Oknow gives terrible advice for online dating

[Diffused_confidence]

It's come to my attention that @Oknow is giving f*****g bluepill bullshit advice for online dating.

I will give the real advice that works for online dating

1. Have good genetics.

The end.

Seriously. I've said this for the longest time. People are animals and animals follow the laws of natural selection. The female species is the selector of natural selection and will always choose the best mate for better offspring.

When women see a man who is under 6ft tall she is going to think of her potential children (sons in particular) being short. And because she as a woman knows how female nature is, she is going to try to prevent the risk of having a son like that by mating with a man who is 6 ft tall. Same argument applies to balding, race, and face.

A man needs to have a solid genetic foundation to have success in dating, let alone online dating. Here are what I consider the requirements.

1. You must be at least 5'10 but those in the 5'10 to 5'11 range must be way above average in other departments. Otherwise it's 6 ft tall. Any man at 5'9 or lower is subhuman and under a female dictatorship would be sent to the gas chambers or shot by firing squad, as female nature comes down to eugenics.
2. You must have a Norwood 2 at worst. A man at Norwood 2 better also have other good qualities or they are sent to the gas chambers as well.

3. You need good facial ratios. Women know within a millisecond if a man is ugly facially. Our brain has a section with 1 job. Scan a face. If she scans your face and the output is subhuman, then she would view you as a creep and hope you die. With influence she could have you sent to the gas chambers.

These 3 are major for online dating as its all about looks.

Outside online and for maintaining a relationship, yes your personality and money matters but you have other genetic factors in play.

4. IQ. Women want their kids to have financial success and that heavily correlates with iq.

5. Penis size. Women want at least 7 inches min and 6 inch girth min. Women want to feel full when being penetrated and if you have a small dick then it's over.

So that's it. If you are missing one of these things, go rope / ldar.

 

[losingbattle88]

It's come to my attention that @Oknow is giving f*****g bluepill bullshit advice for online dating.

I will give the real advice that works for online dating

1. Have good genetics.

The end.

Seriously. I've said this for the longest time. People are animals and animals follow the laws of natural selection. The female species is the selector of natural selection and will always choose the best mate for better offspring.

When women see a man who is under 6ft tall she is going to think of her potential children (sons in particular) being short. And because she as a woman knows how female nature is, she is going to try to prevent the risk of having a son like that by mating with a man who is 6 ft tall. Same argument applies to balding, race, and face.

A man needs to have a solid genetic foundation to have success in dating, let alone online dating. Here are what I consider the requirements.

1. You must be at least 5'10 but those in the 5'10 to 5'11 range must be way above average in other departments. Otherwise it's 6 ft tall. Any man at 5'9 or lower is subhuman and under a female dictatorship would be sent to the gas chambers or shot by firing squad, as female nature comes down to eugenics.
2. You must have a Norwood 2 at worst. A man at Norwood 2 better also have other good qualities or they are sent to the gas chambers as well.

3. You need good facial ratios. Women know within a millisecond if a man is ugly facially. Our brain has a section with 1 job. Scan a face. If she scans your face and the output is subhuman, then she would view you as a creep and hope you die. With influence she could have you sent to the gas chambers.

These 3 are major for online dating as its all about looks.

Outside online and for maintaining a relationship, yes your personality and money matters but you have other genetic factors in play.

4. IQ. Women want their kids to have financial success and that heavily correlates with iq.

5. Penis size. Women want at least 7 inches min and 6 inch girth min. Women want to feel full when being penetrated and if you have a small dick then it's over.

So that's it. If you are missing one of these things, go rope / ldar.

Truth.

 

[Oknow]

It's come to my attention that @Oknow is giving f*****g bluepill bullshit advice for online dating.

I will give the real advice that works for online dating

1. Have good genetics.

The end.

Seriously. I've said this for the longest time. People are animals and animals follow the laws of natural selection. The female species is the selector of natural selection and will always choose the best mate for better offspring.

When women see a man who is under 6ft tall she is going to think of her potential children (sons in particular) being short. And because she as a woman knows how female nature is, she is going to try to prevent the risk of having a son like that by mating with a man who is 6 ft tall. Same argument applies to balding, race, and face.

A man needs to have a solid genetic foundation to have success in dating, let alone online dating. Here are what I consider the requirements.

1. You must be at least 5'10 but those in the 5'10 to 5'11 range must be way above average in other departments. Otherwise it's 6 ft tall. Any man at 5'9 or lower is subhuman and under a female dictatorship would be sent to the gas chambers or shot by firing squad, as female nature comes down to eugenics.
2. You must have a Norwood 2 at worst. A man at Norwood 2 better also have other good qualities or they are sent to the gas chambers as well.

3. You need good facial ratios. Women know within a millisecond if a man is ugly facially. Our brain has a section with 1 job. Scan a face. If she scans your face and the output is subhuman, then she would view you as a creep and hope you die. With influence she could have you sent to the gas chambers.

These 3 are major for online dating as its all about looks.

Outside online and for maintaining a relationship, yes your personality and money matters but you have other genetic factors in play.

4. IQ. Women want their kids to have financial success and that heavily correlates with iq.

5. Penis size. Women want at least 7 inches min and 6 inch girth min. Women want to feel full when being penetrated and if you have a small dick then it's over.

So that's it. If you are missing one of these things, go rope / ldar.

so I’m out and about and guess what the majority of the people I see are objectively average (men and women) , many seem to be couples too

I live in London

Out of the 100s of people, 1 or 2 are ‘chads’ or ‘stacies’

Lots are not in good shape either

You people need to get some perspective, yes the better looking you are, the more choice you have but the reality is many average people (5/10s) are dating / f*****g, myself included

 

[losingbattle88]

Nobody wants to date an average person. Thats not following your instincts.

 

[Oknow]

Nobody wants to date an average person. Thats not following your instincts.

then don’t complain about being single

 

[losingbattle88]

then don’t complain about being single

Who said I was? This 17 year old is easily above average. Love at first sight. Just been too depressed about slowly balding so I havent tried to date a woman yet.

 

[whatevr]

If your goal is simply to find "a girlfriend" (really, any female to call your girlfriend), that's pretty obtainable even for NW6.

The problem is having to lower your standards to the point where women who would've, with a full head of hair realistically been within your reach, won't even give you the time of day anymore.

Having to settle for someone who you don't find attractive and is otherwise way below your league.

That's the problem.

 

[BurningCoals]

1. You must be at least 5'10 but those in the 5'10 to 5'11 range must be way above average in other departments. Otherwise it's 6 ft tall. Any man at 5'9 or lower is subhuman and under a female dictatorship would be sent to the gas chambers or shot by firing squad, as female nature comes down to eugenics.

lol

 

[Oknow]

If your goal is simply to find "a girlfriend" (really, any female to call your girlfriend), that's pretty obtainable even for NW6.

The problem is having to lower your standards to the point where women who would've, with a full head of hair realistically been within your reach, won't even give you the time of day anymore.

Having to settle for someone who you don't find attractive and is otherwise way below your league.

That's the problem.

Who said I was? This 17 year old is easily above average. Love at first sight. Just been too depressed about slowly balding so I havent tried to date a woman yet.

that’s all subjective

I’ve gone out with women who my friends wouldn’t find attractive but I totally do

 

[Oknow]

I have to give respect to @Oknow if he actually slays in England. It's probably the worst place on the planet imo.

(Extremely) ugly girls with 10 pounds of make up who think they're a literal princess while behaving like a swine. The only good looking ones are higher class or european migrants.

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Skank trash/10

...or maybe I'm wrong and have only seen the bad ones.

I don’t do that well with English women if I’m honest, they are seemingly a lot harder to pull than European migrants and less attractive

I went out with an English woman recently, went on two dates then it fizzled out - I suspect from her not liking that I’m living with my folks.

I think she thought I was wealthy - I have a great job , high earner just not great with money

Girl before her , Central European x20 hotter, was seeing her for a few months and didn’t care that I was with my folks.

p.s

Australian women are the worse

 

[BeHereNow]

I have to give respect to @Oknow if he actually slays in England. It's probably the worst place on the planet imo.

(Extremely) ugly girls with 10 pounds of make up who think they're a literal princess while behaving like a swine. The only good looking ones are higher class or european migrants.

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...or maybe I'm wrong and have only seen the bad ones.

This results from our pathetic drinking culture. With a bit of effort one can avoid all of this. The problem is most of the young dullards here still thinking "slaying" in a nightclub is the be all and end all.

I know many posts here are made at least partially in jest (including the OP) but there's far more nuance. I'm 6ft, in shape (weigh 12st), very stylish (know how to coordinate, etc.), healthy (don't drink, smoke or take drugs), always clean/smell good (pretty elaborate grooming regimen with layered fragrances) and very confident. I can easily strike up and maintain a conversation with a woman and carry my own card I can give to her if it seems appropriate. I am a recovering NW3v but it doesn't seem to have that big an impact, but I am aware I would be better looking with a NW1.

I had a 7 month affair with a woman recently and it was me who ended it because it wasn't going anywhere and she was a bit too chaotic and neurotic for me. The main reason I am single is I have always been staunchly independent. At 38 I am relaxed about whether I settle into a long term relationship or not. I certainly don't want children. A more regular sex life would be beneficial but even that's not guaranteed in a relationship for all manner of reasons.

Dating websites are a waste of time as far as I can see, but they seem to work for some.

 

[BeHereNow]

I don’t do that well with English women if I’m honest, they are seemingly a lot harder to pull than European migrants and less attractive

I went out with an English woman recently, went on two dates then it fizzled out - I suspect from her not liking that I’m living with my folks.

I think she thought I was wealthy - I have a great job , high earner just not great with money

Girl before her , Central European x20 hotter, was seeing her for a few months and didn’t care that I was with my folks.

p.s

Australian women are the worse

How old are you?

 

[Oknow]

This results from our pathetic drinking culture. With a bit of effort one can avoid all of this. The problem is most of the young dullards here still thinking "slaying" in a nightclub is the be all and end all.

I know many posts here are made at least partially in jest (including the OP) but there's far more nuance. I'm 6ft, in shape (weigh 12st), very stylish (know how to coordinate, etc.), healthy (don't drink, smoke or take drugs), always clean/smell good (pretty elaborate grooming regimen with layered fragrances) and very confident. I can easily strike up and maintain a conversation with a woman and carry my own card I can give to her if it seems appropriate. I am a recovering NW3v but it doesn't seem to have that big an impact, but I am aware I would be better looking with a NW1.

I had a 7 month affair with a woman recently and it was me who ended it because it wasn't going anywhere and she was a bit too chaotic and neurotic for me. The main reason I am single is I have always been staunchly independent. At 38 I am relaxed about whether I settle into a long term relationship or not. I certainly don't want children. A more regular sex life would be beneficial but even that's not guaranteed in a relationship for all manner of reasons.

Dating websites are a waste of time as far as I can see, but they seem to work for some.

I know lots of people who have met and married people from apps

the dating app is not the problem, it just facilitates an interaction where it’s about people making the most out of their interactions

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

I agree with the spirit of what you're saying but you're obviously applying it too hyperbolically.

A sizeable minority of men are 6' and over, a small minority of men have a genuinely handsome face, and only something like 0.01% of men have a legit 7x6+ schlong. Everything added together, those odds become impossible, especially if you add a NW1 hairline and high IQ into the mix as well.

Realistically, if you're white, 6'+ and facially a little above average, don't have a micro dick and aren't severely balding, you shouldn't struggle whatsoever, purely physically speaking. If don't hit those standards it's not impossible but it becomes harder the more you deviate from them

 

[Oknow]

How old are you?

mid-30s

 

[Oknow]

@Oknow Funny thing is a lot of english guys are good looking imo, they would do well outside of their island.

If I was english I would gtfo and search for a girl on the mainland.

But hey my experience with England is limited maybe it's not that bad.

no they are not
Lots look average as f***
I’m on a train right now. Such plain looking people around me.

europeans are probably the best looking imo

 

[BeHereNow]

mid-30s

That's pretty advanced to still be living with your parents.

 

[norwood_spotter]

1. before 30: dont be ugly, preferably be handsome
2. after 30: dont be ugly, dont be unemployed, preferably have a good career
3. social exposure, at least a minimum of that famous killer instinct (willing to go for it, maybe even risk a rejection).


numero 3 is especially important for guys who fall into the normal looking category

 

[BeHereNow]

no they are not
Lots look average as f***
I’m on a train right now. Such plain looking people around me.

europeans are probably the best looking imo

This is a moot discussion. The attractiveness distribution is pretty much even across nations. It's like the positive stereotype which imagines all Swedish women as supermodels when there are plenty of ugly Swedish women, it's just people get their information from memes.

 

[Oknow]

I agree with the spirit of what you're saying but you're obviously applying it too hyperbolically.

A sizeable minority of men are 6' and over, a small minority of men have a genuinely handsome face, and only something like 0.01% of men have a legit 7x6+ schlong. Everything added together, those odds become impossible, especially if you add a NW1 hairline and high IQ into the mix as well.

Realistically, if you're white, 6'+ and facially a little above average, don't have a micro dick and aren't severely balding, you shouldn't struggle whatsoever, purely physically speaking. If don't hit those standards it's not impossible but it becomes harder the more you deviate from them

yeah I think race is a factor

I’m doing much better now but i do a lot to improve my appearance - dress well , skin care routine, gym etc also I have a good job, decent income

an average white man not doing any of that can pull the same girl
On the same note if I do nothing like they are, I wouldn’t get past a first date
Bit of a joke, but that’s life