Ran Into An Old Friend Who Is Now Bald

[Saulus]

They got fat because they ruled their previous years, got a lot of pussy and drinks and junk food, didn’t give a f*** and now they start settling down. While you stayed home rubbing lotions on your head.

Honestly there is some kind of truth in it

I basically only was in 2 longterm relationships in my late teens/twenties

I feel i missed out a lot of experiences and that is a reason why i still very care about my appearance even though its retarted bc there is a time for everything and obsessing over your looks in your late 20/30 clearly isnt healthy bc no matter what you due ageing you will never look as good as you look today

Balding, wrinkles..its like a sinking ship. A fight you cannot win.

 

[blackg]

Exactly. It’s a form of OCD. Like when someone wants everything clean in his house or when someone wants everything aligned. It just can’t happen. Embrace not being perfect. The world doesn’t care if you are balding or even bald. Yes some people will reject you and it happens all the time in people with full head of hair too. Wasted years is one of the saddest things in life. Hell, I’m in this forum solely because I am bored af at work, it’s an office job and I cannot interact with others or walk out. I don’t give a sh*t about my hair and I’m a nw5 @28 years. I’m quitting my job in July 1st. We all have paths to cross and choices to make. It’s sitting idle that’s killing us. Hair my ***, go buzz for a few months without letting it grow and I tell u you won’t give 2 shits about it anymore. If you do, it’s cause something else bothers you like your shitty life or big nose or whatever. One of the easiest most convenient haircuts on planet is buzz and it’s always been cool.

I think you're trolling.
The world does care if you're losing your hair. Potential partners also care, greatly.

The world of the fullheads view us as a form of light relief at best and a complete eyesore and threat to society at worse.



There is a reason that all villains and sex offenders cast in movies are bald men;
This is what we subconsciously represent.

 

[blackg]

Search my post history and you will know I’m not trolling in the slightest. You will be made fun of when you are such a softie. Period.

Ummm... You will be made fun of regardless.

I appreciate your positivity as I don't usually fall into the doom and gloom camp on here but I think you're a little naive.

 

[Marky]

I've found I look older after the past few years. I turned 29 a few years ago. I'm not sure whether its my hairloss, my skin, or my life experience and the weight of responsibilities and expectation that burden me and at least make me feel old. It's the sense that life isn't about to get easier, only harder, and that life is a b**ch. That reality doesn't make me feel young. I'm not saying I don't enjoy life and laugh. I do. But, hell, it aint easy trying to make it as an adult.

Sometimes I look 25, but less and less to be honest. I probably look my age on balance if I'm being totally honest. I think it often comes down to what you feel you have lived. That's what makes us old; our life experiences. Life makes us old. Our experiences make us old. That's how we get wiser. It's just as we get wiser, we get older and look older..There's no two ways about it.

I'm trying to improve my lifestyle, i.e. more exercise and better diet but I struggle and go through periods of healthy eating and exercising but find it difficult to sustain it over the long term. I would like to find a way to seriously workout how to crack it. If I had the money I am considering using hypnotherapy for some kind of dietary help + investment in cooking school for healthy vegan food so I start cooking more instead of ordering takeaway, and a professional trainer for my fitness. I need to invest in myself in these areas. Bad habits that we build over years, if not decades, are best dealt with using a form of professional help in my opinion. Using our own methodology doesn't work because we're applying our existing patterns to our existing problems.

To breakout of existing patterns, we need to create new patterns from external sources and create new methodology. We can't make new patterns from old methadolgoy. It's like we need to update our software by downloading new information to stay fresh. That's how I see professional help.

In an ideal world, I'd see a therapist and personal trainer once a week. And a hypnotherapist at least once to deal with some deep rooted behaviors around diet.

Yep and when it boils down to it it seems like whether we consciously know it or not it's all about hanging onto our youth/looks as long as we can. Diet, exercise, rogaine, avoid stress - it's all ultimately to preserve our youthfulness. And sadly a battle you never win in the end.

 

[blackg]

Youthfulness my ***. Experience is what matters. People who go for surgery, media and photoshop have a bad life. You can’t imagine what women are out there who are single. Others who love bald heads, others who don’t give a sh*t about it, others who you rate as mediocre or chubby but in bed are rockets. I mean sh*t, we lose hair. Go tell that to a guy with a micropenis and a full head of hair. See if he concurs. Idk, the older I get the wiser I feel about this subject.

How old are you again? I'm starting to like tour abrasive style.

 

[LastSamurai]

Youthfulness my ***. Experience is what matters. People who go for surgery, media and photoshop have a bad life. You can’t imagine what women are out there who are single. Others who love bald heads, others who don’t give a sh*t about it, others who you rate as mediocre or chubby but in bed are rockets. I mean sh*t, we lose hair. Go tell that to a guy with a micropenis and a full head of hair. See if he concurs. Idk, the older I get the wiser I feel about this subject.

I always apprecaite a fresh perspective.

You're right. It could be worse, at least we don't have a micropenis. There probably is a guy who is bald and has a micropenis. Now that is a genetic fuckery.

There are definitely worse things to happen then baldness. Its just that we have a tendency to compare ourselves to the top of the pack. But if you look downwards sometimes you can also see there are many guys worse off in the looks department or worse. Its not as bad as we make it out.

Its just that Hollywood and social media fucked us over. Everyone has become more vain as a result. We're all hanging on to these fake Instagram images and everyone has become increasingly insecure.

 

[blackg]

I think we all know this instagram paradigm is fake.

Even those on top who set the standards know it's a house of cards, yet we all can't seem to turn our backs on it.
Why?

 

[Saulus]

Exactly. It’s a form of OCD. Like when someone wants everything clean in his house or when someone wants everything aligned. It just can’t happen. Embrace not being perfect. The world doesn’t care if you are balding or even bald. Yes some people will reject you and it happens all the time in people with full head of hair too. Wasted years is one of the saddest things in life. Hell, I’m in this forum solely because I am bored af at work, it’s an office job and I cannot interact with others or walk out. I don’t give a sh*t about my hair and I’m a nw5 @28 years. I’m quitting my job in July 1st. We all have paths to cross and choices to make. It’s sitting idle that’s killing us. Hair my ***, go buzz for a few months without letting it grow and I tell u you won’t give 2 shits about it anymore. If you do, it’s cause something else bothers you like your shitty life or big nose or whatever. One of the easiest most convenient haircuts on planet is buzz and it’s always been cool.

Not really what i wanted to say

In an ideal world you make plenty of great experience with several women in your high school and college years. Make a lot of experience and then eventually move on.


Settle down in your end 20s, marriage with children.

In your 30s you then concentrate on other things then dating and looks since the last one declines rapidly in that age anyone.

Unfortunately many of us dont live in an ideal world..

 

[LastSamurai]

The bottom line is, we have to persevere. Never give up and become a pathetic incel.

The media doesn't help, but biologically going bald isn't attractive in general. I know there is f*** all we can do about that, but even if it wasn't for the media it would still be an issue. The media, Hollywood and that f*****g instagram have just made it harder.

I've been dating this girl who is hooked on instagram and she is four years older then me. She doesn't even have the manners to put it away when we're together, especially now we've been on a few dates.I wonder whether that's a sign of the times now. I have the basic respect to wait until I'm by myself to surf the web on my phone.

I'm looking for a girl who doesn't have facebook or instagram. Whatsapp I can live with. Yeah, I know I'll never find her unless I want to find a tribal woman in Papua New Guinea.

 

[rclark]

25 lol?

25 is a kid

After 30 people start to age and decline I find.

Yeah, you've aged a lot.

 

[blackg]

Because we are being introduced to think like that since forever. And I don’t mean “strive for perfection”, I mean “labeling”. For example, a balding man is shameful, ill, defective, inferior, ugly. It’s all an illusion though. It’s where behemoths lie to make billions. Manipulation. Blue pills, videos about transplants, pills, misery, top tens on what women find hot or not. All I have to do is press a button and say balding is now a trend. Jennifer Aniston claimed today balding is amazing. Brad Pitt shaved his head. It’s all a trend, Jason statham is ugly af, literally has the worst looking big bald head and yet here he is somehow the sexiest bald celeb and with a younger hot chick. How does that happen? It’s just media dude. He doesn’t believe it, you do though. And he knows the girl he’s with isn’t with him because of money. Plenty of dudes out there with hair and youth and money, in Monaco alone you can find hundreds. She’s just into him, and possibly the life of a celeb. They match after all, she is in front of cameras too (model).


I’m not an all knowing annoying owl. I’m in this sh*t as deep as you guys. But we gotta analyze this and look beyond the tree otherwise we are gonna flip out. I mean I got some kid here swallowing estrogen and willingly killing his penis while he is straight. What the f***. We all register here because we need to talk about this issue. I sure can’t talk about it with my friends they all have hair and they just don’t get it. I’m single right now and besides I’ve always been fascinated by the fact that NO girl I was with ever made a comment on it. I was the annoying one always seeking approval and being scared I’d lose her from an Afro guy but no Afro guy came for her. Weird. Or not.

Thanks, you sound familiar .

 

[JeanLucBB]

Because we are being introduced to think like that since forever. And I don’t mean “strive for perfection”, I mean “labeling”. For example, a balding man is shameful, ill, defective, inferior, ugly. It’s all an illusion though. It’s where behemoths lie to make billions. Manipulation. Blue pills, videos about transplants, pills, misery, top tens on what women find hot or not. All I have to do is press a button and say balding is now a trend. Jennifer Aniston claimed today balding is amazing. Brad Pitt shaved his head. It’s all a trend, Jason statham is ugly af, literally has the worst looking big bald head and yet here he is somehow the sexiest bald celeb and with a younger hot chick. How does that happen? It’s just media dude. He doesn’t believe it, you do though. And he knows the girl he’s with isn’t with him because of money. Plenty of dudes out there with hair and youth and money, in Monaco alone you can find hundreds. She’s just into him, and possibly the life of a celeb. They match after all, she is in front of cameras too (model).


I’m not an all knowing annoying owl. I’m in this sh*t as deep as you guys. But we gotta analyze this and look beyond the tree otherwise we are gonna flip out. I mean I got some kid here swallowing estrogen and willingly killing his penis while he is straight. What the f***. We all register here because we need to talk about this issue. I sure can’t talk about it with my friends they all have hair and they just don’t get it. I’m single right now and besides I’ve always been fascinated by the fact that NO girl I was with ever made a comment on it. I was the annoying one always seeking approval and being scared I’d lose her from an Afro guy but no Afro guy came for her. Weird. Or not.

Lay off the drugs buddy.

 

[JeanLucBB]

I have never been on drugs of any kind. Isn’t your words what dumb people say when they fail to understand what they just read so they become inclined to leave some bs under it and sort of “crash the party”? I bet you watch pranks online and listen to bad rap. I also care to guess that picture of yours is the expression you want from girls because you are a sentimental beta who cries inside. But instead all you get is their rejection. I also want to point out that after almost two years and 3500 posts later in this forum you are still bald. Tell me again who is on drugs, while you struggle to hide your insecurities from spilling all over your next desperate post. Good morning champ.

I’m not even bald though, and especially won’t be after transplant #2. This comment has so many bizarre assumptions.

 

[blackg]

Lay off the drugs buddy.

If you can't understand @Capitan_follicle's post then you need to broaden your perspective.

Sure, he rambled a bit but he is clearly a thinking man who can see things others are oblivious to.

 

[JeanLucBB]

If you can't understand @Capitan_follicle's post then you need to broaden your perspective.

Sure, he rambled a bit but he is clearly a thinking man who can see things others are oblivious to.

Much of what’s deemed attractive is rooted in basic instinct and evolution, trying to assume like he does that it’s all cultural is absurd. It’s bad cope. Being bald is inherently bad in regards to perception by the vast majority and always will be end of story.

Also the way it’s written his mind clearly doesn’t function logically or consistently

 

[blackg]

I have never been on drugs of any kind. Isn’t your words what dumb people say when they fail to understand what they just read so they become inclined to leave some bs under it and sort of “crash the party”? I bet you watch pranks online and listen to bad rap. I also care to guess that picture of yours is the expression you want from girls because you are a sentimental beta who cries inside. But instead all you get is their rejection. I also want to point out that after almost two years and 3500 posts later in this forum you are still bald. Tell me again who is on drugs, while you struggle to hide your insecurities from spilling all over your next desperate post. Good morning champ.

You went a bit hard @JeanLucBB and you don't have to do this.
Your esoteric viewpoint on life is enough to get you through on here, I think.

You did bring up and interesting point though.
Whenever someone fails to understand a different interpretation and description of our societies then they will usually trot out the old "you're on drugs" line.

 

[JeanLucBB]

You went a bit hard @JeanLucBB and you don't have to do this.
Your esoteric viewpoint on life is enough to get you through on here, I think.

You did bring up and interesting point thought.
Whenever someone fails to understand a different interpretation and description of our societies then they will usually trot out the old "you're on drugs" line.

But it’s a bad interpretation based on a lack of evidence and his post is all over the place?

It’s a hilarious retort from him though. Confirmed crazy

 

[JeanLucBB]

You are so defeated that you manage to contradict yourself within 2 lines of text. “I’m not even bald” and “won’t be”. Notice the word “even” so desperately placed there. Shows you lie, shows you are in fear of being made fun of and it also shows you don’t even believe your own words. You mention “second transplant” which means not only you were bald to begin with but you clearly still feel sad and bald hence your second appointment for yet another transplant. Finally, as a last resort and clear sign of frustration, you use the dislike button to boost your confidence levels and tell us you are a strong male. A male that doesn’t know to admit he’s wrong, that he deliberately made some stupid comment on a serious post, a male that when confronted and slapped knows how to quickly run away and hide in the closet.

Word of advice son. Next time you think about talking sh*t, think twice. Or you will be publicly humiliated and utterly destroyed just like you have been now. Good day.

Wow my initial comment really cucked you badly didn’t it. You’re getting a bit desperate there.

 

[blackg]

But it’s a bad interpretation based on a lack of evidence and his post is all over the place?

It’s a hilarious retort from him though. Confirmed crazy

Not to me. I enjoyed his lyrical description.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Not to me. I enjoyed his lyrical description.

So did I. But it’s still utterly absurd.