Look guys, if a guy is tall and has a great face or cute face being bold is not making him less attractive!
Women don't care about that. If you are short and look like Danny Devito AND you're bold you are unattractive but you would be unattractive looking like that with the best hair your ever saw.
Imagine Grigor Dimitrov, shave him bold, he is still hot as f***. Take some average guy with heart of gold and great personality and he is bold, I'd take him over any guy with shiny full set of hair that personality I don't like.
You need to remember that humans are a COMBINATION of traits, I believe really small percentage have every possible desirable trait in/on them. So if you have many qualities and you started loosing hair - NOT A PROBLEM!!! Hair is equivalent to women having small boobs. Would you not date Adriana Lima, she really has small boobs. Or would you not date a girl with beautiful face and body, that has PH.D and is a great person but has boobs like Ana Ivanovic?
See, I could fall in love with your eyes and your intellect, f*** your f*****g hair!!!
Women are not that stupid, and you guys shouldn't waste your precious minutes in life worrying about DETAILS. Worry about the complete picture of who you are. Looks are important but I quarantee you that there are a lot of people that accepted themselves as they are and they are LIVING LIFE instead of sweating the details! And they're happy and you're not because of details! You won't live forever. If you're healthy (!!!!), you certanly have some other qualities, then guys you don't know actually how stupid you behave.... try to think deeper.
ps. I am certian Danny Devito a guy that is awesome btw, is happier then all of you combined, and people that accepted themselves and have FUN in life can found true love and live their life happy and to the fullest! I could fall in love with Danny Devito or a guy that is humble, loves himself, does not takes himself and perfection that seriously, is a great person - can you believe it guys? You fall for a person!!!! I honestly doubt you experienced love like that, I actually feel sorry for you and I hope that you will let your self free, and try to look within. I am a girl that was also obsessed with beauty, and it's still important but once you learn to love yourself, once when living life and smiling becomes more important then anything else you'll think about being happy, and you'll learn to not chase perfection yet to love YOU. And be you. You are good enough. Perfection is overrated and not necessary to find meaningful relationships, I truly hope you'll experience loving people for who they are, rather then how they look, you'll FEEL the difference. Let your self free guys from chasing perfection... shine from within. And you know what, I am the one that laughed before hearing stuff like that, but I guess you evolve when you're ready... if you're average or even good looking, shave that hair and be brave and proud! And you know what I'll see? Amazing brave and inspiring guy I could have fun with!!!
So much blue-pill overload in one post. This is the kind of mediocre Disney sh*t advice that screwed many guys over from improving themselves. Be who you are, love yourself, become confident and the girls will love you back! Don't you think guys have already tried that? Don't you think they see that having a personality, while important, is dwarfed by various other superficialities that some men possess?
You must not underestimate the importance of cultural differences (though we are slowly converging into a one world culture as time goes on). Your alias suggests you're of eastern European / Balkan descent, and for sure a smaller emphasis is placed on mens looks in that part of the world. This is mostly because there's simply less opportunity (for average people of both sexes) to reach a reasonable level of economic success, therefore a mans provisioning ability, and his future potential for same, is placed at a much higher premium than it is in the west. In large part due to a desire to start a family at a relatively young age, mostly buttressed by stronger core religious values. Clearer defined gender roles!
In the depraved cuck west, women have been given soooooooooooooo much leeway (colloquially known as the 'pussy pass') for their behavior that everything is coming apart at the seams. There are less and less cultural restrictions on female behavior ("PROGRESS!"), and to an extent, psychopathic male behavior which is greatly rewarded by females. Some of the big reasons for this
1- girls are outperforming boys at school, are entering university in greater numbers and are more than capable of earning enough money to support themselves; alot of affirmative action going on, not only professionally but throughout the entire educational system which generally places girls first. This leads to a diminished emphasis being put on a prospective males provisioning capacity when they're looking for a partner.
2- police state -- how easy is it to get help from the cops by making a simple phone call? her word against his, hmmm i wonder who's side the judicial system likes to take in the cuckwest? What used to be a desirable 'protector' trait in men has now been supplanted by the state. This is not necessarily a bad thing: you should feel safe in any major modern city, as there are some dangerous scum dancing around, but its overblown hysteria IMO. In shithole countries they'll just tell her to stop wasting time and figure it out with her husband if she complains, so she better be careful about choosing her partner.
3- the birth control pill allows full control over a womens reproductive system, this one is huge as it allows a girl to decide when she wants to get pregnant. This removes the huge longterm unwanted pregnancy risk of f*****g a desirable short term partner. What constitutes a desirable short term partner? well i guess that depends on where the woman is on her cycle, which is also fucked by the birth control medicine she takes btw, a double whammy. Classical physical markers of beauty would be the majority of the equation here, the top 10% of male looks, and perhaps excitement which is where the psychopathic inclined males come into play.
4- when girls DO decide to get pregnant, its usually when they're in their late 20's early 30's, and that number keeps increasing btw. What does that mean? they party from 20-27, f*** however many partners they want without thinking of unwanted pregnancy, become very bitter that they werent able to hold on to the top males that used them for sex (because she DESERVES to keep him if he fucked her! HA!) and eventually become 'reborn' at 29, which is simply backwards rationalization delusional femalethink, and decide they always did want the nice beta guy! Lo and behold they find some loser with a decent job that has no sexual attractiveness to them, but is a great target because he'll be happy to take care of her despite her having double digit past sex partners compared to his 1-5 max. She eventually gets bored and cheat then divorce and take 50%.
So what's left? If the mans average job (which used to be a very important dating criteria back in 'the day') is seen as no big deal now, what's left to desire? His looks! a shiny new boy toy to show off to your friends. And i haven't even began to talk about the basic lack of dress style and femininity that plagues western girls! Most of them are FAT and disgusting themselves. 50%+ are overweight/obese. Alot of girls dont even give a sh*t how they look when they leave the house, wearing pajamas and boots. Find a regular girl who's a normal weight (by real standards, not shitty leftist feminist Disney standards where 150 lbs is considered normal) with long hair, no body mod piercings and tattoos, who isnt a total unhappy b**ch and doesn't act like a competitive aggressive man. If a girl has those basic things, she's already in the 10%, so naturally most males will want her even though she isn't objectively beautiful necessarily -- it's all relative! The beauty standards are dropping fast and hard.
This presents a huge problem to a bottom 80% guy (lol) who is aware of this whole situation -- you can figure out why. What should his strategy be? Right now it seems like a major factor would be to improve his physical potential to the max just to be on the radar. Afterwards he can go in an use his beautiful personality and illustrious confidence once he's already screened above a minimal looks threshold. Did you ever think about the skyrocketing numbers of men who are getting these cosmetic procedures and using various kinds of beauty care products? Don't you think there is a reason? Look at Putin -- so called czar no-fucks-given, realize he has had many many operations on his face. Smart PR team.
Remember that a civilizations success DEPENDS, in large part, on keeping the "regular guy" content with his situation so that they don't revolt in huge numbers, and alot of THAT depends on constraining female behavior to some kind of societal standard. To each one man is his one wife; he makes, she bakes. This is the stable society! Not a social system sponsored ex partier sl*t with 3 kids from different fathers who turn out to be aggressive psychopaths since they don't have any authority figures in their lives. If the goal is to destabilize a society, then you can say the plan is working, but that's another paper.
Once the birth givers are allowed to go feral its all over, a free for all buffet sponsored by state tax dollars paid for by the losers who are too stupid and weak to revolt, become a valueless consumer hypnotized by some stupid neomarxist feminist idea and placated by pornography and games.
Obviously this little manifesto is an ice cold cynical theoretical take on things, i felt i needed to purge what thoughts i had on the matter, however embellished they may be. Take it with a grain of salt.