Last Time A Woman Flirted With You, ???

[shookwun]

I know this is true, I've experienced it with women of completely different cultures, the only ones for who such things didn't matter were bordering on retard IQ (but oddly this type of woman can be more manipulative and calculating than anyone, probably something to do with the balance of survival instincts kicking in).

I've stuck with the same job for way longer than I initially wanted to, because I struck lucky that I got an opportunity in a well-paid job that offered promotions quickly for me to move up the ladder. The "free spirit" in me in my mid-20's would say to follow my heart, and leave this corporate shill bullshit behind, and in turn lower my value for dating.

My job is fine, I don't hate it, I haven't had time to fully embrace creative pursuits like writing or music, but it's given me more opportunities with women and financially than if I was busking on some street corner for hours a day, probably harder more repetitive work than sitting at a desk.

Sometimes you need to balance these things out and look at your overall happiness.

It matters A LOT.

I am noticing this now the older I get. Women dont want to waste there time being in a relationship with a boy, they want a man who has his act together. Someone they can see themselves being with. The whole package of him having his toys, own place and reliable transportation.


LOL at dudes who think one night stands under alchohol is anything more then well a one night stand or FWB for a couple weeks. Then realizes the guy she seeing is boring and predictable, with nothing of value going for himself.

 

[buckthorn]

Intelligent, artistic people don't need to be good looking. contribute your gifts to the world, suffer in silence, enjoy the beautiful world and maybe die alone with a loving dog. It's not a cope, it's reality. WTF are you supposed to do? get plastic surgery like Shook says?

REAL progress in your situation, REAL mental stability lies in becoming comfortable enough with yourself, on the inside, that you can ignore the mockery and not give a f*** about what people think. Being happy with all the good parts of you, aside from looks, so you are content, focusing on good, productive things and not carrying this MASSIVE weight on your shoulders.

That's what I am trying to work on at least.

f***, no... I mean, get cranial reconstructive surgery, jaw surgery, botox, hair transplants, start gymcelling like crazy, perhaps get all the bones in your wrists broken and stretched, hit the tanning booth, etc... it's not a slippery slope at all. nothing can go wrong.

 

[shookwun]

Transplant are merely a form a restoration with cosmetic benefits. its not vanity to seek normality.


As for my procedures, I do plan on having a little bit of cosmetic work done.


People invest into plastic surgery to make themselves feel better and get over themselves.

Why should I live behind obsessions and insecurities when I can fix them head on.

Aesthetics breeds confidence, confidence breeds success BRAH

 

[SmoothSailing]

see a lot of guys unable to hold conversation or escalate even though the girl is into them

they go home to their left hand

(cos who jerks off with their right hand amirite?)

shookwun approved

In a way it's a catch 22, they need sucess in order to suceed.

Always right, right is a sl*t.

 

[buckthorn]

Transplant are merely a form a restoration with cosmetic benefits. its not vanity to seek normality.


As for my procedures, I do plan on having a little bit of cosmetic work done.


People invest into plastic surgery to make themselves feel better and get over themselves.

Why should I live behind obsessions and insecurities when I can fix them head on.

Aesthetics breeds confidence, confidence breeds success BRAH

Understandable. I probably would too, if I wasn't so mentally fucked from having a bad hair transplant. but... you've heard Dante's situation. It's drastically different than your own.

 

[Dench57]

Transplant are merely a form a restoration with cosmetic benefits. its not vanity to seek normality.


As for my procedures, I do plan on having a little bit of cosmetic work done.


People invest into plastic surgery to make themselves feel better and get over themselves.

Why should I live behind obsessions and insecurities when I can fix them head on.

Aesthetics breeds confidence, confidence breeds success BRAH

inb4 real-life Ken Doll

do you think you will stop with cosmetic surgery after the jaw stuff? will you ever be at peace with your aesthetics?

 

[buckthorn]

inb4 real-life Ken Doll

do you think you will stop with cosmetic surgery after the jaw stuff? will you ever be at peace with your aesthetics?

holy f*** if i looked over and saw this guy in the car next to me I would have a f*****g heart attack!! WHY?!?!

 

[shookwun]

Understandable. I probably would too, if I wasn't so mentally fucked from having a bad hair transplant. but... you've heard Dante's situation. It's drastically different than your own.

inb4 real-life Ken Doll

do you think you will stop with cosmetic surgery after the jaw stuff? will you ever be at peace with your aesthetics?

Nobody knows what he looks like.

Do you think I wanted to spend 24,000 CAD on hair transplants

An additional 9,000 on plastic surgery

LOL. I do this because I want to get over myself and live my life according to how I should be. Carefree, and peachy.



It's a permanent solution and a small price to pay in terms of feeling good about myself.


I dont have chemical imbalances. These stupid doctors put me on anti depressants and anxiety medications. I threw that sh*t out after 2 months, and went through a spiral of side effects. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME OUTSIDE OF MY anxiety over my appearance.


Drugs do not fix anything. Drugs dont teach you skills.

I see so many poor cats taking cocktails of drugs on these forums like sheep from there doctor. @WhitePolarBear went through this bullshit. there is nothing wrong with him. Once he got hair, and any other means of restoration, a bit of cognitive behavioral therapy and putting himself out there again changed his entire life. Was it easy? no. Was he trembling and scared at first, most likely. He is now an ambassador of seduction, and is a polarizing image within the bald community.

 

[buckthorn]

Nobody knows what he looks like.

Do you think I wanted to spend 24,000 CAD on hair transplants

An additional 9,000 on plastic surgery

LOL. I do this because I want to get over myself and live my life according to how I should be. Carefree, and peachy.



It's a permanent solution and a small price to pay in terms of feeling good about myself.


I dont have chemical imbalances. These stupid doctors put me on anti depressants and anxiety medications. I threw that sh*t out after 2 months, and went through a spiral of side effects. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME OUTSIDE OF MY anxiety over my appearance.


Drugs do not fix anything. Drugs dont teach you skills.

I see so many poor cats taking cocktails of drugs on these forums like sheep from there doctor. @WhitePolarBear went through this bullshit. there is nothing wrong with him. Once he got hair, and any other means of restoration, a bit of cognitive behavioral therapy and putting himself out there again changed his entire life. Was it easy? no. Was he trembling and scared at first, most likely. He is not an ambassador of the art of seduction, and is a polarizing image within the bald community.

f*** man, I am the same way. I legit believe there is NOTHING wrong with me aside from my anxiety over my physical appearance. I am successful, talented, educated, charming, etc... (not to sound like an ego maniac), but at least I believe this to be true.

really need to man up and beat this hair situation and lose these 30lbs....

 

[sunchyme1]

inb4 real-life Ken Doll

do you think you will stop with cosmetic surgery after the jaw stuff? will you ever be at peace with your aesthetics?

lol i f*****g knew who this guy would be before i clicked the link

what a f*****g idiot

 

[shookwun]

f*** man, I am the same way. I legit believe there is NOTHING wrong with me aside from my anxiety over my physical appearance. I am successful, talented, educated, charming, etc... (not to sound like an ego maniac), but at least I believe this to be true.

really need to man up and beat this hair situation and lose these 30lbs....

there is nothing wrong with you. Don't believe these doctors who try to diagnose you with what ever is up there sleeve at the time of your assessment.

 

[Dench57]

Nobody knows what he looks like.

Do you think I wanted to spend 24,000 CAD on hair transplants

An additional 9,000 on plastic surgery

LOL. I do this because I want to get over myself and live my life according to how I should be. Carefree, and peachy.



It's a permanent solution and a small price to pay in terms of feeling good about myself.


I dont have chemical imbalances. These stupid doctors put me on anti depressants and anxiety medications. I threw that sh*t out after 2 months, and went through a spiral of side effects. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME OUTSIDE OF MY anxiety over my appearance.


Drugs do not fix anything. Drugs dont teach you skills.

I see so many poor cats taking cocktails of drugs on these forums like sheep from there doctor. @WhitePolarBear went through this bullshit. there is nothing wrong with him. Once he got hair, and any other means of restoration, a bit of cognitive behavioral therapy and putting himself out there again changed his entire life. Was it easy? no. Was he trembling and scared at first, most likely. He is now an ambassador of seduction, and is a polarizing image within the bald community.

yeah, i think hair transplants/jaw surgery is legit. pragmatic action to fix the problem (self-image) rather than mental cope, anti-depressants and counselling. just wondering if you have BDD and will always be chasing further cosmetic improvement, never being truly happy with your appearance. for me its just the hair thing. always has been and always will be.

 

[shookwun]

yeah, i think hair transplants/jaw surgery is legit. pragmatic action to fix the problem (self-image) rather than mental cope, anti-depressants and counselling. just wondering if you have BDD and will always be chasing further cosmetic improvement, never being truly happy with your appearance. for me its just the hair thing. always has been and always will be.

I have always been self conscious of my chin ever since I was a little kid. Which is why I am going to fix it for good.

 

[sunchyme1]

yeah, i think hair transplants/jaw surgery is legit. pragmatic action to fix the problem (self-image) rather than mental cope, anti-depressants and counselling. just wondering if you have BDD and will always be chasing further cosmetic improvement, never being truly happy with your appearance. for me its just the hair thing. always has been and always will be.

are you a handsome bastard dench?

 

[Rudiger]

It matters A LOT.

I am noticing this now the older I get. Women dont want to waste there time being in a relationship with a boy, they want a man who has his act together. Someone they can see themselves being with. The whole package of him having his toys, own place and reliable transportation.


LOL at dudes who think one night stands under alchohol is anything more then well a one night stand or FWB for a couple weeks. Then realizes the guy she seeing is boring and predictable, with nothing of value going for himself.

A few things tie into this:

-social media; it's no longer cool to be off your face on alcohol or drugs, as you'll be ridiculed on snapchat etc.
-global recession; a decade ago kids saw their parents or friends parents struggle with job security and even home security.
-superficial society; appearance is more important than ever, even in my country of Ireland where the drinking culture was ridiculous a decade ago, youths are abstaining more and more from excessive alcohol, in pursuit of longer term youthful appearance.

15 years ago, when I was 15, these things weren't relevant, being rebellious and out of control was cool. Now even getting drunk and in a fight means you're a loser with no ambitions or goals, over a decade ago this was "cool".

The rebel is no longer hot. What used to be a "punch up lol" is now assault that can affect the rest of your life, and represents someone who is mentally imbalanced and has no self-control. Getting busted for cocaine slinging is no longer hot, you are seen as having fucked up your life long term, for short term gains.

I like that you again included something as simple as transportation as well, because this may seem like a minor footnote, but no "princess" wants to take the subway all the time, or sit in traffic in an uncomfortable shitty vehicle. Regardless of how attractive she may find you. This "minor" detail represents a lot, all people, women as well, want a comfortable life where they can enjoy simple things without hassle. That includes a day trip without worrying about cost, and of course later in life, in represents having a home you can keep, and children you can keep relatively happy and well within your budget, in case the unpredictability of life gets you.

I realised this around age 22 or so, and it hit me like a train when I was still f*****g attractive girls but realised plenty of them had no intention of taking our one night stand any further. Apart from looks and being able to flirt and talk my way into bed, I had nothing outside of that going for me, and while it might have felt at certain moments a girl could seem really into me, girls then get over the hangover and look for security with someone who actually has his life together.

 

[sunchyme1]

I have always been self conscious of my chin ever since I was a little kid. Which is why I am going to fix it for good.

with there being a decent chance i may have to rock the balding buzz cut for quite a while, i am interested in this too

just to give me a more masculine appearance to compensate for my baldness

id be fascinated to see how this turns out for you

 

[Dench57]

I have always been self conscious of my chin ever since I was a little kid. Which is why I am going to fix it for good.

chin/jaw is really important. i know a guy on a private forum who is doing his own improvement with the LeFort appliances. he has documented it in pictures over 1-2 years. crazy difference going from beta weak chin to Terminator Mk.2 jaw pedigree

 

[Dench57]

are you a handsome bastard dench?

decent face/height but unfortunately my aesthetics are dependent on hair. don't have the masculine proportions to pull it off. if i try to unleash the bald beast i will look like an angry leukemia patient

 

[shookwun]

chin/jaw is really important. i know a guy on a private forum who is doing his own improvement with the LeFort appliances. he has documented it in pictures over 1-2 years. crazy difference going from beta weak chin to Terminator Mk.2 jaw pedigree

Le fort and jaw advancement is only for people with recessed mandibles and maxilla. it doesnt provide width, which is what most people want. People with messed up bite occlusions typically have to go this route with orthodontics - braces.



I am planning on having a extended anatomical chin implant. Structural fat grafting along the mandible - gonial angle.

Also having submental plasty to tighten jaw-neck line.

 

[sunchyme1]

Le fort and jaw advancement is only for people with recessed mandibles and maxilla. it doesnt provide width, which is what most people want. People with messed up bite occlusions typically have to go this route with orthodontics - braces.



I am planning on having a extended anatomical chin implant. Structural fat grafting along the mandible - gonial angle.

Also having submental plasty to tighten jaw-neck line.

is this sh*t risky?