Is Hair More Important Than Ever In 2017?

[Roberto_72]

So if you cant get an average looking girl its something wrong with you as a person rather than how you look (because you are clearly decent looking).

I think the OP should definitely thank you for the psychological diagnosis. Of course, if you are a psychologist.

 

[resu]

Charles Manson must be a really nice person in order to be able to get such a cute girlfriend. You just have to be yourself.

 

[simon56469]

I think you are making the error of drawing a general assumption based on what your life experiences have been, including what you think and what women have told you.

Science says otherwise. Sexologists report a series of reproducible studies that show that (among other things that revolutionize the patriarchal idea of the sexuality of women):

- Women are highly visual. Not for nothing every time there is a decision regarding aesthetics they are always called to chip in. What do you think, that they are strong on color matching but then they like ugly men just because ugly men like to think they can rule the world? Do you know writer Dorothy Parker? She was much smarter than you and I combined. And she used to say her destiny was to marry "handsome, useless men".
They like handsome men just as we like beautiful women. You won't fool any girl by pretending you are cool although you are 5'3" (unless you are Michel Petrucciani, but you see, he was one in 300 millions);

- Women are not the stronghold of monogamy, they just get bored of the boring husband and cheat as the husband gets bored of the boring wife. And rightfully so.

The sooner we understand women are not idiots we can talk into jumping in our beds, the better.

You don't have to believe what I say go and try it for yourself then you will see they respond emotionally they go for the most dominant male why do you think they go for the guy that usually treats them bad as to say the nice guy even though he can be really good looking who she blows off really quickly he is acting weak she can have her way with him their is no challenge the reason she cheats is usually because the guy she cheats with is acting more of a dominant male women are physically spiritually emotionally designed to receive masculine presence thats us men it's just getting through the numbers some are attracted to you some are not why do you think they go for successful men he is driven he has a purpose no matter what he looks like and no matter what she can't have her way with him he is showing strength he is on a mission which the feminine heart is just dying to meet you can put all the science in you like but the truth of the matter is we are apart of this earth so we are apart of nature we can't go against nature we can try but it usually has disaster written all over it.

 

[CopeForLife]

The guy who runs my gym is 50 years old, 5'7, NW6 who is a 40lbs overweight and is dating a 7 out of 10 woman who is 34!

He literally inspires.

He is alpha as f*** though - he's a boxing coach - and he's one of those people who are super out going and will take the piss out of people in a none cruel way.

I also have a few bald friends with decent looking girls (6s and 7s).

So if you cant get an average looking girl its something wrong with you as a person rather than how you look (because you are clearly decent looking).

what if u introverted engineer? how this can be inspiring? change profession to positive clown with charisma?

 

[blackg]

Mark my f*****g words: You think you're fucked now? Any man who willingly goes bald or can't afford to treat it in the coming years will be worse off than that, especially with women.

Blackg approved.

 

[blackg]

Charles Manson must be a really nice person in order to be able to get such a cute girlfriend. You just have to be yourself.

That's his daughter.

 

[Calchas]

Hair doesn't make much difference, you say? Then why are you on this forum?!

I'm here for the same reasons that everyone else is on any stupid site wasting their time and engaging in pointless activities.

 

[tellersquill]

what if u introverted engineer? how this can be inspiring? change profession to positive clown with charisma?

If you are introverted and lack confidence then its game over unless you are willing to work on those core issues.

I'm just talking about women there but In life.

Some people are negative energy and cannot get along with random people. Then you get the opposite - those people who light up a room, full of life, people are drawn to them and want to be near them.

I advise to be the latter - and again, not just for sex, but to have more fun, more friends, and more experiences.

 

[Roberto_72]

You don't have to believe what I say go and try it for yourself then you will see they respond emotionally they go for the most dominant male why do you think they go for the guy that usually treats them bad as to say the nice guy even though he can be really good looking who she blows off really quickly he is acting weak she can have her way with him their is no challenge the reason she cheats is usually because the guy she cheats with is acting more of a dominant male women are physically spiritually emotionally designed to receive masculine presence thats us men it's just getting through the numbers some are attracted to you some are not why do you think they go for successful men he is driven he has a purpose no matter what he looks like and no matter what she can't have her way with him he is showing strength he is on a mission which the feminine heart is just dying to meet you can put all the science in you like but the truth of the matter is we are apart of this earth so we are apart of nature we can't go against nature we can try but it usually has disaster written all over it.

The problem is that all modern sexologists report that the idea of the woman as the "angel of the house" or as the "receptive gender" is BS and it is exactly their nature that classical culture goes against.

 

[blackg]

I'm here for the same reasons that everyone else is on any stupid site wasting their time and engaging in pointless activities.

Well, that's your loss.

 

[Roberto_72]

If you're an introvert, you'll never be the person who 'lights up a room'. Never going to happen.

I've tried before and it caused me a lot of pain and frustration. In the end, you can only be yourself, and that's fine.

Lol if you think you can reinvent yourself, how many introvert to extrovert transformations have you seen?

I've never seen any, and when they try, it's always cringy and it doesn't feel natural.

When I was 15 my best friend was an introvert. Very very shy. But he had long hair and eyelashes.
Do you think girls cared? No, they left their numbers in his satchel so he needn't speak.

 

[tellersquill]

If you're an introvert, you'll never be the person who 'lights up a room'. Never going to happen.

I've tried before and it caused me a lot of pain and frustration. In the end, you can only be yourself, and that's fine.

Lol if you think you can reinvent yourself, how many introvert to extrovert transformations have you seen?

I've never seen any, and when they try, it's always cringy and it doesn't feel natural.

I can do it when I want.

I'm a natural introvert and only socialise a few times a week. But this isn't to do with a lack of confidence - its because I prefer a lot of time alone so I can read.

When I travel and stay in hostels I can often 'switch it on' and be outgoing for the day and make sure I meet a ton of people. I've had the best times of my life bringing random people together and taking them on crazy nights out.

Its easy to have a limited mind set - 'I will never change - I will always be a loser' but this isn't true. Nobody has to be an introverted loser.

Social skills is just that - a skill.

The more we practice a skill the better we get.

 

[resu]

That's his daughter.

It's not see here: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-11-18/mass-murderer-charles-manson-to-marry-in-prison/5900826

 

[whatevr]

Charles Manson must be a really nice person in order to be able to get such a cute girlfriend. You just have to be yourself.

I think she looks scarier than him.

 

[CopeForLife]

I can do it when I want.

I'm a natural introvert and only socialise a few times a week. But this isn't to do with a lack of confidence - its because I prefer a lot of time alone so I can read.

When I travel and stay in hostels I can often 'switch it on' and be outgoing for the day and make sure I meet a ton of people. I've had the best times of my life bringing random people together and taking them on crazy nights out.

Its easy to have a limited mind set - 'I will never change - I will always be a loser' but this isn't true. Nobody has to be an introverted loser.

Social skills is just that - a skill.

The more we practice a skill the better we get.

you aren't introverted

you were a failed neurotypical extravert before but no way you are "introvert"

> switch it on
> bringing random people together
> taking them on crazy nights out.

pls...

If you are introverted and lack confidence then its game over unless you are willing to work on those core issues.

I'm just talking about women there but In life.

Some people are negative energy and cannot get along with random people. Then you get the opposite - those people who light up a room, full of life, people are drawn to them and want to be near them.

I advise to be the latter - and again, not just for sex, but to have more fun, more friends, and more experiences.

nice to divide people on introverted lack of confidence with negative energy and opposite – who light up a room, full of life

If you're an introvert, you'll never be the person who 'lights up a room'. Never going to happen.

I've tried before and it caused me a lot of pain and frustration. In the end, you can only be yourself, and that's fine.

Lol if you think you can reinvent yourself, how many introvert to extrovert transformations have you seen?

I've never seen any, and when they try, it's always cringy and it doesn't feel natural.

can't say more exact

 

[tellersquill]

I've had moments like these too, but I felt extremely exhausted afterwards, sometimes even on the brink of burning out.

As I've said, it's just not natural, and you'll always revert back to your normal self.

I've made friends in that fake state but they never stuck around very long. At a point, they could see I was a fraud.

There's no long-term reward in trying to be someone you're not.

Its not being someone you are not - it is a part of you because you did it.

Let me tell you - extroverts who you see around also aren't like that all the time. They chill, watch films, sleep etc.

Plus, I don't think you need to be extroverted all the time. But at least once a week you should go out and have a blast and make new friends etc.


Back to the original OP: There is too much qualitative evidence which shows that average looking bald men can get average to decent looking women. I see it in the pub, the gym, and the street. There will be no sayers, people who want to believe its game over for a bald man, but they only champion that attitude as a cope - because: if they blame all their issues on baldness then they never have to take responsibility for their own shortcomings in other areas of life. Their baldness allows them to make excuses.

 

[CopeForLife]

Its not being someone you are not - it is a part of you because you did it.

Let me tell you - extroverts who you see around also aren't like that all the time. They chill, watch films, sleep etc.

Plus, I don't think you need to be extroverted all the time. But at least once a week you should go out and have a blast and make new friends etc.


Back to the original OP: There is too much qualitative evidence which shows that average looking bald men can get average to decent looking women. I see it in the pub, the gym, and the street. There will be no sayers, people who want to believe its game over for a bald man, but they only champion that attitude as a cope - because: if they blame all their issues on baldness then they never have to take responsibility for their own shortcomings in other areas of life. Their baldness allows them to make excuses.

One cannot be farther from the truth than NT speaking about genuine introverts.

Or good looking guy with low Norwood postulating this:

> Their baldness allows them to make excuses.

 

[tellersquill]

None of this escapes the fact that there are tons of bald men with decent looking partners.

Out of the 4 bald people I know - 3 of them have decent partners.

To have this failure attitude when these guys are so young is so sad. I know a lot of you aren't acutally bald - but to the bald amongst you - you guys can still get women. It may be a little harder, and yes it would be nice if it wasn't, but it doesn't mean it is game over.

 

[EvilLocks]

I'm here for the same reasons that everyone else is on any stupid site wasting their time and engaging in pointless activities.

Well, you're wrong. Most of us are here to talk with people going through the same thing, and to keep updated on new hair loss reseach because WE WANT OUR HAIR BACK, and it matters. Maybe not to you, but it matters to the rest of us. May I ask what's your Norwood?

 

[SmoothSailing]

I am only ever extroverted when I take MDMA. Completely changes me as a person.

I think people often mistake introversion for being socially inept, probably because they often come hand in hand.

I'll always be introverted but I have improved a lot socially since I left school.

@tellersquill

Average looking bald guys can do alright, meaning guys that are average looking after they have balded.

For a lot of people who were below average, average or even above average they will drop to way below average if they bald young.

For other's it's not the case. My cousin, 6'4, bodybuilder, good looking, and completely shaved since 18, he has a 9/10 wife (no joke) and has never had problems with women.

This doesn't help my situation though. And not a single guy my age I know who is NW3 or worse has a girlfriend, or isn't an incel.