Alright...this is my long term update on my hairloss regime.
I'm very close to two years on finasteride and about 4 years on minoxidil. The good news is, it works. I'm turning 36 now and have a very good head of hair where it is very hard to detect my crown loss. It is just thinning and I have no bald spot yet. However the size of the loss area is quite large and I expect to have a bald spot in about 1-2 years without finasteride. Anyway, things are great and I can sport a great haircut at my age which I don't take for granted. Also, my hairloss is less of a concern for me anymore, I don't think about it as much and I don't count hair anymore. I still shed quite a bit but found this to be normal apparently.
Now for the downside of things. I will be very honest on this one as it bothers me and I often think about it. Side effects. I continue to suffer from low libido. To the point where I always need stimulation to make things work. I don't get an erection from watching p**rn or just from being with a girl. However, I'm always able to get and maintain an erection with stimulation. Now the thing is, of course this gets in your head. And as I've been single and only had occasional encounters every now and then, it became important to be able to perform (even on alcohol, which got hard in the last few years) when I got the chance to. I went to see a urologist, and of course what he did is, he prescribed my with drugs for ED. I was shocked and embarassed and didn't want to touch them. However, I did. And now I'm in a relatively stable relationship and continue to take some pills from Singapore. With that I can live a relatively normal live - hair, s*x and a normal reaction to female touch. I don't tell her that and try to think about it as little as possible.
Now, as you can imagine this is not an easy thing and it is still a very hard thing for me to get to grips with. The price I'm paying is high. I don't know if things would get back to normal if I dropped finasteride, or if things would get worse. I don't know if what I have can be called ED even. The mind is very powerful in this respect and I haven't dared to try to have s*x without the drugs as I'm scared of me failing. Of course the outlook of me having to take these pills for 35 years to come is not nice. Also, I have no guarantee if any damage has been done already. I have just come to the conclusion that I want it all - hair and s*x. I get the most female attention ever in my life and I couldn't stand losing my hair. I couldn't deal with looking at me and it would be devastating for me.
What I'm currently doing is to reduce the dose to 1.25mg EOD again to try to see if it improves. However I don't think it does much.
Anyway, that was my long-term update. Hope you guys are well and find this useful. Advice is appreciated but please no scare stories. I've seen most of them.