Is Any1 Else Even Getting Bored Of Impact Section?

[Notcoolanymore]

All part of the master plan.

I have no problem admitting it to be honest. I have no problem with women that are chubby. Some definitely carry the extra weight better than others. And if I was single and in a slump...sh*t, you have to do what you have to do.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

I just have disgustingly different standards when looking for a girl to date

Key words right there. I never said these guys need to settle down with the first fat chick they find. Just have your fun, get experience, then get out.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

So to answer the original topic question, no I am not getting tired of the impact section.

 

[Rudiger]

Key words right there. I never said these guys need to settle down with the first fat chick they find. Just have your fun, get experience, then get out.

Thank you! I've been saying this all along and even been attacked on "encouraging guys to f*** anything"

Well you SHOULD f*** anything, I mean you aren't going to win a major in golf if you don't step out on an amateur course.

I do always think of @WhitePolarBear when it comes to this topic of just getting used to being around women, he made an observation once that a PUA conference cost 3000 euro's to attend, and for that money you can have 10 hour long sessions with Goddess tier prostitutes.

I think he meant it fleetingly but it was so damn true, what's going to improve the little chance you have of f*****g a woman- listening to some scam artists, or actually f*****g a woman? Even if you're used to women, if you have a dry spell it fucks with your head, you need to get used to being around them again to feel comfortable in pulling them.

f*** knows how a guy past 20 who's never fucked a woman, would possibly feel comfortable in getting her in to bed. Just f*** a prostitute, simply as that.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Thank you! I've been saying this all along and even been attacked on "encouraging guys to f*** anything"

I'm not going to mention any names but I half jokingly told and incel to settle a little bit and he almost ripped my head off.

Well you SHOULD f*** anything, I mean you aren't going to win a major in golf if you don't step out on an amateur course.

Exactly. Experience is key. I am not a women so I could be totally wrong, but being a virgin is probably cute until your early 20's. Beyond that and they start to think there is something wrong with you.

 

[Rudiger]

I'm not going to mention any names but I half jokingly told and incel to settle a little bit and he almost ripped my head off.

Exactly. Experience is key. I am not a women so I could be totally wrong, but being a virgin is probably cute until your early 20's. Beyond that and they start to think there is something wrong with you.

I'm pretty sure I know the one.

However, @CaptainForehead is self-aware that he wants to f*** way above his level, and like I said, he can't help that, I respect the honesty. I still encourage him and all others to just f*** whatever, to gain some ground, get your heels dug in, time is passing, but if they can't bring themselves to do it, there's not much to say.

As for being a virgin, girls were mocking virgins when I was f*****g 16 (including a friend of mine who got roasted bad a few times) never mind early 20's. I think the only guys who get away with that are Mormon's, only for a religious reason would women respect it as a "choice".

In this day and age I think women assume we'd all take anything if it's on a plate, just desperate to f*** whatever, it doesn't even matter if you have consistently fucked or been in relationships with hot women. If you try to express that you have standards, I doubt they actually believe you, instead you probably have ED or you're a pedo. Real talk.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I was actually on a long drive home from a clients house a couple days ago and thought about this. The client I had I guess triggered these thoughts. The guy was nw8, gorgeous wife, had a kid and had 0 style. not to sound like a douche but I knew I was better looking than him, by far. I see so many hot women with balding men, shouldn't this put my mind at ease? But no, it doesn't, not one bit.

Based on these thoughts alone, baldness is an identity issue for me, and I don't wanna be identified as the bald guy. I honestly don't know if it's an ego thing or what it is, but I do know for a fact that attracting women probably comes second or 3rd to the primary reason of not wanting to go bald. all this compensations for balding, I never had to care about my weight or my "fashion" to be acknowledged respectfully in life, and I never want to have to.

You can get women as a NW8, it just reduces the probability.

Many women care about your hair.

Your identity should not.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I think too many are just WAYYYYY too picky. I am not saying "you are bald, take what you can get". Maybe be a little more relaxed with your standards though. Personally I would be fine with a solid 6 as long as she was very cool and could give a decent blow job.

You're picky as well if you think a "6" is settling.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Especially considering they're virgins, like don't you just wanna get it over with and break the ice.

I honestly don't care, sex is sex, and a little chach on a pretty girl isn't a game changer at all.

I just have disgustingly different standards when looking for a girl to date, I actually feel like my standards are way too high for
My looks.

I don't get hard for most women unfortunately.

 

[Rudiger]

You're picky as well if you think a "6" is settling.

It's a good point but I think it's all relative in the context of who's saying it, @Notcoolanymore has had a history of f*****g high standard girls if my memory is correct. I used to tell him the same thing he's saying now, just f*** whatever, and his attitude was that he's good looking, and capitalised on this further by being successful, working hard on his physique, and now baldness has somewhat crippled him. I think he has the right to be pissed off at possibly settling with 6's.

On a side-note I think I had my early "heated battles" with this guy, and now he's one of my favourite posters when he's on.

OK more beer.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

@Notcoolanymore has had a history of f*****g high standard girls if my memory is correct.

I have done OK. No where near dating models like some around here, but I would say you could put them in the "nice looking" category. In other words nobody that I would be embarrassed to admit to being with.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

You're picky as well if you think a "6" is settling.

Everybody's "6" is different. I think being a 6 is just slightly above average. Not the best looking, maybe a few pounds overweight, 3 input girl.

You know what, I am being picky... Guess I should lower those standards a bit.

 

[Exodus2011]

To my knowledge @Wolfpack wrote factually, that this is how his life is, I've heard that he's very good looking from female members of the board, and fine- fair enough. He wrote a topic once about how some stunning girl wanted him so bad that she was telling him sh*t about his girlfriend.

I mean that's triggering to a lot of incels, not only having a girlfriend but having another hot girl fighting for him- however, I don't at all find it insulting, that's just his experiences, through genetic luck or skill.

Now zircon had a few moments, maybe only a handful, where he definitely came across as bragging and mocking the inferior incels (which he was himself only a short time beforehand). I know I just ranted about him, but for the most part I do like zircon, however someone can be a great person 99% of the time, but that little 1% remaining can reveal the true colours of a horribly arrogant human, which I feel we all have to control. What I particularly didn't like about this is that he never owned up to it or faced it, some of the language and tone he would use while basically mocking inceldom, was pretty reprehensible.

I have no problem with the way WolfPack did it, even others like Fred and Shooks, for the most part when they write about their experiences, it's just that.

I do however take issue when people step over that thin line, for me personally I've never had issues attracting women, and I don't often write about it unless it's somewhat relevant to the topic at hand (and usually it isn't- I find a lot of people twist topics into their slayer experiences and it's very transparent) but you have to take into consideration that there's a lot of frustrated guys reading this sh*t, and take care that they rightfully get pissed off about it.

I definitely got the impression zircon was at times feeling better about himself by coyly writing about his own experiences, while indirectly putting the inferior incel down.



I see your point and the logic adds up but my gut instinct disagrees, sorry I don't know if I have a good counter-argument to this, maybe you're right.

I guess one other way of seeing it is, if there was a woman in a guys bed that he could f*** right now, would he? Well yes, but is he currently f*****g women? No. Then that's involuntarily celibate, for one reason or another he's unable to screw a woman, his dick wants to, but nothing else is working out that way.

I dunno, that's as best as I can put it right now (high and drunk and watching UFC).

Speaking as someone with an anxiety disorder i don't think it makes me celibate in the sense that being bald does. Its actually possible to fix unlike being ugly

Its funny i remember back in the hair days i felt so guilty that i had no reason for not getting laid other than nervousness. Now those times seem so simple and easy by comparison

Zircon was like this apparently. Hot but wudnt leave the basement. And even in the fuckin basement he got 2 bjs. Like ok thats below average but for a fukin shut in thats really good

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Speaking as someone with an anxiety disorder i don't think it makes me celibate in the sense that being bald does.

Anxiety disorder definitely doesn't help. I suck when it comes to talking to girls, but I was way worse when I was young. I was so bad, I couldn't even seal the deal with girls I knew were interested in me. Getting out of my comfort zone, moving out of state for college was a huge move in the right direction for me. Forced me to interact with people. That and just life experience has made a world of difference for me. I missed out on alot of *** being the way I was. Best thing to do for guys with anxiety is just to put yourself out there and get experience. Talk and have sex with chicks and yes if need be get with fat ones. No one is telling you to post pics here or brag to your friends about it, but the experience will pay dividends in the end.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm 30, I think even as bald I could still f*** a lot of women, but they'd be of a lower standard. It still wouldn't be the end of the world at all, I mean I'd gladly f*** a lot of fat chicks (with proportional tits, very important) but right now for me, there's no need. I actually probably would f*** fat girls here and there if it didn't lower my stock (or maybe this is in my head, but I do believe hotter women have less respect once you start f*****g fat chicks).

I suppose it depends what we quantify as "fat" but even incels on here seem disgusted at even chubby women, personally I think a lot more guys would f*** a fat girl than they'd openly admit, or realise.

Are you finding hair loss easier at 30?

I'm losing quite a bit of hair these past two weeks and I fear I may be a nw4 by this time next year but I am glad that I am in my early 30s and it doesn't look so incongruent with my face. If I still had a baby face then I would look like a freak.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm your age. I guess it depends on what you mean by easier. I think a thick Norwood 3 is the limit for those near 30. A little higher for those 40-50. Start saving for a hair transplant. I am talking about guys that want to remain attractive in a conventional sense as older guys, probably don't want to exceed Norwood 3 with good density. Full head becomes rarer as you get older and the value increases substantially if coupled with good looks. I know a handsome full head man in his early 40s and he is attracted women much younger, same age and older. To look "normal and neat" as an older guy I'd say up to a thin Norwood 3 is okay. The psychological blow of baldness should be less with age, at least that's the way we should try to see it.

People may say I am crazy but I am thinking about just letting my hair go and not getting a transplant.

I look similar to this guy with a similar hairline aswell.

And I think even if that chap became a Norwood 5 he would still be okay looking - maybe a 6 out of 10. And sure he would be a 7 or an 8 with a fullhead, but being a 6 is fine as well.

Each year I can save roughly £3,000 - so I can either be very careful and not go on holiday and get a transplant in 3 years. Or, I can travel the world and have amazing experiences.

I know some people might think I am crazy but I am starting to think that maybe its okay to lose my hair. Its taken 10 years of hair loss to feel like this but I am kind of making peace with it. Its starting to be okay with my identity.

For the first time in the last two years I haven't been using toppik and I haven't been treated any differently. Its made me think that nobody really cares that much and I was just being overly self conscious.

Maybe at 31 this is finally becoming okay to handle. And hopefully at 41 I will have matured enough to laugh at my time spent on a hair loss forum!

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Since you came on the forum, I instantly knew you were a person who tried to embrace everything in life and were too good to engage in tit for tat words with others.

When I first started reading his posts I thought he was an anti finasteride troll. Good thing I didn't jump the gun though and continued to read his posts. I later realized not only was he an intelligent guy, but he is actually pretty damn funny, which makes him okay in my book.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Definitely no one out there really cares if you go bald (except close family and friends) and it's normal to see a bald man. Maybe you also don't look bad bald. But your life will be better with hair, mentally and physically. Why allow a flaw to happen. You don't have bad genetics like premature baldness and can change your situation with treatment and transplants. Do a hair transplant overseas at a reputable clinic to save money. After that, no more hair fears, you live your life and experience whatever you want. I always believe when someone is thinking shall I, shall I not and finding reasons not to, they actually want to do it but have some barriers. Overcome those barriers and be done with it. If you were already shaving your head every day and happy with it you wouldn't be here.

Treatments aren't working so it means getting multiple hair transplant's.

We're probably looking at £20,000 for just two FUE's over the next ten years. I'd rather have travel experiences and a down payment on a home then I would to be a fullhead at 41 with no house and no fun experiences.

Ideally you'd have a fullhead, experiences, and a house - but my income forces me to make a choice.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Treatments aren't working so it means getting multiple hair transplant's.

We're probably looking at £20,000 for just two FUE's over the next ten years. I'd rather have travel experiences and a down payment on a home then I would to be a fullhead at 41 with no house and no fun experiences.

Ideally you'd have a fullhead, experiences, and a house - but my income forces me to make a choice.

Is there no possibility of getting a cheaper transplant in Vietnam?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm glad that we were able to make this thread un-boring.

A great collective effort guys !