Im scared of women. Advice needed... .

[Oknow]

Honestly it's a vicious cycle because the manipulator controls you step by step, every time they notice that you let them get away with the last bullshit they tried and set no boundaries they take it a step further.

think I’m in this situation with a girl right now

I’m just direct as f*** with her in terms of what I want

 

[Feelsbadman]

think I’m in this situation with a girl right now

I’m just direct as f*** with her in terms of what I want

If you're gut feeling is telling you something don't ignore it

 

[justinbieberscombover]

think I’m in this situation with a girl right now

I’m just direct as f*** with her in terms of what I want

Communication is key bro. I handed my phone over to my gf just to look at a photo, and all of a sudden she was starring into my phone like she was inspecting and I couldn't see what she was doing. I told her I don't like it when people look at my phone and I can't see what they are looking at, I want to have control of the situation and the way that I present myself to her. In the future if/when we get married, she will have full access to my phone, but we are not there yet. It just feels invasive to me, like reading somebody's private diary.

She asked for examples of what I could possibly not want her to see, I said maybe an unflattering photo, I don't know, could be anything.

She understood, if she didn't it would be a red flag.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Communication is key bro. I handed my phone over to my gf just to look at a photo, and all of a sudden she was starring into my phone like she was inspecting and I couldn't see what she was doing. I told her I don't like it when people look at my phone and I can't see what they are looking at, I want to have control of the situation and the way that I present myself to her. In the future if/when we get married, she will have full access to my phone, but we are not there yet. It just feels invasive to me, like reading somebody's private diary.

She asked for examples of what I could possibly not want her to see, I said maybe an unflattering photo, I don't know, could be anything.

She understood, if she didn't it would be a red flag.

do you feel sorry for those narc women we had in our life?
i feel sorry for my ex in a way, because unlike me she has no ability to self reflect she'll just keep monkey branching from man to man and abusing each one

 

[Milkonos]

Please, stop talking about "these narcissist persons" while this entire forum is mentally ill because of their appearance.
Losing your hair -> OCD -> depression -> serious mental illness -> drinking your pee in public

 

[justinbieberscombover]

do you feel sorry for those narc women we had in our life?
i feel sorry for my ex in a way, because unlike me she has no ability to self reflect she'll just keep monkey branching from man to man and abusing each one

Yeah kinda

Please, stop talking about "these narcissist persons" while this entire forum is mentally ill because of their appearance.
Losing your hair -> OCD -> depression -> serious mental illness -> drinking your pee in public

Wanting to look good doesn't necessarily mean you are narcissistic or vain

 

[Oknow]

If you're gut feeling is telling you something don't ignore it

Got to the bottom of it - spoke to her on the phone, she complained about other guys blowing her off in the past which is why she has a wall up.
Defense mechanism.

 

[Milkonos]

Wanting to look good doesn't necessarily mean you are narcissistic or vain

It's not wanting to look good though, everyone wants that. It's about cosmetics and eventually surgeries.

But going tranny, hair-transplant, finasteride, minoxidil or micro-needling just for your hair is narcissistic I think. Especially given the side effects that you inflict to yourself just for hair. It can be a problem, but that depends on how you deal with it in the end I guess.

Anyway, I'm saying this as someone who just got finasteride prescribed and will probably undergo some kind of hair transplant in the years to come...

 

[DoctorHouse]

Got to the bottom of it - spoke to her on the phone, she complained about other guys blowing her off in the past which is why she has a wall up.
Defense mechanism.

You are always going to have to prove you are different until they finally trust you but the problem is will they ever trust you? And will you ever trust them? That is why the wall is up. Cheating now a days is such an easy option because you have so many temptations on your phone. You always have to worry if it's going to happen to you. And if it does. Can you trust again and again and again.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

It's not wanting to look good though, everyone wants that. It's about cosmetics and eventually surgeries.

But going tranny, hair-transplant, finasteride, minoxidil or micro-needling just for your hair is narcissistic I think. Especially given the side effects that you inflict to yourself just for hair. It can be a problem, but that depends on how you deal with it in the end I guess.

Anyway, I'm saying this as someone who just got finasteride prescribed and will probably undergo some kind of hair transplant in the years to come...

How is wanting more hair narcissistic? That just means you want to look the way a normal person is supposed to look, so other people will treat you better, and you can have a normal social/love life and career.

Some men actually don't look bad and creepy bald so they don't have to do much about their hair loss, that doesn't mean they are less narcissistic than me or something, they are just "lucky".

 

[DoctorHouse]

Cheating is a reality you have to accept nowadays there's no way around it. I've seen the "nicest" and most "noble" girls cuck a man. I've sins myself. You can comfort yourself by believing in someone but that's just a fantasy you must abide by now for a sense of security. Unless you have mind-reading super powers you'll never really know.

You have to ask yourself why would you cheat? Why not just be honest and just end it if it's not working out. And the answer depends on the person. Some can't stand to be alone while others can. That difference dictates how the scenario will play out. For me, I would rather be alone than be with someone who cheats. Once a cheater always a cheater. It's all about integrity. You have it or you don't.

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

Cheating is a reality you have to accept nowadays there's no way around it. I've seen the "nicest" and most "noble" girls cuck a man. I've sins myself. You can comfort yourself by believing in someone but that's just a fantasy you must abide by now for a sense of security. Unless you have mind-reading super powers you'll never really know.

But that's what a cuck would say.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Press that red button all you want justinboy you're still bluepilled by the looks of it. Enjoy your time sure but you haven't been around if you praise someone this hard and think no judgment exists, she's already judged your hairline you can be sure of that

Ok autistic incel

 

[justinbieberscombover]

she's already judged your hairline you can be sure of that

Damn I feel so bad about her judging my NW1, let me run away before it escalates

 

[justinbieberscombover]

She knows bro. It's like those girls that pretend to not know about a weave wearing man only to one day tell them "you know I know right?". All those hair procedures you've done, she knows.

And I'll have you know that I am currently getting attention from a model tier horse rider that I know from work. She's cooking for me and everything. But I'll be honest I have indeed not had a relationship for the last 2 years, then again haven't cared thanks to finasteride

Lol comparing it to a weave is silly, it's literally my hair and you can't just take it off if you pull too hard.

Doesn't matter if she knows? Clearly she doesn't care and thinks I'm hot af regardless

Wake up from your nap, you're not getting any attention from any model and nobody is cooking for you.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Point is she is likely not as amazing as what you claimed in your post your inexperience is showing.

Nah even my friends with a lot of experience, my therapist and family members who have been through a lot all say she's a great partner

But keep filling in the blanks with your imagination and thinking you know something I don't

 

[Milkonos]

How is wanting more hair narcissistic? That just means you want to look the way a normal person is supposed to look, so other people will treat you better, and you can have a normal social/love life and career.

Some men actually don't look bad and creepy bald so they don't have to do much about their hair loss, that doesn't mean they are less narcissistic than me or something, they are just "lucky".

Well it's complicated yeah, and life is unfair and has always been for thousands of years. But you yourself are saying that chicks with botox aren't "real" or something like that. What's that supposed to mean when you're getting a hair-transplant to get your youth back ?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Well it's complicated yeah, and life is unfair and has always been for thousands of years. But you yourself are saying that chicks with botox aren't "real" or something like that. What's that supposed to mean when you're getting a hair-transplant to get your youth back ?

First of all: Hair transplant is a restorative procedure, which makes it different than most other cosmetic/plastic surgery.
A lot of filler injections don't really restore your original look, they give you a new look.

Secondly: I'm not totally against plastic surgery by the way, even encourage it in some cases.

My problem with botox is that it usually doesn't look good (plus limits facial expression). But when it does, I support it.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Everything needs to be done wisely and with realistic expectations, I find it unethical when doctors take advantage of people's insecurities for personal gain ($$$) whether it's a hair transplant or botox or anything else

There are guys who had a poor hair transplant that left them with poor density at the hairline and no donor left to fix it after 1 procedure, and they resort to wearing a fringe to cover it up.

 

[Isaac Newton]

To be in a committed relationship in 2021 is to be a cuck

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