Last Time A Woman Flirted With You, ???

g.i joey

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It'd make me feel worse, especially exposing my baldness and deformity in front of good-looking, buff people to be laughed at. I alredy get humiliated enough everyday, thank you. Especially considering I'd waste time and money to see no results and be humiliated even more. "Good for my mood", sure.

wear a hat, a lot of people do in the gym and I'd bet it's for the exact same reason you wear one too. Believe me no one will mock you in a gym, that's low af and anyone who's in there trying to make a change doesn't deserve to be mocked and almost can guarantee you will not. Where do you come up with the assumptions that you'll see no results, and what does that have to do with you being humiliated, noones tracking your progress besides you.

I'm telling you man, lifting is good for the brain, just give it a try for 2 weeks man, what do you have to lose? Seriously, you don't even have to do workouts that focus on your shoulder muscle. Leg workouts are the most efficient workouts to get your testosterone pumping, give it 2 weeks I promise you'll notice a change of your general mood if you stay consistent.
 

shookwun

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It'd make me feel worse, especially exposing my baldness and deformity in front of good-looking, buff people to be laughed at. I alredy get humiliated enough everyday, thank you. Especially considering I'd waste time and money to see no results and be humiliated even more. "Good for my mood", sure.
Tfw learning how to hold all these feels
I'm no hat prisoner and have no intention to become one. It'd make me look even more self-conscious and ridiculous, they'd mock me even more. What I have to lose? What's left of my dignity and peace of mind.
Really need to seek psychiatric help.


Fears of people judging you every where you go. Constantly mentioning how people are mocking and humiliating you. A comorbid sign of low self esteem, BDD which could very well stem from early child experiences.


When you speak with people you tend to race over your features whenever you are around others. Believing they are focussing, and pointing out your flaws. Perception is skewed, and it will only get worse from here on out.





Sick disease. Seek help, and some form of cognitive behavioral therapy. In conjunction with plastic surgery.
 

g.i joey

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I'm no hat prisoner and have no intention to become one. It'd make me look even more self-conscious and ridiculous, they'd mock me even more. What I have to lose? What's left of my dignity and peace of mind.

You have 0 intention of getting out of your comfortable depressive state you're in, you gotta get out and do something different if you wanna see a change in your life man.

You're basically saying you wouldn't wanna POTENTIALLY get mocked at the risk of working out, but you're completely fine dealing with the verbal abuse in your day to day life which you express very clearly on here, doesn't add up to me. You wouldn't be a hat prisoner for wearing a hat 45 minutes out of the day, and weren't you so excited to find a job where you can wear a hat? Lol, your excuses just don't add up, the only thing you're a prisoner too is the boundaries your depressive attitude constricts you in.
 

shookwun

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You have 0 intention of getting out of your comfortable depressive state you're in, you gotta get out and do something different if you wanna see a change in your life man.

You're basically saying you wouldn't wanna POTENTIALLY get mocked at the risk of working out, but you're completely fine dealing with the verbal abuse in your day to day life which you express very clearly on here, doesn't add up to me. You wouldn't be a hat prisoner for wearing a hat 45 minutes out of the day, and weren't you so excited to find a job where you can wear a hat? Lol, your excuses just don't add up, the only thing you're a prisoner too is the boundaries your depressive attitude constricts you in.
He's nuts. Classic sign of someone suffering severe bdd and anxiety over there facial features.


I would suggest a mirror fastening.
 

g.i joey

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He's nuts. Classic sign of someone suffering severe bdd and anxiety over there facial features.


I would suggest a mirror fastening.

I think it stems deeper than bdd and anxiety, I think he's legitimately depressed, I honestly don't blame him if the stories he tells are true.

I also don't think he is a lost cause, I've seen tiny 150 pound men go from skinny and frail, to ripped and swole as f***, more than once as well. But it's not even about getting jacked, he will notice mental aspect benefits way sooner than any physical results if he'd just give it a fair shot.

I just think Dante has dealt with so much sh*t in his life that he feels he can't relate to any of us due to a priveledge we've had over him, so that makes our advice kind of void to him.
 

shookwun

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Having a bipolar, an unstable guy completely enslaved by his emotions and irrational thoughts, telling me to seek psychiatric help is almost funny. Almost.
You really are unstable, composing all these imaginary situations, and beliefs of others. Irrational fears and jealousy among others that are reaching out, to the point where I have sympathy


I have forgiven you for your wrong doings and only ask among the same to others who you have hurt and pushed away.


Do you not see what the issue at hand is? Seek a second opinion for our relations are out of context.
 

shookwun

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I think it stems deeper than bdd and anxiety, I think he's legitimately depressed, I honestly don't blame him if the stories he tells are true.

I also don't think he is a lost cause, I've seen tiny 150 pound men go from skinny and frail, to ripped and swole as f***, more than once as well. But it's not even about getting jacked, he will notice mental aspect benefits way sooner than any physical results if he'd just give it a fair shot.

I just think Dante has dealt with so much sh*t in his life that he feels he can't relate to any of us due to a priveledge we've had over him, so that makes our advice kind of void to him.
150 lb? Privledge.


I was borderline aushwit before I started lifting. Had no muscle and looked borderline sick. Eating 1 meal a day weighing 125 lb at 5'9


Only met a few people in my life who had similar structure at weight at similar height.


Most skinny dudes at 5'9 are at least 140s
 

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Girl I know from US just made a tinder acc with bad pictures of her. She got 13 matches in 1 hour. It's ogre

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A child hiding behind the anomity and privacy of his own screen swiping women in hopes of being relevant. Same boy who would avoid eye contact but message her over the internet .


Maybe you should learn how to talk to a women in person like any healthy minded person does.

We have seen your pictures in which you look perfectly normal. Cannot handle the truth that your fragile ego, socially inept brain and life style is the result of you being a defined loser.


It will only get worse as time goes on, hiding behind a glass screen in the very same glass house you live within.


News flash: learn to talk to women.
 

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A child hiding behind the anomity and privacy of his own screen swiping women in hopes of being relevant. Same boy who would avoid eye contact but message her over the internet .


Maybe you should learn how to talk to a women in person like any healthy minded person does.

We have seen your pictures in which you look perfectly normal. Cannot handle the truth that your fragile ego, socially inept brain and life style is the result of you being a defined loser.


Are you not tired of being a reject. It will only get worse as time goes on, hiding behind a glass screen in the very same glass house you live within.


News flash: learn to talk to women.
Who said Im a loser fagget.


My problem is mental.
 

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Seek help, and some form of cognitive behavioral therapy. In conjunction with plastic surgery.

Seek help for BDD, at the same time get plastic surgery.
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I also have 0 chance to do it. There's no point in trying considering the pitiful state I'm into. Easy to make big talk without being a Norwood 4 ugly virgin.

"Potentially"? I've been mocked for my appearance at my workplace while wearing nice suits, in a gym they'd tear me apart.
Workout at home its so nice to be alone with yourself with no one to push you. Just you and yourself.
 

g.i joey

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150 lb? Privledge.


I was borderline aushwit before I started lifting. Had no muscle and looked borderline sick. Eating 1 meal a day weighing 125 lb at 5'9


Only met a few people in my life who had similar structure at weight at similar height.


Most skinny dudes at 5'9 are at least 140s

Were you able to get a lot bigger when you were natty af? Cause that's what I was referring to lol.
 

g.i joey

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I also have 0 chance to do it. There's no point in trying considering the pitiful state I'm into. Easy to make big talk without being a Norwood 4 ugly virgin.

"Potentially"? I've been mocked for my appearance at my workplace while wearing nice suits, in a gym they'd tear me apart.

Dude, I was a 300 pound acne filled 14 year old, I also gave 0 fucks and dated the hottest girl of my life when I was 15 and 300 pounds as well. Crazy part is I only became self conscious about my looks as I lost weight and started looking somewhat presentable. There's a huge mental aspect to how people perceive you, BELIEVE ME!!! I'm not some random stud who's had hair transplants and facial surgery telling you "just gym it brah, you'll get chicks asap" I've had my own struggles although not as severe in comparison to yours but you should really stop making excuses and just flat out say "I don't have the willpower to do it" that would make sense, a lot more
Than excuse after excuse will, you're too depressed to try something new and that's the truth
 

g.i joey

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They told me you're slightly above average looking, what a surprise. All those who gave me crappy advice and the "excuse talk" are good-looking and have more hair than me, what a surprise.

Of course I'm too depressed to try, but also too ugly, too bald and too frail and too short as well. Motivation or not I'd be fucked, unlike ungrateful people like you.

When did I ever express that I was ungrateful about anything? I'm offering you some advice, do what you want with it, but if you have any hope of being happy at some point in your life you will have to address your depression, and I don't mean in a medication type of way. I mean getting off your *** on your free time and making the changes you wanna see, and I mean this in a mental aspect once again. The most beneficial thing someone like you will receive from going to the gym is the enhanced moods you'll receive from it if you stay consistent.

Too bald, too frail and too short are perfect reasons why most men sign up to the gym ;)
 
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