Losing When You Are Already Bald = Hell

[EvilLocks]

You haven't lost though in life, you're still young. Write down all the negative issues you're dealing with and identify what is correctable. Hair is to an extent. Work on the social anxiety. Work on the career. And you're not ugly. You'll find that you can improve in all areas. Career, girls, friends and appearance. Work on accepting the best version of yourself, more than anyone can achieve, it's credible and a victory! I think you are exceptionally hard on yourself and then you end up feeling frustrated and subsequently get angry. Yes the baldness is difficult at a young age but it's not game over.

Great advice. You're always the voice of reason here, Wolf Pack.

 

[buckthorn]

You haven't lost though in life, you're still young. Write down all the negative issues you're dealing with and identify what is correctable. Hair is to an extent. Work on the social anxiety. Work on the career. And you're not ugly. You'll find that you can improve in all areas. Career, girls, friends and appearance. Work on accepting the best version of yourself, more than anyone can achieve, it's credible and a victory! I think you are exceptionally hard on yourself and then you end up feeling frustrated and subsequently get angry. Yes the baldness is difficult at a young age but it's not game over.

Yeah, nice man. Very well put. I hope you find some relief soon OP. I am in a similar boat. Frustration, confusion and uncertainty are killers. It's ok to get sad, or angry... just not apathetic. That truly is a disease hard to cure.

 

[CopeForLife]

You haven't lost though in life, you're still young. Write down all the negative issues you're dealing with and identify what is correctable. Hair is to an extent. Work on the social anxiety. Work on the career. And you're not ugly. You'll find that you can improve in all areas. Career, girls, friends and appearance. Work on accepting the best version of yourself, more than anyone can achieve, it's credible and a victory! I think you are exceptionally hard on yourself and then you end up feeling frustrated and subsequently get angry. Yes the baldness is difficult at a young age but it's not game over.

Pls...

I always cringe when people online tell this without seeing person IRL.

Considering we are on hairlosstalk.com he is not deluded with his appearance and if he tells he is ugly — he is.

 

[buckthorn]

Pls...

I always cringe when people online tell this without seeing person IRL.

Considering we are on hairlosstalk.com he is not deluded with his appearance and if he tells he is ugly — he is.

It's interesting these extremes.

No, he should not shave bald and act like vin diesel and love it with pure confidence... blah blah BUT

Wolfpack is right - no, he should not let this destroy him and live a life of constant self doubt and hatred.

Why do things have to be so polarized?

 

[buckthorn]

lol f*** i honestly havent raged about baldness in a while but i guess its still there in the back of my head

on a related note god i hope matrix level VR comes out in our lifetimes

many if not most competitions are zero sum so someone will always be the loser . if we get VR everyone can be the best. and ofc that wud fix baldness too so i definitely support VR research as an alternative to baldness research

you know what video games I've always loved? Zelda. The question is - WHY have they not made Zelda into a bad *** movie? Please explain.

 

[CopeForLife]

It's interesting these extremes.

No, he should not shave bald and act like vin diesel and love it with pure confidence... blah blah BUT

Wolfpack is right - no, he should not let this destroy him and live a life of constant self doubt and hatred.

Why do things have to be so polarized?

Wolf postulates Exo is not ugly but as I recall Exo is short bald asian.

Have u ever seen not ugly short bald asian? I haven't.

Just wanted to show retardness of this phrase but I am not against idea of what Wolf said.

 

[CopeForLife]

And guess what? I've seen enough of his face on here. I don't make comments unless I know the facts. He is not ugly.

Can't believe short bald asian can be not ugly but nevertheless I trust you since u are aware of his face.

 

[blackg]

And guess what? I've seen enough of his face on here. I don't make comments unless I know the facts. He is not ugly.

Fair enough. I will trust your judgement.

 

[N003]

The look in his eyes when showing his results is priceless. Hair is priceless.

True he looks now happy BUT the difference is:

This guy take his life in his own hands no 10000 threads about how sh*t the life is, how bad the own genetics are and how evil all women over the world are.

The Lord in the video made a hair transplant which takes one day with Megasession.He fix his problem with a solution which is available.
One Day a bigger operation you you can go back to life

The most guys here are spending 1000 of hours and talking like pussys how unfaire the life is, how bad and angry women are on the earth and that every women takes a norwood 0/ 1 guy who looks like Brad Pitt

Even with full hairs ,some guys here are having a really really big big problem with the
self-confidence and the personality

 

[EvilLocks]

you know what video games I've always loved? Zelda. The question is - WHY have they not made Zelda into a bad *** movie? Please explain.

Damn, I used to love playing Zelda as well. It's the only game I've loved playing besides Super Mario lol. I have finished all the Mario games several times each lol (yes I'm weird and yes I have issues).

 

[kj6723]

The look in his eyes when showing his results is priceless. Hair is priceless.

The look in his eyes when showing his results is priceless. Hair is priceless.

He has that "peace of mind" look in his eyes

 

[N003]

He has that "peace of mind" look in his eyes

Because he fix his hair problem.

 

[buckthorn]

Damn, I used to love playing Zelda as well. It's the only game I've loved playing besides Super Mario lol. I have finished all the Mario games several times each lol (yes I'm weird and yes I have issues).

Have you played Zelda for the N64? Best friggin game ever! I would enjoy playing video games, if they were all like zelda. Like, solving riddles and sh*t with like science b**ch!! YAHHH!!!!

(wasn't calling you a b**ch, that was Jesse speaking. He keeps stealing my computer and locking himself in my bathroom.)

 

[kj6723]

Have you played Zelda for the N64? Best friggin game ever! I would enjoy playing video games, if they were all like zelda. Like, solving riddles and sh*t with like science b**ch!! YAHHH!!!!

(wasn't calling you a b**ch, that was Jesse speaking. He keeps stealing my computer and locking himself in my bathroom.)

Ocarina of time lol. Super nostalgic. Great memories, and most importantly, it was a time without the concern of hairloss

 

[buckthorn]

Something that I lost long ago. God, I can't even remember what being happy or at peace actually means.

I hear you on this. I haven't known what "happiness" feels like in years. For myself, happiness was found in true passion for what I was doing. I used to teach anatomy and physiology when I was 24-26. I remember staying up all night making these killer powerpoints, going to the butcher and getting some organs (which was totally against school policy) and showing up to class with this feeling in my stomach of pure excited, exhilerating nervousness. It was the best nervousness I ever felt.

Now, my anxiety is dark and terrifying. I have trouble finding passion in things. It's like, I try and then five minutes into it, I think what's the f*cking point, the entire top of my head is disfigured.

I simply can't comprehend how any person could ever find peace in a situation like this. It's not really being overly vain, or having BDD...It's growing up in a society that places SO much emphasis on outward appearance, then having your outward appearance destroyed.

Getting that passion back, HELL getting 50% of that passion back is my ultimate life goal. It's the ultimate victory. To be able to pick up an instrument, a book, a pen and paper and be filled with thoughts that aren't about the top of my f*cking head. one day...

 

[CopeForLife]

I hear you on this. I haven't known what "happiness" feels like in years. For myself, happiness was found in true passion for what I was doing. I used to teach anatomy and physiology when I was 24-26. I remember staying up all night making these killer powerpoints, going to the butcher and getting some organs (which was totally against school policy) and showing up to class with this feeling in my stomach of pure excited, exhilerating nervousness. It was the best nervousness I ever felt.

Now, my anxiety is dark and terrifying. I have trouble finding passion in things. It's like, I try and then five minutes into it, I think what's the f*cking point, the entire top of my head is disfigured.

I simply can't comprehend how any person could ever find peace in a situation like this. It's not really being overly vain, or having BDD...It's growing up in a society that places SO much emphasis on outward appearance, then having your outward appearance destroyed.

Getting that passion back, HELL getting 50% of that passion back is my ultimate life goal. It's the ultimate victory. To be able to pick up an instrument, a book, a pen and paper and be filled with thoughts that aren't about the top of my f*cking head. one day...

Holy f*** it is so similar to me. I loved to programming before. IF ONLY I'd get half of passion I had before depression...

I like to do programming outside like in coffeeshop or something but whenever I came here with my Mac there are a lot of NW0 Chads and cute students doing their homework or just chatting and I retreat from this as soon as possible (and going to home). Creepy ugly baldcel drinking his coffee and sitting with laptop – CRINGE AF.

JUST f*****g LOL if you are sitting in caffe and THIS guy coming inside and sits opposite to you. GO TO 2:40:

This they call "shaved head"...

 

[shookwun]

 

[Runninghair]

That blonde dudes hair is suspect thinning

 

[CopeForLife]

That blonde dudes hair is suspect thinning

his father is baldcel NW8... but Lachowski father is NW8 as well so...

 

[CopeForLife]

guy on 0:45 has quite receded vertex

it is over for him with pool parties in a few years