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not a fair analogy..its breast cancer and a healthy man.
You just said 'healthy' man she has hair loss significant enough to have a hair system.
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not a fair analogy..its breast cancer and a healthy man.
You just said 'healthy' man she has hair loss significant enough to have a hair system.
So what? This is hairloss talk, she has hairloss and the womens forum is inactive therefore she belongs here.
I agree. And even if the women's section was open we should still welcome women with hair loss if they want to come here because this site is for hair loss sufferers.
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And Captain Forehead, here's another post by you trying to drive EL away from here in this same thread:
"Think about it -- how would this argument go if a healthy man were to post on a women's impact of breast cancer forum "Being healthy does not prevent a man from feeling depressed!"."
There's no reason for you to be trying to push her out of here. She has hair loss. She does her best to make it look better with a wig. But a wig is not the same as her real god-given hair. Please stop trying to make her feel like she doesn't belong here.
"Think about it -- how would this argument go if a healthy man were to post on a women's impact of breast cancer forum "Being healthy does not prevent a man from feeling depressed!"."
There's no reason for you to be trying to push her out of here. She has hair loss. She does her best to make it look better with a wig. But a wig is not the same as her real god-given hair. Please stop trying to make her feel like she doesn't belong here.
Exactly.
Look, hours after the fact, in retrospect, I wish I had worded things differently in some of my previous posts this eve. I've deleted some of the posts to take the sting out of my posit since what I said is hurtful and I don't want to hurt anyone. I'm really sorry. I was actually trying to defend EL.
We all get so factual and honest here that I didn't even bother trying to run what I was saying through any kind of filter at all.
I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings EvilLocks.
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No worries nameless, you did not hurt my feelings. How can I expect every man to accept the fact that I wear a hair piece? If it was the other way around, and I did not have hair loss, would I fully accept it if my boyfriend wore a hair piece? I would probably still love him, but I would definitely be aware of the fact that he was bald underneath his hair piece. Today I would be very accepting of my boyfriend wearing a hair piece, even relieved, but I do not think that would be the case had I been an ignorant fullhead.
I know you were trying to defend me in your own way, although some of what you said came across a bit harsh (I do not care though). Honestly it hurts more when someone tries to belittle my pain and tell me I'm not supposed to feel this bad etc, because I'm a "pretty" woman. Look, in my original post that sparked this discussion I even said that I can count my blessings compared to some of the guys on this forum. I'm fully aware of the fact that my "good" looks puts me at an advantage, when it comes to dating. But does this mean my life has been easy? Hell no. I've been plagued by numerous health issues almost all my youth, so my life has not been a walk in the park.
And truly, I'm getting tired of this continuous loop of a discussion if I "deserve" to feel as much pain as the guys here or not. Like blackg said; all pain is relative. I know I'm lucky in some ways, but I'm also very miserable in others. This has been a constant discussion ever since I joined here, and look at me; 4 years later I STILL have to defend my right for a place here. It gets a bit tiring, and if this place didn't mean as much to be as it does I would be out the door years ago.
These dumb claims that you don't deserve to be here because you're too pretty are really getting under my skin. These guys have been told time and time again that you wear a hairpiece to augment your looks. WTF is their problem that it's not sinking through their thick skulls? Enough is enough already.
And this dumb sh!t disrupts and derails the thread it happens in. I don't even remember what we were all talking about before this sh*t started.
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Coping with Men's Hair Loss -> The Impact of Hair Loss
Women will always be outsiders on this subforum.
Women will always be outsiders on this subforum.
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The most posts on this subject in this thread are by .......
Not EL.
Not by me.
Not Hairblues.
Not Fred.
Not Dante.
....
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Yes but are you suggesting she not be here?
are you saying she does not belong here because of a 'title'?
If a forum exists for 'women who survived breast cancer'---its still relevant for 'men who survived breast cancer.'
Not that many 24 year old women losing their hair to the degree she has. Who is she going to talk to? just women in their 40s 50s and 60s who are not experiencing the loss of youth?
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Lol absolutely, they do it all the time. Just search google news and you'll see tons of stories like this http://www.opposingviews.com/i/soci...ter-officials-sees-what-shes-doing-dog-images
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Ah. Gross.
You're rude.
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I am suggesting no such thing.
You're the one who started this stupid sh!t.
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You know you love outsiders
Female pattern baldness is, by the way, a lot like Men pattern Baldness, only in much more complicated
Why are you begging him to stop being rude?