my mom said that i'm too young to have sex!

[hair today gone tomorrow]

i want to go out but to go out i need someone to go with! And what i'm gonna find? I still love her! I only think about her!

My soul should be dead. I'm worthless!

like i said, when you are older, you will look back and have BIG REGRETS.

she aint coming back buddy....so you can sit there and sulk all you want

 

[youngbaldie]

IBM, you should try online dating and try to meet somebody from an asian, african, or mediterranean country. Living with your parents is common and accepted in those cultures. Infact, doing the opposite is viewed as selfish for not taking care of one's parents.

Its only in modern, western nations like America, that we are culturally arrogant in this way and out of touch.

 

[Cassin]

IBM

You seem like a good dude.

So I say this with respect.

Your in your late 20's, pull your sh-t together.

 

[IBM]

My only solution is wait and bleed...

 

[Hans Gruber]

My only solution is wait and bleed...

are you not even going to try and find a girl like in your avatar? they are out there and if you have an iota of personality its not over yet

 

[person]

Yeah not for me either. It is like self induced AIDS :shock:

Tell that to the thousands of dermatologists which pescribe it to paediatric patients.

 

[powersam]

Yeah not for me either. It is like self induced AIDS :shock:

Tell that to the thousands of dermatologists which pescribe it to paediatric patients.

mate i'm totally open to low doses helping, sounds like a good idea similar to low dose naltrexone. however you did not mention anything about low dosing. do you have a link to any studies on this?

 

[mulder]

IBM, you should try online dating and try to meet somebody from an asian, african, or mediterranean country. Living with your parents is common and accepted in those cultures. Infact, doing the opposite is viewed as selfish for not taking care of one's parents.

Its only in modern, western nations like America, that we are culturally arrogant in this way and out of touch.

I think this is generally good advice for you IBM. If you can't meet women in the 'real world' why not try meeting them online first. Just make sure you're actually making an effort to hook up with them- and not after half a year either.

And if you're considering living on your own why not try it out for a few months? You could always go back 'home' if you want.

 

[Hans Gruber]

have you ever posted pics IBM? are you another tauge? moaning about your looks when in reality you are no worse or no better than 80% of the male population?

 

[powersam]

eh, though i love him, my bet is on IBM not really being the IBM that he portrays.

by the way IBM what does IBM stand for to you? what do those letters mean to you?

that said, thankyou youngbaldie for reminding us that other cultures do things very differently sometimes and one should not be judged poorly because of that.

IBM, you should try online dating and try to meet somebody from an asian, african, or mediterranean country. Living with your parents is common and accepted in those cultures. Infact, doing the opposite is viewed as selfish for not taking care of one's parents.

Its only in modern, western nations like America, that we are culturally arrogant in this way and out of touch.

 

[DaSand]

Living with parents is accepted in some cultures? I didn't know that, it's just my mom and I because she's a widow. My other two siblings left because they started their own lives.

 

[youngbaldie]

Living with parents is accepted in some cultures? I didn't know that, it's just my mom and I because she's a widow. My other two siblings left because they started their own lives.

Yes. In other countries, family life and work ethic is different. Its very common in other countries for men in the house to live with their parents until marriage. This is due to multiple factors such as gaining financial stability prior to and in preparation for marriage and helping to support the extended family. In other countries, it is common for households to be multigenerational. Grandparents are taken care of instead of being thrown into nursing homes, and the adult children help contribute to the family unit while planning for their own family and future. It is not uncommon for even married couples to live with their parents, infact, in some cultures, doing anything less is viewed as wrong.

In contrast, in America and other western nations, the norm is to move out at 18, get your own apartment, party, get laid and score with as many people as you can, and then worry about the future and consequences after the fun. Its about living for the moment. Since this has become the dominant cultural practice in modern day America, anything outside the norm (such as living with one's parents) is automatically stereotyped as bad, particularly by girls in this country, who want it all right away while they are young. But then again, the divorce rate in this country is quite high, well over 50%, so I guess that is somewhat of a testament to our values in this realm.

Obviously, if a grown adult is simply mooching off of their parents by wasting all of their money on clubbing, expensive cars, big screen tv's, girls, or anything else, then that is a shameful thing.

But if they are saving their money and building up their career while contributing to the household when possible, then that is acceptable. As long as they are trying to achieve a realistic, responsible goal in the future.

I also don't think that anybody should be required or feel obligated to live with their parents. Perhaps they come from a bad family environment or simply wish to make it on their own. Nothing wrong with that. Thats the way I went.

I am just saying that I think we should all take a step back and realize that our way is not necessarily the only way, or the universal right way. Everybody is different.

 

[Cassin]

I don't think most people live at home saving money and building towards their future. I think most do it for fear of responsibility and laziness.

 

[youngbaldie]

I don't think most people live at home saving money and building towards their future. I think most do it for fear of responsibility and laziness.

Yes, you are probably right. If they aren't saving money, or working towards getting out on their own someday, then its probably a recipe for disaster.

 

[hair today gone tomorrow]

I don't think most people live at home saving money and building towards their future. I think most do it for fear of responsibility and laziness.

I am 23 Im still at home and I make pretty good money....but i bank 90% of it. I want to be a house in the near future.

 

[Cassin]

I don't think most people live at home saving money and building towards their future. I think most do it for fear of responsibility and laziness.

I am 23 Im still at home and I make pretty good money....but i bank 90% of it. I want to be a house in the near future.

Thats a completely different story.

 

[IBM]

eh, though i love him, my bet is on IBM not really being the IBM that he portrays.

by the way IBM what does IBM stand for to you? what do those letters mean to you?

that said, thankyou youngbaldie for reminding us that other cultures do things very differently sometimes and one should not be judged poorly because of that.

Good question: who is IBM in reality? Is he telling the truth? Is he good looking?

I never post a pic of myself on Internet because i'm too shy and too ugly for it. Besides i dont want anyone to know who i am because i fear scorn for known people. But i've no problems of sending a pic to some users to know me.

But what i tell and feel its true and today was an awesome day till now. I wish i wasnt here :cry: .

I feel that i'm not a bad looking guy but not a hot one. Few people say that i look Sean Connery on Bond movies with my receded hairline.

If i had my hair i would have my pride and could face anyone on Earth like now!

 

[IBM]

i'll not open a new thread... its unnecessary.

I'm very low because i saw her again today. What was supposed to be a great day and it was, everything tear apart in the end!

I'm with so low mood that i dont talk to my family and they dont have any fault on that!

I wish i was dead!

 

[person]

Yeah not for me either. It is like self induced AIDS :shock:

Tell that to the thousands of dermatologists which pescribe it to paediatric patients.

mate i'm totally open to low doses helping, sounds like a good idea similar to low dose naltrexone. however you did not mention anything about low dosing. do you have a link to any studies on this?

I personally don't think you should take low doses of cyclosporin for hair loss. I reccomended it to IBM because he has psoriasis as well. Hair loss is a side-effect of the drug and there are studies on it in the research section. Basically DHT affects the follicle and transforms it to a foreign body then the immume system attacks it. Cyclosporin prevents the latter however I agree that propecia is a better alternative because it stops the DHT in the first place from interferring with the follicle.

 

[hair today gone tomorrow]

i'll not open a new thread... its unnecessary.

I'm very low because i saw her again today. What was supposed to be a great day and it was, everything tear apart in the end!

I'm with so low mood that i dont talk to my family and they dont have any fault on that!

I wish i was dead!

dude, you are PATHETIC.