Losing You Hair In Your 30's And Self Image

[Dench57]

Are you serious? Ectomorph is the worst for the following reasons:

-narrow clavicles

-small wrists

-no strenght because these above

- you can't possibly look big

Basically, you're stuck with a weak looking prepubescent teen physique, you can train for years but get no result. On top of that, imagine being bald and ugly. You need balls of steel to live a life as a half-deformed living corpse without feeling the urge to kill yourself.

Ectomorph is good. I had skinny/lanky physique of a boy, small wrists etc. Just lift some weights and eat some chicken brah. Small wrists are hard though, took me years of furious wanking to get them to an acceptable level, unfortunately my left is much bigger than my right now.

 

[resu]

For an italian guy you are BIG

I was in italy saw much smaller guys. Normaly italian guys are less than average men in europe

It means nothing since there are taller guys and short guys get discriminated more than you imagine. You have to understand how South of Europe is, the macho culture is very prevalent in Latin countries.

 

[N003]

It means nothing since there are taller guys and short guys get discriminated more than you imagine. You have to understand how South of Europe is, the macho culture is very prevalent in Latin countries.

Macho Culture?? I don't see there machos just full of Beta guys. Typical in italy or spain.
The women there are strong, much stronger then guys!!

 

[resu]

Macho Culture?? I don't see there machos just full of Beta guys. Typical in italy or spain.
The women there are strong, much stronger then guys!!

To them it's what they think that matters not what others think they are, that's why tallness matters so much because they can use it to boost themselves.

 

[Runninghair]

The 20 somethings can be down about not scoring women during hair loss and saying 30+ have it easy...but.. What about guys in their 30s who have settled and have to stress about what their wives or partners will think of their new look. Yea maybe she wont leave but still would suck to know you dont turb your wife on anymore.

Going bald in young twenties would be horrible yes but i hear alot of guys here saying that their jealous of older ones that 'got their run with women' cus they had good hair then. Come on guys... Noone sits and remembers past conquests. How many or hot they were. I certainly Dont.

 

[GoldenMane]

The 20 somethings can be down about not scoring women during hair loss and saying 30+ have it easy...but.. What about guys in their 30s who have settled and have to stress about what their wives or partners will think of their new look. Yea maybe she wont leave but still would suck to know you dont turb your wife on anymore.

Going bald in young twenties would be horrible yes but i hear alot of guys here saying that their jealous of older ones that 'got their run with women' cus they had good hair then. Come on guys... Noone sits and remembers past conquests. How many or hot they were. I certainly Dont.

That is literally nothing. It's not even remotely comparable. Better to finish college, date, start your career, get experience, marry and have kids, then become unattractive and old looking, than become old and unattractive looking and have to do all that a severe disadvantage and with plummeting self confidence and loss of identity before you even truly cement yourself.

If the worst thing you have to worry about is your wife finding you less physically attractive, then you're very f*****g lucky. Most guys find their girlfriends and wives increasingly less attractive in their 40s anyway.

 

[Runninghair]

I agree goldenmane im just saying there will be some 30yr old guys it would destroy too. Whether their single married or whatever.

 

[GoldenMane]

I agree goldenmane im just saying there will be some 30yr old guys it would destroy too. Whether their single married or whatever.

It's devestating at any time. But the destruction it will to to a 20 year old's life is 10 times worse. If I was visibly balding at 20, I probably would have killed myself. At the very least, my life would be worse now. Having made it to my mid 20s before visibly looking balding was a small mercy... Having made it to 30, 35 or 40 would be s greater mercy. The earlier years are the most important. 20s > 30s > 40s and then half your life is over and you're finished dating.

 

[N003]

It's devestating at any time. But the destruction it will to to a 20 year old's life is 10 times worse. If I was visibly balding at 20, I probably would have killed myself. At the very least, my life would be worse now. Having made it to my mid 20s before visibly looking balding was a small mercy... Having made it to 30, 35 or 40 would be s greater mercy. The earlier years are the most important. 20s > 30s > 40s and then half your life is over and you're finished dating.

What a stupid statement!
My 20's was just bullshit point! Ugly theeth like a monster a f*****g bad body and 1000x more. But i change my life. New theeth new body and the most importent thing a new brain and personality

But im not a f*****g pussy and take my life in my hand.

So many stuppid comments here so many pussys.

Even with full hairs nobody of you all can f*** a girl because you are a pussy point.

The worst thing for people = Pussy

And dante92 you are really just boring like a f*****g big pussy. Life is so unfair....Life is sh*t blablablabla..

Your "balding" situation is much much more better then the situation of many other guys...

f*****g good vertex and hair loss on the front.I have big hair loss on my vertex since im 25 years old but not a f*****g pussy like you. Get a f*****g hair transplant and take your medication and stop talking about suizide and how f*****g worse the life is....

 

[kj6723]

Nope. I'm of average height (175 cm), which is a disadvantage when you're balding, since you'll look shorter than you really are. I'm extremely skinny, too (ectomorph physique, the crappiest possible, with small wrists and narrow shoulders).

You're always mentioning this little wrists you have.

Can we get a measurement so we know what we're working with?

 

[shookwun]

Are you serious? Ectomorph is the worst for the following reasons:

-narrow clavicles

-small wrists

-no strenght because these above

- you can't possibly look big

Basically, you're stuck with a weak looking prepubescent teen physique, you can train for years but get no result. On top of that, imagine being bald and ugly. You need balls of steel to live a life as a half-deformed living corpse without feeling the urge to kill yourself.

Bla bla

More cope. Your whole life is a cope. Always a reason and excuse. Very sad


I had narrow shoulders and wrists when I first started at around 120ish lb at 5'is. Six years later at 190ish lb I am bigger then almost everyone I come in contact with. Even guys with bigger wrists look smaller and more narrow then me. Problem is yor a skinny b**ch not that your bone joints are small. Once you put on a significant amount of mass you won't even notice a difference. My bone breadth was actually pretty average but due to my skinny shoulders I looked tiny. Once I built them up I realised how wide I actually am. Standing next to other guys in the gym who look like they have good bone size? Making them look like twinks


Smaller joints are a blessing once you put on size. I literally look like a cartoon character with 3d muscles at they attach to my small joints. Killer aesthetics. My taper is insane. Having a smaller head helps. Ive been come bed on how wide my shoulders are yet people would never believe where I came from.

Point is your a cope. Tired of reading your excuses. Go take a hold of your life and do something for a Change.

 

[CopeForLife]

gymcel above doesn't know that wrists do not have any muscles...

I was amogged even by asian girls in wrists department and can do nothing about it tell me more about how do you made your wrist bone wider plz, it worth a nobel prize

 

[shookwun]

gymcel above doesn't know that wrists do not have any muscles...

I was amogged even by asian girls in wrists department and can do nothing about it tell me more about how do you made your wrist bone wider plz, it worth a nobel prize

Idiot. Your wrists don't matter!
Problem is your a skinny b**ch and have no forearm size.

There is a very small area of the wrists that are just tendons and ligaments.

Lol at thinking your wrists dictate how aesthetic your fore arms look. Problem is you have beta muscularity ontop of small wrist breadth. In return look like a bald twink

 

[shookwun]

I suggest looking up an anotonomy chart for muscularity. Maybe then yu realise that the problem is you have no muscularity. The actual wrist itself is such a tiny area of bone, tendons and ligaments.

As mentioned no fore arm? And brachial development will make it look small.

 

[CopeForLife]

If you have clavices like this you shouldn't touch weight even in your life – the only hope is to look as young as possible (with hair only), invest in face (cute), money and status

proof photo of your body before and after?

guys blessed with genetics who were just skinny – gymcelling really helps them
guys with inferior genes are doomed if they do not have cute face

 

[Saurabhaj]

If you have clavices like this you shouldn't touch weight even in your life – the only hope is to look as young as possible (with hair only), invest in face (cute), money and status

proof photo of your body before and after?

guys blessed with genetics who were just skinny – gymcelling really helps them
guys with inferior genes are doomed if they do not have cute face

Such guys can join NASA and be an Astronaut,,(STAR status)
Guys above 5'10 or 6 are not allowed.(not sure of exact value).

 

[kj6723]

Honestly I'm super confused with the wrist references. As shook mentions, there is very little muscle in the wrist, nothing that contributes to an aesthetic physique.

If anything, having small wrists will enhance the appearance of your forearms when you start putting muscle on them. It's the same idea as having a thin waist, it makes a jacked torso and thighs stand out that much more.

 

[shookwun]

Dude I was 5'10 at 120ish lbs with arms that measured 10 half inches. I never met anyone smaller then I used to be. This is why I laugh at most the copes.


I trained nturally for over three years before I touched gear. I got my arms up around 15 half-inch naturally. They are around 18 now. Lean.

You have no idea what you are talking about. The only death sentence is wide hips and narrow shoulders.


That guy you posted has almost zero muscularity development ontop of narrow shoulders. Of course he looKS like sh*t

 

[kj6723]

If you have clavices like this you shouldn't touch weight even in your life – the only hope is to look as young as possible (with hair only), invest in face (cute), money and status

proof photo of your body before and after?

guys blessed with genetics who were just skinny – gymcelling really helps them
guys with inferior genes are doomed if they do not have cute face

I don't get what this picture is supposed to be showing us...I see a skinny dude who's appearance would clearly benefit from putting some muscle on his frame

But he's skinny, so he should therefore never work out...?

I don't follow

 

[CopeForLife]

Yep. I'm just like that guy, only his wrists are way larger than mine.

we are in same boat

the normal people will never understand what is it to have a wrists of 10 years old girl and so small clavicles that even S size cloths is wide in shoulders

from now I will ignore that gymcels, impossible to explain