I took her to movies tonight... drove home drunk alone

[Pacman]

But you may have to sift through plenty of the former before you find the latter and it can be a frustrating process. Baldness only makes it even more of an uphill battle. This thread makes me grateful I'm not single. I could imagine how tough it would be to try and meet someone under the right conditions.

Yeah. For me its been tough enough over the last few years even with most of my hair. f*** knows how its gonna go when male pattern baldness really hits me.

But yeah, I kind of hope Ill meet the right women eventually, and a she wont care about my hairloss etc, but its one of those ideals that doesn't seem to have shown any basis in reality yet. I just vaguely feel that it will come some day.

In terms of one night stands, I get them now and then. Maybe this year Ive been averaging about one a month give or take. When I go fully bald, sure it will be a lot harder to pull I guess depending on how bad it looks. Will definitely have to lower standards for that.

There are some times when Im like f*** though. Like Ill be chatting to a hot ish girl on a night out and this little voice inside me kinda says :

"Hey why are you even bothering to chat to her bro? she can see that your receeding. she probably finds you repulsive. just dont even bother."

And as f*****g dark and horrible that thought is, its how I kind of feel sometimes. Not those exact words. But that kind of sentiment when im out and about in general. Its more of like an overarching self limiting belief I have now.

If I had nw1 I would be like f*** yeah! and would be way more confident. Because you know you're sh*t hot when your sh*t hot. You just f*****g know. You look in the mirror and you feel good. And you know if you can see it for yourself, then other people will too. So when your on a night out, as blunt as it is, when you go up to a hot girl, you kind of have that overarching confidence. You dont have hairloss(or major/noticable at least) and you know that you look pretty good.

But now, I already have that self doubt. Now I feel like any old punter with my balding head. Just a case of sifting through girls until I get lucky. I seem to have more success with older women at the moment though in terms of one night stands. Kind of between 27-33 kind of age. Why this is I dont know. Perhaps because they want a one night stand with a younger guy and aren't as fussy about slight hairloss. Perhaps because I find it easier to talk to. I don't know.

But it feels kind of bad sometimes. Like I can't remember the last time a girl kind of came up to me or anything like that. Or a girl who said I was good looking. It would be nice to get just a little back sometimes. And my feeling is now Im just any old guy. I don't think girls would really look twice at me anymore. And its crazy, Im not even properly bald yet but my recession so far has already reduced the frame of my face.

 

[CaptainForehead]

How does one go about getting one night stands? Help me out here, I have zero experience with women. Is it in bars or clubs? Never been to either of them. :whistle:

 

[Ori83]

Well there are some sited for sex only, ( i had one girl this way) and you can pick up in bars or clubs, usually what happens is you get her phone in the bar and invite her over the weekend or something to hang out, and if she likes (and she is loose) she will f*** you at yours or hers. this is how it usually go... been a while since i had, and i blame my hair for that! :/ (its not very hard once it happens few times, the problem is that girls go with good looking guys for those sort of things because they can so if your ugly right off the bat your chances are slim.. )

 

[CaptainForehead]

I saw an interview with a girl where she was talking about how guys always hit on her...it must feel nice for them. As someone said, a different reality. Maybe it doesnt even feel that nice becuase thats "standard" for them.

Moving away from one night stands, where do you guys meet girls? Being in a science profession I encounter very few girls at work. Bars and Clubs ...never been to them, are they necessary? Do you go alone?

 

[virtuality]

How does one go about getting one night stands? Help me out here, I have zero experience with women. Is it in bars or clubs? Never been to either of them. :whistle:

Well, this is a strange one... I went hiking with a friend yesterday, and we met couple girls there. One of them kept on looking at us, ie she was sending all the signals. 2 guys and 2 girls, it looked possible. We invited them for a drink in the evening, and we spent the evening talking and drinking.. It was a fun evening with two interesting girls.

Ok, nothing happened at the end, but I believe it was on the table, maybe I'm rusty, it's been awhile. We exchanged contacts and left because we had to drive and they had a train to catch very early in the morning (I didn't drink for 3 hours before I had to drive). I'm sure they would like to meet us again, the only problem is they are going to be 500km away... (I generally believe in closing the deal the first time around with one night stands, if it doesn't happen the first time, forget about it. Then it becomes a potential relationship)

Those things are much easier when there is a bit of alcohol involved. Don't get drunk, that's a deal breaker.

Moving away from one night stands, where do you guys meet girls? Being in a science profession I encounter very few girls at work. Bars and Clubs ...never been to them, are they necessary? Do you go alone?

Well, I'm in a male dominated environment as well.

The easiest way of meeting girls is through a social circle. Get involved with people, go out with them, you'll meet others through them and hopefully some of them will be females you like.

My colleagues know I'm single/available and couple of them offered me to take me out to introduce me to some girls they know. One of them even said that he's gonna introduce me to someone, and that I'd beg him afterwards to meet her again I'm thinking of taking up his offer.

Also, I came across a local photography club in facebook. Most of the members are classy professional women, who are probably bored and are looking for something to do. I also became a member, and if I go to the meetings, I'll get the chance to meet lots of women. Having a bit of interest in photography helps.

If you are remotely interested in music or dancing try dancing classes. Most of the people that go to the beginners classes are really useless, so even if you have two left feet, don't worry about looking like a fool. The bonus is that most of the students are single women who are looking for some excitement.

Basically, try socializing and you might even get a one night stand that way.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I dont drink alcohol either :woot:

Photography --- didnt know women were into that. Thats good.

Dancing ... hmmm.. I have some martial arts training, so I have some interest in this.

 

[virtuality]

I dont drink alcohol either :woot:

Photography --- didnt know women were into that. Thats good.

Dancing ... hmmm.. I have some martial arts training, so I have some interest in this.

Dude, those are just examples. It doesn't have to be photography or dancing, it could be some other activity.

See what's available in your area, try a few hobbies and stick with the one you like and is social at the same time. Some clubs are boring and some aren't, try to find one that you really like.

I once met a girl in my local sports centre, she played basketball with us. I could tell she likes me and we ended up talking after the game, the thing is she's not my type. We still talk as acquaintances.... It's just an example of how socialising and doing different things can open the doors.

Just remember, you can't force those things. If you meet a girl, talk to her and be social. After you meet her a few times, and you are both comfortable with each other, then you could ask her out for a real date.

 

[emex4]

Haha wow. Now i remember why I never come here anymore.

 

[TheGrayMan2001]

I took out this girl on a first date. She was about a 4/10 her ex boyfriend was this really fat ugly NW1 dude who she said treated her badly. I am a diffuse NW2 with toppik I can pull off full density but tonight I just didn't put much time into it she said "you're hair is really thin does it ever grow?" that screwed up the date so I ordered two margaritas one for her one for me but I drank both of them.

She realized something was wrong and said sorry and that she didn't mean that comment and really liked me but it already hit home.

I finished both drinks and went down the Texas state highway back to Houston trying to bring myself to drive off the road and kill myself. Too pussy to do it... just like my genetics.. not even strong enough to kill myself


f*ck hairloss and f*ck my life

WTF? Your skills with girls are greatly lacking. Grow a pair, good grief.

 

[virtuality]

I dont drink alcohol either :woot:

Photography --- didnt know women were into that. Thats good.

Dancing ... hmmm.. I have some martial arts training, so I have some interest in this.

Went to the photography club meeting today, I officially applied for membership )

All the members are professionals, eg doctors, engineers, nurses, etc. There were some single women there too, and one stupid divorced nurse who looked like a b**ch.

I've decided that it's a good environment for me, not for the women but for the conversations in general.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Went to the photography club meeting today, I officially applied for membership )

All the members are professionals, eg doctors, engineers, nurses, etc. There were some single women there too, and one stupid divorced nurse who looked like a b**ch.

I've decided that it's a good environment for me, not for the women but for the conversations in general.

Thats good, I've wondered where professional women hang out. If its a productive enviroment, its even better.

 

[ghg]

And if you're a NW2, your hair can't look that bad. Just get on Propecia & Rogaine and you should be in good shape.

Ever heard of DIFFUSE THINNING?

 

[LooseItAll]

A man walks into bar, and orders two drinks. He pours each drink on each of his hands. The bartender says, "What the Hell are you doing?" The guy says, "I gotta get my dates drunk before I go home!"

:jackit:

:woot:

 

[CaptainForehead]

A man walks into bar, and orders two drinks. He pours each drink on each of his hands. The bartender says, "What the Hell are you doing?" The guy says, "I gotta get my dates drunk before I go home!"

:jackit:

:uglylol: :uglylol: :uglylol: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

 

[Michael84]

A man walks into bar, and orders two drinks. He pours each drink on each of his hands. The bartender says, "What the Hell are you doing?" The guy says, "I gotta get my dates drunk before I go home!"

:jackit:

This would have been even funnier if it hadn't been taken from the real life.

 

[Ori83]

:jackit:

 

[CaptainForehead]

Thank GOD for p**rn and the internet. Life must have been hell before that for the aesthetically challenged.