Based and redpilled: Mental illness denial, Zionism, Machiavellianism, Ultra-Capitalism
Cringe and bluepilled: Traditional gender roles.
I think trad gender roles made sense back in the day when household production was far more important and cheap reliable contraception didn't exist. In the modern context I find trad roles fairly cringe.
I do support marriage and stable families, and I think that the prevalence of fatherlessness is a big problem in many communities. But I don't think marriage and stable family requires trad roles. For example, if you read Charles Murray's Coming Apart, you see that marriage rates in certain segments of society (e.g. college graduates in high-IQ occupations) are pretty damn good. However, those people aren't exactly living a trad lifestyle.