how you feel. Look at e.g. Karl Pilkington when he put a system on. He thought that he didn't even want one and wasn't bothered but even he loved it and didn't want to let it go. For somebody like you who is suffering, it could have an even greater effect.

And you know that the men getting laughed at about their hair transplants are sometimes getting laughed at on dates. Not like the bald guys who are not getting dates at all. Getting laughed at and facing the stigma could be the lesser of two evils.

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

People go insane from baldness because:-

A) Baldness looks like dogshit on 90% of young bald men

B) 95% of young women would rather f*** literal dogs than touch a young bald guy with a ten foot pole

C) You're rejected socially and treated as a joke by guys your age

D) You don't like the way you look. Can't have your own style, can't express your identity and feelings through a haircut. You have no choice but to settle for the bald, gymcelled, bearded freak look

E) No self-esteem due to all the reasons above

A) ngl keeping a horseshoe when you are young looks weird, that is why I shave it. But truth be told, balding makes you look older and makes you look worse in many cases, but not that worse.
B) idk I am touched regularily and women touch me on several occasions, mostly when they want to touch my head lmao. Most incels I know are not balding, I know a couple where a guy who had a f*****g thinning crown like crazy at 16 and was a trash person started a relationship with perhaps the hottest girl in my class. Don't ask me how he did it. Perhaps she likes his balding crown LMAO
C) the baldness is a joke, but so are other flaws in appearance. People know I am bald; their jokes are not enough to make me squeal
D) yeah I know that sucks, I can't have my fav haircut (which looks autistic) but there are other ways to express yourself, be it facial hair, how you dress, even horseshoe haircuts tbh tbh. Also jfl at these redpill copers. Balding? NO WORRY BRO JUST LOOK ENTIRELY DIFFERENT, GROW A BIGASS BEARD AND BE AN ALPHA MALE BRO! My wardrobe changed a little and I clean shave my face because I hate beards. There is no one good look for a bald man.
E) without self-esteem you are truly fucked. Dead srs I am not joking, without self-esteem people will just bully you to death.

Tbh I love reading your old posts when you were raging against baldness

I know, it's pure kino hahahahha

 

[Capone]

Nope, she was just unattracted to me. My bro came to town some months ago with a FWB and stayed at abovementioned woman's place cuz I had my parents at my place. She had found a FWB on Tinder and guess what Norwood that dude was ))))))).

That was actually aimed at op.

 

[Milkonos]

https://www.instagram.com/hannahayl/?hair loss=fr

I mean, this couple are obviously deeply in love. Not saying it's simple to be a young baldy, but common, at least live and do something after you got rid of your BDD.

 

[Caillou]

Funny story: a good friend who's a chadlite had this decent woman (a 5.5-6/10) who used to like him and placed her in the friendzone cuz he enjoyed her company, but didnt wanna commit to her couple of years ago.
Last summer he stayed at my place for a couple of weeks cuz of job interviews and depression and we went to a festival where this woman was also.
I met her at that festival and couple of days post party they were having a chat where she was complaining to him that she cant find a man she likes for a FWB or relationship situation.
Couple of weeks after this, we went to a beach party (these 2 + other people in entourage) where I tried my luck with her, but ofc without any favorable outcome.
Best part: some days after this beach party and another chat between the 2 of them, she was still complaining about said fact and was telling him that she lacked dick so hard she started using toys. So he asked her "why didnt u want UnLuckyLuciano then? I know he hit on you". She avoided the subject and moved on with the conversation.
TLDR: a young woman would rather use a vibrator than f*** a bald man.

Death would be mercy for us

 

[Caillou]

It can’t be just hair loss, you must think you’re ugly asf too, cause getting shredded and SMP would make a diff.

My face doesn't bother me that much, but the fact that I'm 5'6 on top of baldness

 

[Caillou]

A) ngl keeping a horseshoe when you are young looks weird, that is why I shave it. But truth be told, balding makes you look older and makes you look worse in many cases, but not that worse.
B) idk I am touched regularily and women touch me on several occasions, mostly when they want to touch my head lmao. Most incels I know are not balding, I know a couple where a guy who had a f*****g thinning crown like crazy at 16 and was a trash person started a relationship with perhaps the hottest girl in my class. Don't ask me how he did it. Perhaps she likes his balding crown LMAO
C) the baldness is a joke, but so are other flaws in appearance. People know I am bald; their jokes are not enough to make me squeal
D) yeah I know that sucks, I can't have my fav haircut (which looks autistic) but there are other ways to express yourself, be it facial hair, how you dress, even horseshoe haircuts tbh tbh. Also jfl at these redpill copers. Balding? NO WORRY BRO JUST LOOK ENTIRELY DIFFERENT, GROW A BIGASS BEARD AND BE AN ALPHA MALE BRO! My wardrobe changed a little and I clean shave my face because I hate beards. There is no one good look for a bald man.
E) without self-esteem you are truly fucked. Dead srs I am not joking, without self-esteem people will just bully you to death

IG Poland is just an exception due to amount of young bald men there. But everywhere else balding young is worse than being a pedophile

 

[ohg1023]

I don't know. I've been a Norwood 7 at least since 18 and the thought to kill myself has never crossed my mind. I think going bald young definitely sucks, but it hasn't ruined my life. Just my experience.

 

[Caillou]

OP are you sure that your life would have been that different with hair or do you think that these feelings would have hit you with hair too? For me, the two things that I wanted to do with hair were 1) try different hairstyles and feel good about the way that I look and, 2) try the dating game and see if it might be possible for me to settle down. 1 I have done but I am seeing now that maybe 2 is still out of reach for me. Even with hair you do have to look good and have the attractive features such as ethnic background or height

Tbh my height would have doomed me regardless of my hair. But at least I'd not be the manic suicidal mess I currently am. The thing is that hair is needed to be normal and function in society, women are just part of the equation. I know I was born to be miserable regardless, but at least I want to be considered human by others even if I don't consider myself one

 

[doubleindemnity]

Tbh my height would have doomed me regardless of my hair. But at least I'd not be the manic suicidal mess I currently am. The thing is that hair is needed to be normal and function in society, women are just part of the equation. I know I was born to be miserable regardless, but at least I want to be considered human by others even if I don't consider myself one

Being a guy with hair is just a hair system away. 500 usd will cover it all. Just keep working.

 

[Caillou]

Being a guy with hair is just a hair system away. 500 usd will cover it all. Just keep working.

yeah a hair system sounds like a good idea these days. I'm not getting women anyway with or without hair, but at least a hair system will help me function and be able to go out like a normal person

 

[300]

yeah a hair system sounds like a good idea these days. I'm not getting women anyway with or without hair, but at least a hair system will help me function and be able to go out like a normal person

There is plenty of women out there for you,but you are so down , you cant see it.