Matt Hancock is having an affair...

[doubleindemnity]

Lots of women will find his hair unattractive

I disagree. Standards aren't that high when it comes to hair. What matters is that he has it. To a non norwood spotter he simply has hair.

Status . He's on a high salary and a position of power

It's a position of power. I don't think that these public servants have high salaries. But this wasn't anybody having an affair out of their league ; thanks to Hancock's above average hair, they are looks matched. My hair looked like Hancock's when I was in my early /mid twenties and, like most guys on here, I'm a little jealous of his hair.

 

[Notdifferent]

Did someone say "he is nw4 if he was NW5 it's ova" yet?

 

[Oknow]

I disagree. Standards aren't that high when it comes to hair. What matters is that he has it. To a non norwood spotter he simply has hair.


It's a position of power. I don't think that these public servants have high salaries. But this wasn't anybody having an affair out of their league ; thanks to Hancock's above average hair, they are looks matched. My hair looked like Hancock's when I was in my early /mid twenties and, like most guys on here, I'm a little jealous of his hair.

It comes down to anything in life, if it suits you

that is hot, not the sh*t Hancock has

 

[doubleindemnity]

It comes down to anything in life, if it suits you


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that is hot, not the sh*t Hancock has

It's not about being hot. Obviously Beckham looks better but that's not the question here. It's about being average and working with what you have. You made a life of doing that. Hancock can and actual bald guys can't (ever be considered average).

 

[Oknow]

It's not about being hot. Obviously Beckham looks better but that's not the question here. It's about being average and working with what you have. You made a life of doing that. Hancock can and actual bald guys can't (ever be considered average).

Until you accept your baldness and own it you will remain miserable

Not all women care as you’ve seen

 

[OldnBald]

I disagree. Standards aren't that high when it comes to hair. What matters is that he has it. To a non norwood spotter he simply has hair.


It's a position of power. I don't think that these public servants have high salaries. But this wasn't anybody having an affair out of their league ; thanks to Hancock's above average hair, they are looks matched. My hair looked like Hancock's when I was in my early /mid twenties and, like most guys on here, I'm a little jealous of his hair.

Has hair? Above average? He's bald. Thats what a non obsessed w hair person would think. Or at the very least, balding. Almost Nobody would think he has hair. More likely, it just doesnt matter as much as everybody thinks. Of course as you get older, it matters less n less.

If one is 22, and has this pathetic level of hair and is looking to date, it would be stupid to wear the hair like this. One would just shave it off mr clean and grow a beard if they could. Problem solved. Someone with great hair at the same age would still have an advantage, but at least clean shaven wouldn't be deep in the hole sporting an eye sore such as that.

Women don't care as much as you think. Looking good with what you've got is more important n being confident in ones self.

Not necessarily to the one I'm responding too, but i don't see you scrawny or fat or skinny fat dorks talking down about the pitiful shape you're in, n citing that as a reason you don't get good looking women. That is more under your control, which they will look at more than your bald head. Or your poor hygiene, I've seen that in posted pics on here showing hairlines. Looking dirty finger nails, bad teeth, on top of that horrible style and what looks to be 25-30 yr olds living in their parents houses. Pathetic. And most of you choose to blame it all on hair. This bullshit needs to stop. Take account of your personal inventory- who the hell would want to be with someone like that?

 

[Oknow]

Has hair? Above average? He's bald. Thats what a non obsessed w hair person would think. Or at the very least, balding. Almost Nobody would think he has hair. More likely, it just doesnt matter as much as everybody thinks. Of course as you get older, it matters less n less.

If one is 22, and has this pathetic level of hair and is looking to date, it would be stupid to wear the hair like this. One would just shave it off mr clean and grow a beard if they could. Problem solved. Someone with great hair at the same age would still have an advantage, but at least clean shaven wouldn't be deep in the hole sporting an eye sore such as that.

Women don't care as much as you think. Looking good with what you've got is more important n being confident in ones self.

Not necessarily to the one I'm responding too, but i don't see you scrawny or fat or skinny fat dorks talking down about the pitiful shape you're in, n citing that as a reason you don't get good looking women. That is more under your control, which they will look at more than your bald head. Or your poor hygiene, I've seen that in posted pics on here showing hairlines. Looking dirty finger nails, bad teeth, on top of that horrible style and what looks to be 25-30 yr olds living in their parents houses. Pathetic. And most of you choose to blame it all on hair. This bullshit needs to stop. Take account of your personal inventory- who the hell would want to be with someone like that?

women don’t like insecure men , and that’s how the men on here come across

I’m in my 30s living with my parents, I still go on dates and sleep with some of them. The key is to own and accept your situation, if you do, then 9/10 they won’t care.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Has hair? Above average? He's bald. Thats what a non obsessed w hair person would think. Or at the very least, balding. Almost Nobody would think he has hair. More likely, it just doesnt matter as much as everybody thinks. Of course as you get older, it matters less n less.

If one is 22, and has this pathetic level of hair and is looking to date, it would be stupid to wear the hair like this. One would just shave it off mr clean and grow a beard if they could. Problem solved. Someone with great hair at the same age would still have an advantage, but at least clean shaven wouldn't be deep in the hole sporting an eye sore such as that.

Women don't care as much as you think. Looking good with what you've got is more important n being confident in ones self.

Not necessarily to the one I'm responding too, but i don't see you scrawny or fat or skinny fat dorks talking down about the pitiful shape you're in, n citing that as a reason you don't get good looking women. That is more under your control, which they will look at more than your bald head. Or your poor hygiene, I've seen that in posted pics on here showing hairlines. Looking dirty finger nails, bad teeth, on top of that horrible style and what looks to be 25-30 yr olds living in their parents houses. Pathetic. And most of you choose to blame it all on hair. This bullshit needs to stop. Take account of your personal inventory- who the hell would want to be with someone like that?

I still disagree that Mr Clean is better than Hancock's look right now, even for a younger guy. I'd say Hancock's look with beard would be best for a younger guy. There is a huge drop in attractiveness when one goes to Mr Clean. So if the hairline is visible from the front, the clean shave should be avoided, in my opinion.

Until you accept your baldness and own it you will remain miserable

Not all women care as you’ve seen

How exactly does one own baldness? Seems like you can only do that by getting good treatments or transplants or systems.

 

[Oknow]

I still disagree that Mr Clean is better than Hancock's look right now, even for a younger guy. I'd say Hancock's look with beard would be best for a younger guy. There is a huge drop in attractiveness when one goes to Mr Clean. So if the hairline is visible from the front, the clean shave should be avoided, in my opinion.



How exactly does one own baldness? Seems like you can only do that by getting good treatments or transplants or systems.

By accepting you are bald, and not caring if people discriminate against it

 

[doubleindemnity]

By accepting you are bald, and not caring if people discriminate against it

By that definition, most bald guys have accepted it. That doesn't give you a good life bald. For example, how would a guy on here have your life? He'd have to get treatment or a system. He simply can't live that life bald. So his options and life choices are way more limited. That's what bald guys have trouble accepting.

 

[Oknow]

By that definition, most bald guys have accepted it. That doesn't give you a good life bald. For example, how would a guy on here have your life? He'd have to get treatment or a system. He simply can't live that life bald. So his options and life choices are way more limited. That's what bald guys have trouble accepting.

Life is what you make it, you care far too much about what people think about you - that is not confidence!

I bet if tomorrow a woman insults you over your bald head, you will take it personally as opposed to shrugging it off as the opinions of one individual.

 

[Notdifferent]

Life is what you make it, you care far too much about what people think about you - that is not confidence!

I bet if tomorrow a woman insults you over your bald head, you will take it personally as opposed to shrugging it off as the opinions of one individual.

There's no point in arguing with him, he's been proven wrong many times and always pretty much posts the same sh*t in every thread, it's almost equal to spam at this point.

 

[Oknow]

There's no point in arguing with him, he's been proven wrong many times and always pretty much posts the same sh*t in every thread, it's almost equal to spam at this point.

He has had a very positive experience recently which I was hoping should show him that it’s a limiting belief he has

seems like it’s had no affect

 

[doubleindemnity]

Life is what you make it, you care far too much about what people think about you - that is not confidence!

I bet if tomorrow a woman insults you over your bald head, you will take it personally as opposed to shrugging it off as the opinions of one individual.

I don't care what others think of me but I care about the state of my life. Baldness affects that. I think that we agreed once on here that confidence is roughly proficiency in a task. So of course I'm not confident.

 

[Oknow]

I don't care what others think of me but I care about the state of my life. Baldness affects that. I think that we agreed once on here that confidence is roughly proficiency in a task. So of course I'm not confident.

Which you are in control of, not anyone else

 

[OldnBald]

women don’t like insecure men , and that’s how the men on here come across

I’m in my 30s living with my parents, I still go on dates and sleep with some of them. The key is to own and accept your situation, if you do, then 9/10 they won’t care.

That is first and foremost. Of course everyone's potential has a cap, some will at best get fat girls and single mothers, some can get top notch instagram ***, and some can get somewhere in between. People have to do the best with what they have and accept where it's at.

 

[OldnBald]

I still disagree that Mr Clean is better than Hancock's look right now, even for a younger guy. I'd say Hancock's look with beard would be best for a younger guy. There is a huge drop in attractiveness when one goes to Mr Clean. So if the hairline is visible from the front, the clean shave should be avoided, in my opinion.



How exactly does one own baldness? Seems like you can only do that by getting good treatments or transplants or systems.

No, I can't agree with that. That is a terrible, old man wish I had hair, hair style. You know, judging by what you think of that, maybe your style stinks. You might just have nerd style, which is not conducive in getting girls. At least getting your foot in the door based on your looks.

 

[doubleindemnity]

No, I can't agree with that. That is a terrible, old man wish I had hair, hair style. You know, judging by what you think of that, maybe your style stinks. You might just have nerd style, which is not conducive in getting girls. At least getting your foot in the door based on your looks.

This is the same positivity nonsense that we see on here every week. The bald guys on here are well groomed, in shape, well dressed, socially calibrated, intelligent and successful. This forum is full of guys like that. They whine but only on this forum. Bald guys like that don't do well at all. That's the reality of being bald. People need to stop believing that it is possible to compensate for being bald, in my opinion.

 

[OldnBald]

This is the same positivity nonsense that we see on here every week. The bald guys on here are well groomed, in shape, well dressed, socially calibrated, intelligent and successful. This forum is full of guys like that. They whine but only on this forum. Bald guys like that don't do well at all. That's the reality of being bald. People need to stop believing that it is possible to compensate for being bald, in my opinion.

nonsense. I was for all intents and purposes- bald. Sure there were younger women who would turn an eye the other way and not give me a shot, but I made it work. I got plenty as a 35 year old balding man. Even at 30, I was heavily balding. Really got bad at around 28. I did just fine, even then, and I was pretty young, and fresh out of a long term relationship, with a kid no less!

I don't want to hear it. If you can't do well, it's a you thing. Trying to find a sole, tangible, viewable reason you're shitting the bed in your dating life is a scapegoat, unless there's some sort of extreme deformity- which is balding is not. If your self-confidence is trash, number 1, if your hygiene is trash, if your physical conditioning is trash, if your style is trash, if your social aptitude is trash, and if you're just not cool, you will suck in dating. Bottom line. Plenty of guys who have no hair who do just fine because they are adept in other areas.

 

[Oknow]

This is the same positivity nonsense that we see on here every week. The bald guys on here are well groomed, in shape, well dressed, socially calibrated, intelligent and successful. This forum is full of guys like that. They whine but only on this forum. Bald guys like that don't do well at all. That's the reality of being bald. People need to stop believing that it is possible to compensate for being bald, in my opinion.

Yes but as you’ve recently found out, there are women that don’t care as much as you do about hair!

Focus on them.