uncomfortable man
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What if we aren't MMA fighters who listen to Nickelback?
In a Victorian circus?cuebald said:An attractive guy with baldness is like an attractive woman with a beard.
Or an attractive woman with baldness.cuebald said:An attractive guy with baldness is like an attractive woman with a beard.
uncomfortable man said:What if we aren't MMA fighters who listen to Nickelback?
dudemon said:qball01 said:Because if even only 5 percent of women are capable of finding a bald man attractive...thats still 150 million women.
Now we are down to 2.5 mil. Out of that 2.5 mil, how many are not attractive, or not even "average" looking? Hypothetically, let's say 10% or 250,000.
qball01 said:ok my logic was stupid...but the reality is, vastly more than 5 percent of women are capable of finding a bald man attractive...realistically, only a very small percentage are going to be turned off to the point where they would not date him JUST BECAUSE hes bald....obviously its not going to be their preference but I believe that its something that can be overcome for a large percentage of women if the man is actually a man...the reality is, how many guys who let hairloss affect them to such a large extent actually have the type of qualities that women look for in a man? So its a moot point...because a guy who hates himself because of hairloss and has low self esteem and doesn't believe at all that hes capable or worthy of getting with a girl who hes attracted to....WON'T get that girl. Obviously a pessimistic guy in his early to mid thirties with no job prospects, low self esteem, BDD, CANT LOOK PEOPLE IN THE EYE BECAUSE HE's SO ASHAMED OF HIMSELF, and who blames his hair loss (and other people) for the reason his life has turned out the way it is, isn't going to be attractive to females in the least bit...hair or no hair. Thats why listening to some of these guys is stupid, because there are tonnes of other reasons to pinpoint why they are like they are...but they blame only one superficial characteristic.
Its just really sad to see the affect that the media has had on people (including myself...I'll admit, I'm young and its hard not to be brainwashed). But the fact is...physical appearance should only be a small part of somebody's overall self image...however with the way things are today its become a huge problem. Our happiness has become contingent solely on how we look and its bullshit...and I'll agree with Uman on that point...we get fed messages that we have to look a certain way...but thats only on the surface and its ultimately a money making scheme. What I disagree on is that we have to let it affect us...because if you can look past all the superficial, looks-centred bullshit its entirely possible to be a great man and live a great life, and that is exactly what I'm trying to do. You think this sh*t doesn't affect me too? It does...but thats because I haven't fully grasped the concept on what it is to truly have faith in yourself as a man no matter what...and thats the point I'm trying to reach as hard as it is.
CCS said:Pics that give me hope are picks of guys with abs and nice, decent sized muscle. If you make your body hot, it will compensate for the hairloss. At the pool party last night, I noticed the guys with muscle were getting the ladies. The flat chested guys were by themselves. My chest was way bigger than theirs. I was surprised I was not the smallest one. When I feel my chest through my shirt, ther is meat there, and plenty, even if I'm not flexing. That is what the women want.
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Yep, it's normal to see scalp while your hair is wet [or has gel on it, which creates the same picture]. You'll see more if the photo was taken with flash. More and more if you take it above your hair. Even The-perfect-hair-Ronaldo can see his own scalp while his photos were taken from a direct angle; not from above.
Do not depress yourself by constantly taking photos of your wet/gelled + raised hair with a strong flash from above. Of course you'll see the scalp. What else were you expecting, the mother earth?
f*** that 2 words posh spice :crazy:SemperFi said:If I were him, I'd trade with Beckham anytime.