Bald Dave said:Why would anybody try to look 20 at age 30? Firstly 30 isn't old and secondly alot of men are in their prime when they get to 30. CCS just give up this obsession mate and live your life :hump:
s.a.f said:CCS's problem is that he's missed out on his youth and now he wants it back.
I think he's frightend of what the future holds and does'nt want to face it so he's living in a fantasy that one day he'll get back all the experiences that he's missed out on.
Yes 30 is'nt really old but most 30 yr olds have had a good deal of fulfilment and life experience to look back on and are in a good situation to settle down and face whatever the future holds.
"Who needs to grow up? Come join us CCS"
CCS said:I spent my childhood in a whacky religion. Yeah, I had fun hiking and such, but I was so obedient to my religion that I turned down a hot girl who wanted to be my girlfriend in 5th grade. That was before my hairloss, and before my acne. Severe acne from 6th grade to 11th. NW2 in 7th grade, NW3 by age 17, NW4a by age 21ish. Yeah, and from 19 to 22ish, I gave all my pay checks to my parents to help them save their house. My coworkers could not understand why I did not want to get a new paint job for the car I was driving. Kept telling me how to dress to get women, but I did not have any money. Then I went into the military, got out, was really depressed, and spent the next 6 years in college getting C's and working for $7 per hour, unable to get an internship with my C average. All I wanted to do was work longer hours and save for hair grafts, which I got transplants. Now girlfriends or dates, except two women who used me and did not give much in return. I thought engineering was my only escape, but I could not focus. Finally dropped out, and became much happier when I made twice minimum wage delivering pizza and had my own vehicle for the first time in my life (instead of riding a bicycle everywhere like the previous 6 years), and discovered that hair pieces are an option and that I do have hope. I still want to thicken and lower my hairline, build a little muscle, and make a few other improvements, so that women in my league won't have any physical reservations about me. And I absolutely do not want to marry a woman who is not as nympho as I am.
Eureka said:Im a hypocrite because I myself don't do this.. However it still seems like a nice message.
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Harie said:So I'll answer this question since no one else has.
Drop weight
Build muscle
Get a spray on tan (too much sun damages your skin)
Moisturize your face like it's going out of style.
Look into anti-aging creams etc. Yes, they are for women, but will work on men too. Stuff to minimize bags under eyes, black circles under eyes etc.
Eat cleanly
Drink a ton of water
Exfoliate your skin
If you want, look into mild skin peels for your face.
That's as good as you can get short of going to a cosmetologist (sp).
s.a.f said:For Christ sake guys!
Here I am trying to talk some sense into him and you go and encourage him to continue with his paranoid deluded ocd's.
He does'nt need all that sh*t he just needs to come to terms with who he is and accept himself and all his minor flaws, only then can he move on and start being productive with his life.