I know 11 men who are NW3 or worse and...

[Diffused_confidence]

This comment describes my life experience perfectly.

It sucks man. I feel you need to get over 3 hurdles to get a long term girlfriend.

1. Attraction
2. Chemistry
3. Reliability

Good looking guys who have no Chemistry with a girl won't last long. And unreliable might last months until she figures it out and won't tolerate it. But Attraction is figured out in 1 millisecond. And within 1 millisecond a woman can find you unattractive and it's an automatic no. This is why online dating for bald men is an absolute sh*t show and why dating in general is almost as bad.

If you are missing 2 and 3 then at least you get past the first hurdle which would give self esteem because of positive reinforcement. But if you miss the first one then you just face rejection immediately and you get a negative feedback and very low self esteem. And you will never get any positive reinforcement because even if you have the reliability all set no woman is going to recognize this. Plus no attraction implies no Chemistry

 

[Norwoody]

It sucks man. I feel you need to get over 3 hurdles to get a long term girlfriend.

1. Attraction
2. Chemistry
3. Reliability

Good looking guys who have no Chemistry with a girl won't last long. And unreliable might last months until she figures it out and won't tolerate it. But Attraction is figured out in 1 millisecond. And within 1 millisecond a woman can find you unattractive and it's an automatic no. This is why online dating for bald men is an absolute sh*t show and why dating in general is almost as bad.

If you are missing 2 and 3 then at least you get past the first hurdle which would give self esteem because of positive reinforcement. But if you miss the first one then you just face rejection immediately and you get a negative feedback and very low self esteem. And you will never get any positive reinforcement because even if you have the reliability all set no woman is going to recognize this. Plus no attraction implies no Chemistry

Are you in a relationship?

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

It sucks man. I feel you need to get over 3 hurdles to get a long term girlfriend.

1. Attraction
2. Chemistry
3. Reliability

Good looking guys who have no Chemistry with a girl won't last long. And unreliable might last months until she figures it out and won't tolerate it. But Attraction is figured out in 1 millisecond. And within 1 millisecond a woman can find you unattractive and it's an automatic no. This is why online dating for bald men is an absolute sh*t show and why dating in general is almost as bad.

If you are missing 2 and 3 then at least you get past the first hurdle which would give self esteem because of positive reinforcement. But if you miss the first one then you just face rejection immediately and you get a negative feedback and very low self esteem. And you will never get any positive reinforcement because even if you have the reliability all set no woman is going to recognize this. Plus no attraction implies no Chemistry

As a baldguy, you know your woman niche:
40+ year olds divorced single moms with no self esteem.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

This website is depressing as f***

Well what u expect from a horde of disfigured young men ?
Positivity and love ?

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Are you in a relationship?

I was like 7 years ago.

 

[Norwoody]

I was like 7 years ago.

So it's safe to say your advice is a bit dated. Lol

 

[Diffused_confidence]

So it's safe to say your advice is a bit dated. Lol

Fair enough, but I'm talking about long term relationships here, not a hook up. Generally women want someone reliable and who they can connect with on a personal level.

I'm sure there are Norwood 7s who have a decent job, take care of themselves, have good hygiene and have interesting hobbies. But all that means nothing if there is no attraction and as we've seen on this site bald is not beautiful.