Shaving my head at 18

[Pls_NW-1]

I mean, no one says that this is for everyone. I was past my breeding days and mostly even my conjugal days when I went this route. When I started, people claimed that HRT was irreversible which it clearly is not except for breast tissue perhaps but when we are talking double A cups or whatever, those can clearly dissipate upon going off HRT meds. They other thing is that if folks can get to a point where their hair is acceptable, they may be able to cycle on and off of estrogen by using R.I's for maintenance every other year or so. Banking sperm is also a good path and for those with partners, ability to plow can be easily maintained although not libido necessarily. Gay men tend to have the most sex in a relationship followed by hetero couples and then lesbian couples statistically have the least sex although they aren't relevant to HRT but my point is that the sexual relationship will make a difference in how one approaches this.

Better have a relationship with hair ngl

 

[Isneezedsohard]

It looks terrible. You have what I kinda have to a lesser extent. It's called the peaked head shape. You have a lump on the top of your head called the saggetal that is very unattractive to women, especially if it isn't centered well and makes your head asymmetrical. I have considered getting skull reconstruction surgery to fix this as I am a nw7. But you still have decent amount of hair. I would highly advise getting on finasteride and trying to save your hair.

Why the f*** would you say this?

 

[Isneezedsohard]

View attachment 154195Quite a change isn’t it 2020-2021. Yeah I’ll grow my beard as much as possible. The hair will be back in a few months anyway I’ll decide what to do next. Maybe just a 2 all over in the future as opposed to a one all over. I can grow a decent beard but haven’t in a while so will try that.

You look great bro!

 

[Capone]

SMP to fill the corners and you're good to go.. pack more muscle on.

 

[1919]

I appreciate your words mate. Call me crazy but I quite like the bald look! I've always said I was more masculine than others and it's just a drawback that comes with it. Also yeah definitely means I can look a bit more intimidating when fighting. I came here thinking it was a bald acceptance forum. Oh was I wrong!

Honestly love your bald look more and more after getting to know you a bit!
This isnt really to you but more to the thread.
People can critique the beauty of a person pixel by pixel all day, the reality is attraction is much more complex. At the end of the day, everyone will have scrapes and bruises they cannot heal; imperfections and struggles make people more "real", interesting, fun, and therefore more attractive (to me e.g. I love stretchmarks). He puts in the effort but doesnt seek the impossibility of perfection.
This thread isnt about trying to change the unchangeable. He asked if his head shape looked silly and which of the two looks are better. Not how he could morph himself into vogue model. The fact that he is not trapped in an obsession of trying to get his hair back like us speaks volumes about where we sit in terms of confidence, momentum, and happiness.
The man said it himself "play the cards you are dealt".

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Honestly love your bald look more and more after getting to know you a bit!
This isnt really to you but more to the thread.
People can critique the beauty of a person pixel by pixel all day, the reality is attraction is much more complex. At the end of the day, everyone will have scrapes and bruises they cannot heal; imperfections and struggles make people more "real", interesting, fun, and therefore more attractive (to me e.g. I love stretchmarks). He puts in the effort but doesnt seek the impossibility of perfection.
This thread isnt about trying to change the unchangeable. He asked if his head shape looked silly and which of the two looks are better. Not how he could morph himself into vogue model. The fact that he is not trapped in an obsession of trying to get his hair back like us speaks volumes about where we sit in terms of confidence, momentum, and happiness.
The man said it himself "play the cards you are dealt".

This sounds similar to the extremely tall MtF's who are wont to say that being that being 200 cm doesn't stop them from passing because it all depends on "how you work it" and how much confidence you show. Yeah, right. If this were true, then the need for puberty blockers would not be an issue. All pubertal MtF's want to go on puberty blockers and with good cause. Except for folks under 170 cm, perhaps a bit taller, passing without puberty blockers is difficult if not impossible. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I don't do that "clothed emperor" dialogue when someone is clearly naked.

I do find it incongrous that non-MtF's care so much about both hair loss and remaining "men". Colonel Kurtz was a man among men in Heart of Darkness, i.e., Marlon Brando in Apocalypse Now. Eisenhower made it work. Ed Harris used to make it work but head shape is key for those who want to appear attractive bald. I also point to Son of Sam and others who look simply horrible even with full coverage. He is far from handsome but Larry David looked ridiculous when he had hair as it was basically a Bozo the Clown hair style with a fro.

If you guys want to bag a decent mate, then I suggest working 80 hours a week and that you start buying drinks for gals when the bars open. Eventually, being rich always works says Jeff Bezos. Many of you are going to feel guilty anyway if you use a hair system, not that you should but people do feel as though they are "cheating" often in this context.

 

[1919]

This sounds similar to the extremely tall MtF's who are wont to say that being that being 200 cm doesn't stop them from passing because it all depends on "how you work it" and how much confidence you show. Yeah, right. If this were true, then the need for puberty blockers would not be an issue. All pubertal MtF's want to go on puberty blockers and with good cause. Except for folks under 170 cm, perhaps a bit taller, passing without puberty blockers is difficult if not impossible. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I don't do that "clothed emperor" dialogue when someone is clearly naked.

I do find it incongrous that non-MtF's care so much about both hair loss and remaining "men". Colonel Kurtz was a man among men in Heart of Darkness, i.e., Marlon Brando in Apocalypse Now. Eisenhower made it work. Ed Harris used to make it work but head shape is key for those who want to appear attractive bald. I also point to Son of Sam and others who look simply horrible even with full coverage. He is far from handsome but Larry David looked ridiculous when he had hair as it was basically a Bozo the Clown hair style with a fro.

If you guys want to bag a decent mate, then I suggest working 80 hours a week and that you start buying drinks for gals when the bars open. Eventually, being rich always works says Jeff Bezos. Many of you are going to feel guilty anyway if you use a hair system, not that you should but people do feel as though they are "cheating" often in this context.

I dont understand the trans experience and these references are beyond me. haha sorry. Regardless, if youre 200cm tall what are you going to do? I mean, you cant really become shorter. Whether you redpill it or not, life goes on. To me, happiness goes beyond beauty. My life doesnt only revolve around sexual conquest. Having great friends and family > hot girlfriend. I want to have a good career not only of the prospect of shagging a dime piece. I guess we have different life philosophies so I cant say either one of us is right.
Though I must say, you are a very interesting character (in a good way)! You would be great "if you could have a dinner conversation with anyone, who would it be"!

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Janey, are you schizophrenic or something? Reading through your posts always makes me feel like I'm in diffrent reality or something.

Everybody goes a little bit crazy sometimes but nope. I have been tested for high functioning Aspergers which Dr. Will Powers claims to be but it doesn't appear that that is even a thing any longer as they have curtailed the autism spectrum. I do have ADD which often inverts creating a condition of hyper-focus which is why I am on so often, partially. Any subject that interests me, I immediately move to master it and then I move to the next thing.

Being non-binary though does present certain aspects of having dual personality syndrome (which is not a disorder, hence syndrome). I often have to refer to myself by both of my names in order to explicate certain aspects of my reality which I find fun and interesting but others often stigmatize people who do this, along with referring to themselves in the third person as dealt with on Seinfeld. Boy that show sure had representations of my reality from hair loss to that and other aspects of George's personality. There's nothing at all wrong with being schizophrenic however and some folks with this condition are indeed brilliant. Goddess Bless.

 

[Pls_NW-1]

I dont understand the trans experience and these references are beyond me. haha sorry. Regardless, if youre 200cm tall what are you going to do? I mean, you cant really become shorter. Whether you redpill it or not, life goes on. To me, happiness goes beyond beauty. My life doesnt only revolve around sexual conquest. Having great friends and family > hot girlfriend. I want to have a good career not only of the prospect of shagging a dime piece. I guess we have different life philosophies so I cant say either one of us is right.
Though I must say, you are a very interesting character (in a good way)! You would be great "if you could have a dinner conversation with anyone, who would it be"!

My life depends on hair. Hair>everything else. Hair=Life xD

 

[1919]

My life depends on hair. Hair>everything else. Hair=Life xD

it do be like that

 

[Pls_NW-1]

it do be like that

Yeah But I don’t want to sacrifice masculinity just for hair, thats just... crazy. Going nuclear is the only option for some. Like my case, RiP.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I dont understand the trans experience and these references are beyond me. haha sorry. Regardless, if youre 200cm tall what are you going to do? I mean, you cant really become shorter. Whether you redpill it or not, life goes on. To me, happiness goes beyond beauty. My life doesnt only revolve around sexual conquest. Having great friends and family > hot girlfriend. I want to have a good career not only of the prospect of shagging a dime piece. I guess we have different life philosophies so I cant say either one of us is right.
Though I must say, you are a very interesting character (in a good way)! You would be great "if you could have a dinner conversation with anyone, who would it be"!

Thank you and I am not saying people shouldn't be MtF in such circumstances or not come out only spare me the moaning about getting clocked. Except for a few folks who are mean, nobody clocks people on purpose. They might not be looking and clock us from our voices or seeing someone over six feet tall equals male, all but invariably. That was one reason why I usually wore skirts and dresses because people don't clock others who are wearing garb that essentially zero cis-males utilize.

There's not currently a single player in the WNBA over six feet tall. Now I am unusual as an MtF in that my large breasts keep me from being clocked essentially always but my mirrors tell me that I am fairly unclockable even without accounting for breast growth. I always ask MtF's if they have mirrors at home when they post incessantly: "Do I pass?" Talk about passive aggressive because if you post that no, you aren't even in the same universe in terms of passing, then they whine to the moderator to try to have you suspended for a week or even banned.

Your other question is interesting and it would change but I won't count religious figures but maybe Alexander the Great or Ludwig. Among the living, probably Paul McCartney or Mick Jagger. What about you? And thanks for the backhanded compliment

I agree that looks shouldn't matter which is sort of trite. The reality is that attractive people and especially attractive females with white cis-female privileges receive far better treatment than males. I will write about this more but in my custody matter, this has been true once I became Jane and had feminized substantially. I am also a polyamorist and I mean, I think more folks should "give it away" if they don't mind since it induces happiness in others. I don't really dig guys but some times I feel guilty for saying no to them.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Yeah But I don’t want to sacrifice masculinity just for hair, thats just... crazy. Going nuclear is the only option for some. Like my case, RiP.

We don't have to do that. Oral min should be tried first. Duta works great for maintenance and DR helps as part of a program. You and I can keep tossing out possible remedies. The main reason I am on here is to help cis-guys not have to go MtF because I don't need any competition, as I kid.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

My life depends on hair. Hair>everything else. Hair=Life xD

Remember that I changed that phrase subtly because it is destructive: Life is not hair but it's pretty damn close....

 

[1919]

Thank you and I am not saying people shouldn't be MtF in such circumstances or not come out only spare me the moaning about getting clocked. Except for a few folks who are mean, nobody clocks people on purpose. They might not be looking and clock us from our voices or seeing someone over six feet tall equals male, all but invariably. That was one reason why I usually wore skirts and dresses because people don't clock others who are wearing garb that essentially zero cis-males utilize.

There's not currently a single player in the WNBA over six feet tall.

Your other question is interesting and it would change but I won't count religious figures but maybe Alexander the Great or Ludwig. Among the living, probably Paul McCartney or Mick Jagger. What about you? And thanks for the backhanded compliment

Truly wasn't meant to be backhanded. You seem to be very knowledgeable and interesting. I wasnt asking you who would you take to dinner but Ill take it.. great choices. I meant to say that If I were to pick someone to have a dinner conversation with, you would be on the list.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Truly wasn't meant to be backhanded. You seem to be very knowledgeable and interesting. I wasnt asking you who would you take to dinner but Ill take it.. great choices. I meant to say that If I were to pick someone to have a dinner conversation with, you would be on the list.

Now, I see. Well what often happens with high functioning folks with ADD is hyper-focus on one subject and that is what often happened with my ex and me and our dinner chats. I had my Buddhist phase and my Beethoven phase and my Godelian phase related to AI and philosphy of knowledge and my natural mind-altering substance phase focused on tryptamines and phenethylamines and oral cannabis, a WWII phase, a law and economics phase focused on Ronald Coase and the Coase theorem, my old-time radio phase, which continues and my language phase: French, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian and less so German. As an MtF, I have devoured everything that I can about every single aspect related to hormones, effective feminization and hair and I have particularly focused on the science of attractiveness in terms of what aspects of my appearance I work on.

Other people probably don't know what it is like when your mind basically never stops and you can do three things at once and you never lack for things that fascinate you.

 

[1919]

Yeah But I don’t want to sacrifice masculinity just for hair, thats just... crazy. Going nuclear is the only option for some. Like my case, RiP.

I feel you. Fina just isnt holding it at all for me (if it was wouldnt be here). Im hopeful for the future though. Transplants are always there to give you a few years. Deep down you know this is a trivial obsession. Youve got a career ahead of you. New friends and family. New places to be. People get crazy fucked up diseases every day that leaves them paralyzed or with debilitations. Time is of the essence!
I hope to move on soon, with or without hair. If haircloning comes in the future I might do it if I care. If other treatments come, Ill try them too.
Im here causes it's therapeutic to be reminded that people have it like me or worse. I dont wanna repeat myself but you can check my post history if you wanna get a little more perspective beyond the echo chamber of sorrows that is hairlosstalk

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Truly wasn't meant to be backhanded. You seem to be very knowledgeable and interesting. I wasnt asking you who would you take to dinner but Ill take it.. great choices. I meant to say that If I were to pick someone to have a dinner conversation with, you would be on the list.

I knew that you weren't being backhanded. I was more so being modest because I might be happier just to be a blonde bimbo who was hot....

 

[1919]

I knew that you weren't being backhanded. I was more so being modest because I might be happier just to be a blonde bimbo who was hot....

I too wish to be a hot blonde bimbo. The universe thought I'd be up for a challenge, so here we are.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I feel you. Fina just isnt holding it at all for me (if it was wouldnt be here). Im hopeful for the future though. Transplants are always there to give you a few years. Deep down you know this is a trivial obsession. Youve got a career ahead of you. New friends and family. New places to be. People get crazy fucked up diseases every day that leaves them paralyzed or with debilitations. Time is of the essence!
I hope to move on soon, with or without hair. If haircloning comes in the future I might do it if I care. If other treatments come, Ill try them too.
Im here causes it's therapeutic to be reminded that people have it like me or worse. I dont wanna repeat myself but you can check my post history if you wanna get a little more perspective beyond the echo chamber of sorrows that is hairlosstalk

It's not trivial. I mean, I have used HRT to resurrect my male self and he has been fully returned to attractiveness but as Jane, there's just a way that people treat me that I find almost intoxicating. I could go stealth but right now, I usually out myself but I am beginning to remind myself that I don't have to do that unless and until someone hits on me but usually chasers like MtF's that are clockable or is it that they can't clock the truly hot ones..... Being attractive is such an advantage that it is off the charts success-wise. I remember in the olden days of door to door salesmen, they did a test and bald men who then wore toupees sold substantially more than previously and they were able to bed down far more of these housewives than when they knocked on doors with their gleaming pates.